Thanks Cat!Yeah this slow going used to frustrate me a bit but looking back I'm glad its happened that way.
Weird thing is I've been so focused on worrying about whether or not he likes me I hadn't stopped to think about anything else.
I kinda think he's pretty much the same as me in a lot of ways but when it comes to us I think he's way ahead of me.
FInally it seems like we may be getting it together and all I wanna do is back off completely! Which is what he was doing for so long. Lol.
Now I've started to think ok we could actually have something here I'm thinking about all those things I kinda dismissed when I was busy worrying about whether or not he liked me.
He's thought about them before, lots of times and came up with so many reasons we couldn't get together. He didn't tell me what and I didn't ask (maybe cos I thought it was an excuse on his part) but now I know anyway because they're probably what I'm thinking right now!
All these things I half thought about peripherally but they're seeming pretty real right now. Its scary.
But in saying that it makes me realise just how much I actually care for him. Its scary but I want to take up the challenge.
Every time I see him or talk to him I like him more and usually my little crushes only last a week or two.
I'm single, he's single (and we're somewhat commited already ie: not seeing anyone else) We're both nice people and in the end its our decision. Nobody else's opinions should really matter, we won't hurt anybody by being together.