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AmelieRose81
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posted December 13, 2013 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We met a month ago and from the first date, he was super interested. Kissed me added me on facebook, exted and emailed me several times per day. Told me he really liked me. We live a little way from each other though and it migh make meeting difficult so he said to be cautious as he didnt want either of us hurt.

He was very talkative and friendly and we got on well. We have similar humour, tastes, food tastes, etc. Similar outlook on life.

He flirted with me, told me he really liked me. If felt right to kiss me etc.

I never had to prompt him to contact me.

He just pulled it out of nowhere that it no longer felt right and that he was not hugely bothered about travelling to see me.

He was very very busy over the last couple of weeks. But he said he hasn't over the last couple of weeks felt a burning desire to cancel everything to come to see me so he was no longer feeling it. He still likes me but thinks realistically it will just be friends. He doesn't want to lose a good friendship (after 2 meetings?!) So wants to stay in touch and see how it goes in a month or so. But he really likes me. Enjoys being in contact with me. He doesn't want to lose me. Can we be friends he says. stay in touch and reassess in a month...but realistically he thinks just friends as we get on so well and he has stopped feeling it.

He revealled he was dumped horribly by his on / off gf in July. He thought he was ok but he isn't ok. He is scared to get involved again. He cannot explain why his feelings changed. Doesn't know why it happened. He had some changes at work and he thought he would get to move where I live but he can't move now.

He was in touch with me daily until this. Doesn't want to lose me as a friend....and happy to keep meeting. We get on like a house on fire and have similar humour. Said to reassess on a month.

My thoughts are to disappear and let him come to me.

Ideas on how to handle him / the situation.

His placements are:

Sun is in 29 Degrees Pisces

Moon is in 05 Degrees Aquarius

Mercury is in 11 Degrees Pisces

Venus is in 14 Degrees Aquarius

Mars is in 14 Degrees Libra

Jupiter is in 09 Degrees Scorpio

Saturn is in 20 Degrees Libra

Uranus is in 04 Degrees Sagittarius

Neptune is in 27 Degrees Sagittarius

Pluto is in 26 Degrees Libra

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LovelyAries86
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posted December 16, 2013 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Amelie!

I completely relate to your story. One of the last guys I really liked had this Pisces/Aqua combo. Completely confusing FOR SURE.

I'll reply further when I return from lunch. Welcome!

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LovelyAries86
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posted December 19, 2013 11:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:

He just pulled it out of nowhere that it no longer felt right and that he was not hugely bothered about travelling to see me.

He is scared to get involved again. He cannot explain why his feelings changed. Doesn't know why it happened.

He was in touch with me daily until this. Doesn't want to lose me as a friend....and happy to keep meeting. We get on like a house on fire and have similar humour. Said to reassess on a month.

My thoughts are to disappear and let him come to me.


What is this "reassess in a month" mess?? Like he's a Doctor checking up on a patient. Sounds totally ridiculous on his part!

I definitely advise you to disappear. Don't chase after any man - especially a man w/ the Pisces/Aqua combo. Let him come to you!! As soon as you show this guy how much you actually like him...he pulls away, starts playing mind games.

The Aqua side of them is obsessed w/ "friendship". Therefore, they often *blur* the line between friends & lovers and they have no clue how to make you feel "special" over time. At first..it's seems like magic, but it's just a trick.

They are VERY charming men. But they just aren't worth the hassle! You are NOT the problem - they simply DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. That is their problem, not yours.

They definitely blow hot & cold. Huge turn-off for me.

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AmelieRose81
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posted December 19, 2013 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well that was sound advice!!! I have left him completely alone.

only 2 days after blowing cold he liked pictures of mine on Facebook.

only 4 days after pulling the lets be friends he texted me asking after me and my Christmas holidays and putting kisses on the texts.....what in the world.

that was 2 days ago.... should I ignore or reply and be cool!!!!

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LovelyAries86
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posted December 19, 2013 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
.... should I ignore or reply and be cool!!!!

Depends on your goal.

Is your goal just to f*ck w/ his head?? LOL if so, text him back...3 days later...with a one-word answer.

Otherwise, cut him completely off. Always play it cool. No matter what, with his guy.

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AmelieRose81
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posted December 19, 2013 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I do like the guy.....

It will be 3 days tomorrow that he texted.

What should I do if I still genuinely like him but am unsure of what he wants.

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Nine
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posted December 19, 2013 09:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^It's a painful lessen to learn, but I believe you have to walk away from this one.

