We met a month ago and from the first date, he was super interested. Kissed me added me on facebook, exted and emailed me several times per day. Told me he really liked me. We live a little way from each other though and it migh make meeting difficult so he said to be cautious as he didnt want either of us hurt. He was very talkative and friendly and we got on well. We have similar humour, tastes, food tastes, etc. Similar outlook on life.
He flirted with me, told me he really liked me. If felt right to kiss me etc.
I never had to prompt him to contact me.
He just pulled it out of nowhere that it no longer felt right and that he was not hugely bothered about travelling to see me.
He was very very busy over the last couple of weeks. But he said he hasn't over the last couple of weeks felt a burning desire to cancel everything to come to see me so he was no longer feeling it. He still likes me but thinks realistically it will just be friends. He doesn't want to lose a good friendship (after 2 meetings?!) So wants to stay in touch and see how it goes in a month or so. But he really likes me. Enjoys being in contact with me. He doesn't want to lose me. Can we be friends he says. stay in touch and reassess in a month...but realistically he thinks just friends as we get on so well and he has stopped feeling it.
He revealled he was dumped horribly by his on / off gf in July. He thought he was ok but he isn't ok. He is scared to get involved again. He cannot explain why his feelings changed. Doesn't know why it happened. He had some changes at work and he thought he would get to move where I live but he can't move now.
He was in touch with me daily until this. Doesn't want to lose me as a friend....and happy to keep meeting. We get on like a house on fire and have similar humour. Said to reassess on a month.
My thoughts are to disappear and let him come to me.
Ideas on how to handle him / the situation.
His placements are:
Sun is in 29 Degrees Pisces
Moon is in 05 Degrees Aquarius
Mercury is in 11 Degrees Pisces
Venus is in 14 Degrees Aquarius
Mars is in 14 Degrees Libra
Jupiter is in 09 Degrees Scorpio
Saturn is in 20 Degrees Libra
Uranus is in 04 Degrees Sagittarius
Neptune is in 27 Degrees Sagittarius
Pluto is in 26 Degrees Libra