NickiG,When I was younger, I felt judged as if I should be more mature.
When I was sexual, I felt judged as if I should not be sexual.
When I became a mother, I felt judged as if I should be a certain "type" of mother.
When I was married, I felt judged as if I should be a "type" of wife.
(this goes on, sorry NickiG...heheh)
When I got divorced, I felt judged.
When I dated again, I felt judged.
When I made any mistake, I felt judged.
Even, when I was successful, I felt judged.
To this day, people still judge me and make me feel as if I should fill THEIR type of mold and conform to them.
But, what I've learned is that I have a BIRTH RIGHT to be who I am. I have a right to do what I want. And, I don't have to give a damn to fill a mold, unless I choose to and WANT to...
So, fill "your own mold".
Hope that helps