He's already had his Saturn return but is still single - PLAYER!!

Your "relationship" hasn't gone anywhere but he's already playing games - RED FLAG!!

Please leave this guy alone. That means you can't be friends, allow this and he'll charm you into a FWB situation.

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LovelyAries86
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posted December 19, 2013 10:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nine:
^^It's a painful lessen to learn, but I believe you have to walk away from this one.

He's already had his Saturn return but is still single - PLAYER!!

Your "relationship" hasn't gone anywhere but he's already playing games - RED FLAG!!

Please leave this guy alone. That means you can't be friends, allow this and he'll charm you into a FWB situation.


^^What she said!!!

I know it's hard to walk away from him -- I told you, I dated a guy w/ his exact chart. But you must do it & do it cold turkey!

Being friends will only make YOUR pain worse. I'm sorry Amelie, I do sympathize. But guys like him have to really take the time to EMOTIONALLY mature - on their own, before they can offer you the relationship that you deserve.

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AmelieRose81
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posted December 20, 2013 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is he likely to keep chasing?!

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LovelyAries86
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posted December 20, 2013 08:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
Is he likely to keep chasing?!

If you ignore him for awhile? Yes. And then he'll get bored again (no matter what) and continue playing games.

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charlie
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posted December 20, 2013 10:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
What is this "reassess in a month" mess?? Like he's a Doctor checking up on a patient. Sounds totally ridiculous on his part!

I definitely advise you to disappear. Don't chase after any man - especially a man w/ the Pisces/Aqua combo. Let him come to you!! As soon as you show this guy how much you actually like him...he pulls away, starts playing mind games.

The Aqua side of them is obsessed w/ "friendship". Therefore, they often *blur* the line between friends & lovers and they have no clue how to make you feel "special" over time. At first..it's seems like magic, but it's just a trick.

They are VERY charming men. But they just aren't worth the hassle! You are NOT the problem - they simply DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. That is their problem, not yours.

They definitely blow hot & cold. Huge turn-off for me.


I just want to add that without having NO planets in aqua or pisces but a stellium in 11H (aqua) and a pisces dsc, I am the exact same way so I can only imagine how this guy is...I would leave me too..

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LovelyAries86
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posted December 22, 2013 02:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charlie:
I just want to add that without having NO planets in aqua or pisces but a stellium in 11H (aqua) and a pisces dsc, I am the exact same way so I can only imagine how this guy is...I would leave me too..

At least you can be honest with yourself. LOL. Our guys couldn't!

Denial is a disease.

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AmelieRose81
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posted April 12, 2014 04:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi

Just am update.
I stayed casual friends with him and I truly wasnt bothered about him. I replied to his texts but rarely initiated. We only texted every 2 weeks or so.

He randomly unfriended me on facebook and I asked him what was up.
he said the frequency of contact was worrying him and it is greater than that between him and his closest friends.

I told him that he initiated the contact, he wanted to be friends and that he shouldn't flatter himself. He backed down.

What an idiot. Is this all part of the game playing?

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usc277
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posted April 12, 2014 08:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
Hi

Just am update.
I stayed casual friends with him and I truly wasnt bothered about him. I replied to his texts but rarely initiated. We only texted every 2 weeks or so.

He randomly unfriended me on facebook and I asked him what was up.
he said the frequency of contact was worrying him and it is greater than that between him and his closest friends.

I told him that he initiated the contact, he wanted to be friends and that he shouldn't flatter himself. He backed down.

What an idiot. Is this all part of the game playing?



Hi

If you like him, say it to his face.. If he runs then your done with him..its his loss not yours.. Am a Pisces sun/ Aires moon..when I like someone I tell them, usually after a week.

I just can't handle the what if scenario in my head...so I use all my cards...regret is painful

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AmelieRose81
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posted April 13, 2014 06:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought I liked him but after this little performance of his I am not sure.

It wasnt really ,my question.

What I wanted to know is if this is typical of someone with his venus and other placements.

His last relationship was on/off for a long time.

he has blown hot and cold many times al ready with me. He came on very strong then ran away saying lets be friends, then he came back as friends and kept in touch.

then he threw it back in my face and said he was concerned about the frequency of contact when he inititated most of it.

He was quite rude to me and unfriended me on facebook.
so I reminded him he pursued friendship and now is accusing me of being too familiar and so I told him not to flatter himself.

my question really was, is this to be expected with venus aqua and moon guys?

Are they fickle and blow hot and cold like this?
When they push you away and you go, do they change their minds again and again?

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