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T O P I C R E V I E Wwhitewitch111Ok, here it goes, so my boyfriend has problems maintaining erections, I mean in certain positions, in others he can no problem. I admit, he is thirteen years older then me, at 32, and I at 19.Well, I decided to have sex with him the other day, even though I really shouldn't be at this point. Anyway, I didn't want to be on top, and I wanted him to be, but it once again didn't work out this way.So I'm just wondering if the tarot can answer this, because I can't figure it out, and neither can he, and he doesn't have health insurance to go the doctor right now, so I am wondering if the tarot can answer this.Is this psychological, or physical? Is there anything he/we can do to fix this? I would love it if anyone could help.Love&LightBoth enthusiasm and desire are lacking for some reason. TwirlI think it might be in the mind/emotional level to be honest. If I look in my cards I think he is actually in awe of women on a divine level. So much that it feels like having sex might feel like 'violating that innocence/pureness' on a deeper level. This idea seems to block the excitement and/or possibly some other unknown fears that come up/making him fearful giving the power away. You may want to look into how his mum was treated by men as well/his connection to her. There might be something there and/or some othe emotional dissapointment related to the past. It's not like he likes to drink when it happens, right? redshoesWW it may help to look into his chart to confirm the things that Twirl is referring to....i had two r/ships with men that had mother issues and both of them had sexual probswhitewitch111This is his birth chart, can anyone help out?[IMG]http://i1356.photobucket.com/albums/q730/frankieelizabeth/briansbirthchart_ zpsea1ff4fb.gif[/IMG]redshoesLooks like he has a moon-pluto aspect...here is some info on it...the guy i was with had the conjunction and had such major issues connected with the mother that it almost crucified me...5yrs on he wouldnt look at any of it, so i walked away. Moon-pluto is very secretive. Looks like brian has the sextile, but this stuff is on the conjunction.The guy i was with lived a double life and could never be honest with his mother http://www.leahwhitehorse.com/2013/09/27/natal-aspects-moon-conjunct-pluto/ redshoesHe also has moon square uranus, these people find it very hard to settle down and again there is stuff that is problematic with the mother, usually rebellion http://darkstarastrology.com/moon-square-uranus/ Love&LightHave you tried discussing it with him openly but subtly? Not that it always helps but in many cases it does.redshoes quote:Originally posted by Love&Light:Both enthusiasm and desire are lacking for some reason. Hi LoveWhat cards did you draw for this? Love&LightHi redshoes, I drew exactly the ones I have stated. Enthusiasm and Desire from The Buddha Cards. I asked what was lacking. Why do you ask dear? Just curious.
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quote:Originally posted by Love&Light:Both enthusiasm and desire are lacking for some reason.
Hi Love
What cards did you draw for this?
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