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LeylaLeFay unregistered
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posted June 18, 2004 09:20 PM
Am having problems with my aries, when every astrologer said july was supposed to the month of our big union. He's being a real jerk and p*ssing me off.can somebody tell me what they're looking at in my chart so I can check it over myself? January 24, 1976 Houston Tx 4:23pm If I wasn't already secretly seeing another man on the side that he didn't know about, I'd be really hurt. IP: Logged |
scorpbaby unregistered
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posted June 18, 2004 11:16 PM
hey leyla, If you haven't checked this out already, go to astro.com to see the details of your chart. It's a free website and very accurate. I'm sorry for your heartache... To me it seems Aries men carry gigantic egos and,at times , are only concerned about their own hearts. Don't let him get the best of you! Hope this helps IP: Logged |
26taurus unregistered
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posted June 19, 2004 02:36 AM
leyla, sorry to hear about your heartache, i've been heartbroken by an Aries too. Go down this forum a bit and find topic "hey ladies" - it might make you laugh. Better yet get the book I recommend in there. And yes astro.com is superb for anything you need to know regarding horoscopes.IP: Logged |
Special unregistered
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posted June 20, 2004 02:43 PM
LeylaLeFay, sorry to hear you're hurting I'm sure the proficient astrologers here will help as much as they can. One day you'll "remember the pain, but feel it no longer".. part of something I wrote when my heart was in pieces ------------------ "Be humble for you are made of earth. Be noble for you are made of stars." Serbian proverb IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted June 20, 2004 10:37 PM
Being heartbroken isn't everything, that's the best consolation I have. Luckily we heal, and there are other sweeter Arians out there who need love, and act like they deserve it. Do not forget to write down how you felt during this relationship so you can decide if you want to feel this way again or not, were there any good moments? Hold on to those, but let the relationship go. If you broke up then it wasn't meant to be, See dating and drama http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/000983.html I can tell you that astro.com has a wonderful section on love and flirting that is highly accurate. What did it say about your union with the Aries? Let us know, Natasha Taurus
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LeylaLeFay unregistered
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posted June 21, 2004 08:26 AM
I've been to astro.com, and have already looked at both his chart and mine, with a microscope.My question was about *predictive* astrology, I was told some planets would hit for me in July, specifically the 4th of July. I wanted to get a look at this myself so I could decide what it means b/c the astrologer said it was a love union between me and this Aries. After his "goodbye" letter I realize she must be mistaken. IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted June 21, 2004 12:21 PM
Who was the astrologer? Not every reading is correct, I have found. It's possible July is good for love but not with this person.You were meant to learn something but we can't always keep others in our life, I know I am a fixed sign too and constant attention is important. I suggest spending time with other fixed signs for a while, and take some time for yourself. Retreat and regroup OR find more readings. I can recommend a few, do you prefer man or woman? Did you really love the Aries? Natasha Taurus IP: Logged |
LeylaLeFay unregistered
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posted June 22, 2004 08:49 AM
Well, actually it was 3 readers:1) A buddhist monk, channeler 2) A tarot reader 3) An astrologer And they ALL said July. As if they'd called each other beforehand. It's really kind of creepy. I guess I'd pinned my hopes on the Aries b/c I wanted it to be him. After this episode, I'm doubting anything will happen AT ALL. That's why I wanted to have a look at it myself. IP: Logged |
Tītania unregistered
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posted June 22, 2004 10:07 AM
Well if the monk/astrologer/tarot reader didn't specifically say it was your aries man, then for all you know, you might bump into a twin soul next month and forget all your pain and worries. Obviously I'm not sure what it was exactly that they told you, but sometimes it helps to look at things over and over, because sometimes we learn a certain pattern and keep that in mind and have trouble seeing any other way. eg. when learning lines for a play, i find i read over the lines but don't actually take them in because i already have the preconceived idea of what they are, and it isnt until closer look that sometimes i find i got a word or two wrong =)What i mean is, try to think of the advice given to you by these seers, but without this aries male included. Perhaps the answer is staring you right in the face. It might not be related to him after all. Perhaps he will re enter your life.. but it is best for you not to hold on to such a hope, as it only brings more sadness if this does not come into fruition. In my experience, the only cure for my broken heart, was a combination of the 'heartbreaker's' extended absence from my life, and the introduction of someone new to pine away for, helping me shift my focus. I guess thats what some people do when they lose a pet - buying a new kitten or puppy or what have you makes you want to care for them, they are vulnerable, and you are able to put your loving energy into a new being. When a special being leaves your life suddenly, that energy ... it is so used to being put out, toward this being, that suddenly it has nowhere to go, and that brings on a great feeling of depression. We want that release... but have nowhere to put the energy. The introduction of a new love can be the outlet for this energy, if you allow it. Perhaps a new love is just waiting for you to bump into him in July Until then, make as much use as you can of these days as a time to heal. Best of luck. IP: Logged |
LeylaLeFay unregistered
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posted June 22, 2004 01:50 PM
I put him out of my mind the instant he said "lets just be friends." My only thought now is, if not him, then who? But you are right. I could easily bump into someone else in July. Perhaps the Aries was merely a stop-gap. IP: Logged |
Tītania unregistered
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posted July 15, 2004 09:59 AM
Any news of the romantic kind for you yet, Leyla?IP: Logged |
LeylaLeFay unregistered
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posted July 15, 2004 11:02 AM
Not sure how to answer. It's a complicated.IP: Logged |
Sheaa Olein unregistered
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posted July 15, 2004 11:08 AM
Good advice again, on writing things down sthenri Welcome Titania! LeylaLeFay - sending love your way ------------------ Sheaa Olein, previously Known as the Knowflake 'Special' IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted July 15, 2004 03:21 PM
Make sure this person is not already in your life, but you haven't "recognized" him, or each other yet. It could be someone you trust, but never thought of him in "that way". It may not be the person "of your choosing" in a sense. IP: Logged |
Purpleflame unregistered
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posted July 15, 2004 05:10 PM
Hi, Just remember July is not over yet..Wishing that you get what you wish for.Flame IP: Logged | |