Hello, everyone I was hoping somebody could tell me how compatible these charts are as well as the likelihood of childfreedom in both charts. I am aware that these are very compatible charts as well as I know just out of intuition that we're very good together so I suppose I just like hearing it anyway. LOL.
I have been looking up childfree tendencies in charts and it seems that the 5th house is what rules that factor, and my chart has nothing at all in it.
I have always known I have not wanted kids, my partner is one of those who grew up figuring it would happen as it's one of those inevitable things since it's "what people do" and it is really up to the female whether or not babies are in store for better or for worse, but he never felt that paternal pull either way.
I always worried that one day my mind might change, and it has not, and while I am turning 37 soon, my partner just turned 30 in November.
I know he loves me dearly we have known each other for 8 or 9 years and became romantically involved over a year and a half ago. He has always known my stance on kids from day 1, so I don't think he would get into a relationship with me knowing that if he indeed wanted kids. He says he is on the fence about it, but when it comes down to it, he chooses me over anything else.
I understand that Taurus and Cancer are very parental types so I am confused as to how my chart, which has Taurus Sun and Venus with Cancer Ascending and Moon looks to me like it screams babies but I am personally very staunchly childfree. As you can see there is nothing at all in the fifth house for either of us.
I also have to wonder, Scorpios are known to be jealous but he does not appear to be so much. He claims he is not the jealous type, whereas I am, although he said he would get jealous if I were to flirt with someone else, which is against my policy while in a relationship anyway so that is not an issue. However I do find it odd how he doesn't seem to mind and almost encourages celebrity crushes, which I also do not have currently, as I also toss those when I am in a relationship. Natural horse blinders, if you will.
I know Scorpios don't reveal their weaknesses, although slowly over time he has admitted his soft and vulnerable aspects to me which are always cherished and appreciated. I worship that man.
So what I need covered are:
1) Childfree tendencies in both charts or lack thereof
2) Jealousy and/or lack thereof, tendency to hide it or lie about it on the Scorpio chart
My birth info is: May 4 1976, Halifax Nova Scotia, Canada, 10:10 AM
His: November 15 1982, Manchester, UK, 6:15 PM
Any help and insight would be greatly appreciated.
The following links are our composite chart, then mine, then his.
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