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T O P I C R E V I E Wcolorful butterflyConfident people : Open minded, gives complements, willing to learn from others, takes responsibility for thoughts , feelings, actions, results. Operates on principles, admits mistakes, not afraid to show flaws, positive thinker , risk taker, never talks negatively about others, abundance mindset giver, likes spending time with people, accepts others differences( tolerant) , can laugh at themselves, makes decisions quickly, keeps learning and growingInsecure people: close minded, seeks validation, know it all, makes excuses for everything, do what feels good, blames others, comes off as a flake because they hide flaws, negative thinker, stays in comfort zone, gossips, scarcity mindset thinker, dislikes people, judgmental, worry about what others will think, can't make decisions , stays stuck in old ways and bad habitsHoping this will help anyone needing something to help them out of a rut, to become determined and healthy way of being . Please void if you do not agree, it is just meant to be positive inspiration to others for change if they want to do so. RandallThank you. RandallMay we try to be in the first group. colorful butterfly quote:Originally posted by Randall:May we try to be in the first group. Defiantly!!! teaselI think a lot of people are in both groups. colorful butterfly quote:Originally posted by teasel:I think a lot of people are in both groups. Yea, but they have nothing to do with you. It is usually something going on with them, something their dealing with on the inside and their projecting it back out. Took me a long time to understand this and not to take stuff in or personal that people say or do. While also just working on being the best me possible.teasel quote:Originally posted by colorful butterfly: Yea, but they have nothing to do with you. It is usually something going on with them, something their dealing with on the inside and their projecting it back out. Took me a long time to understand this and not to take stuff in or personal that people say or do. While also just working on being the best me possible.Depending on the day, I still take it personally. This is something I worked out years ago - sometimes I could just let it go, other times it hurt too much to do that. There are some who will keep pushing, when they realize that you aren't reacting in the way they hoped. They seem to need a bad reaction out of you. Randall quote:Originally posted by teasel:I think a lot of people are in both groups. Ami AnneGreat thread, Cb ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/colorful butterfly quote:Originally posted by teasel: Depending on the day, I still take it personally. This is something I worked out years ago - sometimes I could just let it go, other times it hurt too much to do that. There are some who will keep pushing, when they realize that you aren't reacting in the way they hoped. They seem to need a bad reaction out of you. Yea, I still have moments where things are not so easy to handle the way I would like to , people seem to want to get at you for whatever reason . Usually I can ignore a lot as I learned some people just have something mental going on upstairs and they need those things because their lacking in some way but there are times where someone can punch just right , then I end up snapping their head off like Cancers do. I try to shut down first but sometimes it isn't always possible.colorful butterfly quote:Originally posted by Ami Anne:Great thread, Cb Thanks Ami!!!Ami AnneYou are most welcome, my Friend ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/teasel quote:Originally posted by colorful butterfly: Yea, I still have moments where things are not so easy to handle the way I would like to , people seem to want to get at you for whatever reason . Usually I can ignore a lot as I learned some people just have something mental going on upstairs and they need those things because their lacking in some way but there are times where someone can punch just right , then I end up snapping their head off like Cancers do. I try to shut down first but sometimes it isn't always possible.That isn't exactly what I was thinking of ("something mental going on"), although it is easier to not take things so personally, when you realize that not one thing you do, is going to be right when it comes to certain people. colorful butterfly quote:Originally posted by teasel: That isn't exactly what I was thinking of ("something mental going on"), although it is easier to not take things so personally, when you realize that not one thing you do, is going to be right when it comes to certain people. Jupiter conjunct mercury in Leo ( something mental going on) , probably a little theatrical there. I agree sometimes nothing you do can make someone else happy, they have to decide to be that on the inside first .
Insecure people: close minded, seeks validation, know it all, makes excuses for everything, do what feels good, blames others, comes off as a flake because they hide flaws, negative thinker, stays in comfort zone, gossips, scarcity mindset thinker, dislikes people, judgmental, worry about what others will think, can't make decisions , stays stuck in old ways and bad habits
Hoping this will help anyone needing something to help them out of a rut, to become determined and healthy way of being . Please void if you do not agree, it is just meant to be positive inspiration to others for change if they want to do so.
quote:Originally posted by Randall:May we try to be in the first group.
Defiantly!!!
quote:Originally posted by teasel:I think a lot of people are in both groups.
Yea, but they have nothing to do with you. It is usually something going on with them, something their dealing with on the inside and their projecting it back out. Took me a long time to understand this and not to take stuff in or personal that people say or do. While also just working on being the best me possible.
quote:Originally posted by colorful butterfly: Yea, but they have nothing to do with you. It is usually something going on with them, something their dealing with on the inside and their projecting it back out. Took me a long time to understand this and not to take stuff in or personal that people say or do. While also just working on being the best me possible.
Depending on the day, I still take it personally. This is something I worked out years ago - sometimes I could just let it go, other times it hurt too much to do that. There are some who will keep pushing, when they realize that you aren't reacting in the way they hoped. They seem to need a bad reaction out of you.
------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE.
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
quote:Originally posted by teasel: Depending on the day, I still take it personally. This is something I worked out years ago - sometimes I could just let it go, other times it hurt too much to do that. There are some who will keep pushing, when they realize that you aren't reacting in the way they hoped. They seem to need a bad reaction out of you.
Yea, I still have moments where things are not so easy to handle the way I would like to , people seem to want to get at you for whatever reason . Usually I can ignore a lot as I learned some people just have something mental going on upstairs and they need those things because their lacking in some way but there are times where someone can punch just right , then I end up snapping their head off like Cancers do. I try to shut down first but sometimes it isn't always possible.
quote:Originally posted by Ami Anne:Great thread, Cb
Thanks Ami!!!
quote:Originally posted by colorful butterfly: Yea, I still have moments where things are not so easy to handle the way I would like to , people seem to want to get at you for whatever reason . Usually I can ignore a lot as I learned some people just have something mental going on upstairs and they need those things because their lacking in some way but there are times where someone can punch just right , then I end up snapping their head off like Cancers do. I try to shut down first but sometimes it isn't always possible.
That isn't exactly what I was thinking of ("something mental going on"), although it is easier to not take things so personally, when you realize that not one thing you do, is going to be right when it comes to certain people.
quote:Originally posted by teasel: That isn't exactly what I was thinking of ("something mental going on"), although it is easier to not take things so personally, when you realize that not one thing you do, is going to be right when it comes to certain people.
Jupiter conjunct mercury in Leo ( something mental going on) , probably a little theatrical there. I agree sometimes nothing you do can make someone else happy, they have to decide to be that on the inside first .
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