posted August 24, 2004 05:07 PM              

I'm a Pisces married to an Aqua and'll say more later, but right now have to jump off to make an early dinner.

posted August 24, 2004 10:36 PM              

What's both of ya'll's Moons and Ascendants?
Those'll make a big difference.

I'm a Fish w/ a 1st House Uranus trine my Sun and an Aqua Moon conj. my dude's Sun to the degree, so I may have an unfair advantage; and Jase (my husband) has a Taurus Moon, Scorp Asc, and a super-mushy and highly aspected 4th House Pisces Mars, so I have the feeling that he's more cuddly and emotive than many Water Bearers.

That being said, even he needs to just go sometimes - usually only for a drive and random ramble for a couple of hours. I have the same thing going on and so can understand on an intellectual level that urge, but the pouty water parts of me still sulk and mumble, "But why would he want to go away from meee? Doesn't he love me? Doesn't he care?" when I know very well that he does. When an Aqua goes on one of their journeys, they're not doing it out of contempt or even necessarily boredom - it's just an itch that needs to be scratched. They need to go see and play and ask and ponder. *See NOTE I*
The Aqua that I'm loving has a tendency to express his love several times a day (overandoverandover again), but it seems that some - especially with a Cappie Merc and/or an Earthen Mars - might go eons without doing so and then be completely perplexed when their SO expresses hurt or alarm. "What do you mean I don't love you? I said that I did! When? Well, our wedding day, of course! It was only 15 years ago! Don't you remember?"
To them, you see, saying it is IT.
Once it's said, it's true - and if they say it's so, most Aquarians are honorable almost to the point of absurdity and will not think of betraying their word.
Granted, the reason they may not think of betrayal might be that they're too busy thinking about myriad other things, and you may seldom get on-the-radar confirmation of their fealty and love because of their incessant uber-ADDness (off-the-radar stuff being completely likely, however), but they're not not thinking of you...they're just thinking of so much other stuff, too.
That may be scant comfort to a Sweet Fishy Maid, but know that - aspects, placements, and circumstances depending, of course - once he declares adoration and feelings of best-friendship for you, you're always there somewhere, no matter what else may shift and flash through his heart and head.
*See NOTE II*

NOTE I: And this may very well be very off, but I get the feeling that the reason that they've got to trek alone (or without their beau or sweetheart) sometimes isn't because they're cold and unfeeling - it's because they so completely get into another's universe that they must separate or risk a frightening blurring of what's actually a weak sense of self (being that they're ruled by an outer planet, are a "collective" sign, and the Sun's in its detriment in Aqua).

posted August 25, 2004 11:26 AM              

Seriously, though, that was a good exposition of Aquarius, I'd say. Well-said! Thank you.

posted August 25, 2004 11:39 AM              

His Moon may be in Saggie or Scorp - it's too close to call. If he seems to be blowing hot and cold to you, it might be Scorp (especially given that his Mars is in Saggitarius - I've an inkling that if both his Moon and Mars were there, he'd be too flighty to pin down for even a second), though if you can find out his birth time (or even "morning" or "evening" birth) as well as about where he was born, you can get a better answer on that.
If you'd like to know ya'll's Ascendants and House placements, we'll need the exact time of birth for both as well as the place of birth - that info'll give those in the astro-know out there much more insight.

posted August 25, 2004 11:57 AM              

This sounds an aweful lot like somebody I know with Uranus conj. Sun, and quite a bit like myself as well, with my Aqua moon. (except for the part about blasting farts at people, and burping in their ear...but maybe if I was guy I might be tempted to do that)

posted September 03, 2004 09:14 AM              

I am in love with a Leo. he has a rising Aquarius (and moon in Sag), bit of a scatterbrain, but oh so cute!

and i have saved part of proxieme's post as a quote:
"they're not *not* thinking of you...they're just thinking of so much other stuff, too." it might do me some good on one of my broody days (double Capricorn here!).

take care =)

posted September 08, 2004 03:24 PM              

I have learned to go off on my own and shop for crushed velvet dresses or something, water mooney, nothing else satisfies anyway.

I have noticed I am attracted to Uranus in the 1st too and I have Taurus Sun/Scorpio Ascendant, which is not what I would have thought, but it works. Sag mars?

With Sag mars? Any insecurity and he/she will fly! out the window in search of someone who won't criticize, and, how do I describe this:

Hold me now! because I'm here. Criticism, and judgements are a big turn off.
Confidence is essential.

Natasha
Taurus

posted September 08, 2004 07:05 PM              

There's also been another Aquarius with Taurus Moon in my life for many years, and we've been doing this push me pull you thing, and finally, I just cut it off. He's called my phone like countless times in the last year, and I won't answer. Leaving messages... blah blah...

If I sound very cynical right now, I am, the Moon is in Cancer and for some reasons it's hitting me hard today.

But it's true about their farting in your face, or they will do something really cool to you but REALLY crazy in front of other people. They just draw you into a whole nother world.

I've only really met Aquarius' with Aquarius Moon, Cancer Moon, Libra Moon, Scorpio & Sag Moons. What they say about the Moon in Aqua is true from what I've seen, or Moon in Libra - they like to find a chick to take care of them financially. It's not that I can't do that, it's that I just won't. But oh well...

The rest are cool, I'm sure...