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Ami Anne | Do you think it is anger? ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne | I will give my experience later but I want to hear from you. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Barbiegirl19 | Is this only for those currently depressed? |
CatMote | its more a sense of being trapped and a sense of powerlessness. ------------------ "Perhaps there are new plateaus to reach, even greater heights to which I must ascend." |
DeepFreeze | Emotion in my view can not be put into neat boxes. It's more like the ball of Christmas lights on the movie, "Christmas Vacation". |
Ami Anne | quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Is this only for those currently depressed?
Anyone lol
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DeepFreeze | I think it can be, to answer directly.
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T | quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: I think it can be, to answer directly.
I agree. "Can" is the key word. I don't think it can be chalked up to any one emotion or reason. We are very complex beings. And especially for women, I think hormones and other physiological factors often come into play more than we realize or acknowledge. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum3/HTML/003388.html More to say, but I'm only taking a short break atm. |
DeepFreeze | Excellent point! I hadn't even thought of that. |
Ami Anne | let's narrow it down to depression cause by anger turned inward. That is really my question. Any experiences with this? ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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DeepFreeze | quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: let's narrow it down to depression cause by anger turned inward. That is really my question. Any experiences with this?
Yes, I think. I had depression that turned to anger back in the day. Anything that I can answer? |
florence | quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: let's narrow it down to depression cause by anger turned inward. That is really my question. Any experiences with this?
Yes, I've had this and find often that reflex correlates to masochistic behaviour. And that masochism is sadism turned inwards. I had a spiritual 'guru' of sorts who deliberately triggered anger to heal me but I've sun-Chiron and I just don't think I know how to exist without pain = depression. What T said about hormones I think is really valid too though I've not read the link |
Ami Anne | Thank you, Florence! Thanks DF I am gonna share my experience but I wanted to hear from people first. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by CatMote: its more a sense of being trapped and a sense of powerlessness.
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ungumuda | quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: let's narrow it down to depression cause by anger turned inward. That is really my question. Any experiences with this?
I think it's inability to let go. We often attach ourselves too much to something, whether it's someone, material thing, our emotions, especially anger and fear. I struggled with fear of rejection and failure, still do sometimes. And this inability to let go of those fear make me feeling stuck and hopeless. In other word depressed. I'm now learning to let go. I'm learning to accept that sometimes, thing doesn't go the way I planned, and that is not my fault, and it doesn't always mean bad thing, either. It just part of life journey. |
DeepFreeze | For me. My depression turned to anger and it was extremely clear why. (This was years ago, BTW) They had happiness and I did not. I didn't know how to get it and it p****d me off something crazy. I had some really messed up thoughts of tearing away other people's happiness. But I sat in my room, silent. |
Ami Anne | Thank you Ung Thank you, DF ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne | I had such an epiphany about the whole thing but it will take me time to write it out. I am really getting a lot from what people have written and I thank you! ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne | Here is some of my story and I will write more if I don't finish because I am expecting a call lol I started realizing that my depression was anger. My mother was nasty to me and I did not ignore it, gloss over it, etc. I said in a very strong voice that I did not want to continue this discussion. I repeated it until she said she did not want to talk to me anymore. Then, I realized I was not depressed any more. I will be back. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Sailor Gemini | It could be, but I think it depends on the person. I know mine is for sure. ------------------ I call the planets by their Greek names. Now please stop asking which asteroids I'm using? ^-^' -La Sorcière du Temps |
Ami Anne | Then, to add to it. I was doing a favor for someone by going someplace they wanted me to go. We were on a one lane road and the person was tailgating an RV I am super cop like when it comes to driving. Driving school says to stay 3 car lengths behind cars and I told the person I was nervous about the driving. He was not nice about it at all. In fact, he was nasty. I settled down for a half hour of being nervous. THEN, I said that if he ever wanted me to do any more favors for him, he better stop driving in a way that made me uncomfortable. The rest of the way, he pulled over and let every tailgating person pass and did not tailgate himself. The moral of the story is that I valued and honored my anger because I am worth it and you are too ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne | I finally figured out my puzzle. It has been very long in the coming. I could not understand my mother for the life of me. I could not stop thinking about it. I could not stop trying to figure out what was her deal. Now, through several experiences, most especially, my son working with someone just like her, I feel I can let it go. My son realized it was hopeless to ever make head way with this person. There was no "winning her over". There was no way to form a relationship that had any stability. I saw my son go through it and be tormented by it, just like I was. He could not understand and he could not make sense. My take away lesson is a combination of factors. Winston Churchill said if you had no enemies, it means you made no difference. However, more than that, I realize that it is only my own reaction I can control. I don't have to sit and wait for what another person will do to me( or won't) I can control my side of any issue, only. That is a tremendous peace. Thanks for listening!
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Ami Anne | In the interim between writing this thread, I had a great talk with my mother, in which she really owned how she was. This was really good but tonight she was back to her old tricks lol ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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