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Topic: Does anyone feel like lending some advice?
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The Mutable Night Force
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posted June 27, 2005 04:41 PM
  
How do you approach talking to someone you 'like' when you know you'll see them at some place soon?
How do you approach topic conversation subtly when previously you have flirted your socks off with them in some informal way of communication (ie. internet, email, letter) ?
Who do you talk to, if the person you like actually happens to be two people? The shyer one who when you talk to, conversation comes naturally, or the more erractic one who you want to speak to to find out if they're actually interested in you?
What should I wear? I mean, what would you wear?Would you say a Virgo sun Aries Moon has more chance of hitting it off with a Cancer sun Aries Moon or a Capricorn Sun Saggitarius Moon? lol, sorry, I couldn't stop myself writing that. Thank you! Any replys are really valued.
 (Please don't be *too* harsh with the advice!) IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted June 27, 2005 09:57 PM
I'm a Capricorn, as you know, and I say go for the Cancer. I'm quite certain you're charming, and I have been attracted to Virgos before, but it's not been very often. (I've got a Virgo Moon come to think of it.) In fact, I can't quite figure out why there's a bit of a disconnect between myself and Virgos. Maybe it's the communication style. You're likely more talkative than either Cancer or Capricorn, but I feel a Cancer would appreciate you more for it.I would wear clothes, but no bra. Just kidding. I don't know. Dress like yourself. I think both signs will be able to appreciate a Virgo's sense of style. I'm going in reverse order here. You're a Virgo, just open your mouth I'm sure something will come out. The Cancer will relate with you, and the Capricorn will feel happy as long as he doesn't have to talk himself. Both signs are pretty good listeners, but you take the pressure off the Capricorn by being talkative. IP: Logged |
GemStar
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posted June 27, 2005 10:26 PM
Hi MNF...are you saying that you like TWO different guys? Or a guy who has two personalities?The best thought I can give you is to be Yourself!! Approach each person whom you will ever be interested in as you would a 'friend'. It takes some of the pressure off of you trying to be a 'someone for this Sun sign or that Moon sign'. Just be Yourself! There are too many variables to determine who you will blend with better...intuition always rules once you learn to trust it! (IMHO) Be cool...dress in what feels comfortable to you...classy, not over-the-top like you are trying too hard to impress-and letting the guys wonder what wonderful treasures reside underneath...no need to reveal too much! Let them chase after you!  ALWAYS let them chase you! However, be careful if the two guys are at the same place...nobody wants to be a loser. No worries...Be Yourself, dress Your Style...Have fun! (Sorry-I began this post a few hours ago and was interrupted by a phone call...hope this isn't too late!) Warm Regards-
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lovely*
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posted June 28, 2005 02:13 AM
I just read an interesting article in june's issue of Psychology Today about not "hunting" for a mate.. but "luring" a mate. its goes on to make the analogy of the doe near the waters edge adn how one must approach such creatureshere are some tips (from a psychological standpoint)..pls note.. i don't necessarily agree. also, i'm paraphrasing. some signals..or..luring techniques. lol 1) show your vulnerability. an example would be open your shirt collar, touch your neck. 2) make your presence known. sort of like marketing a product. sometimes you have to see the ad several times before it leaves an impression. 3) get her/his attention by dropping something near him/her like a napkin. for some this would be humiliating to feel so clutzy in front of the object of our desire, but supposedly, it's another way to get attention without being obvious...also this goes along with vulnerability. 4) mimick him. match his tone of voice. (the latter often comes naturally) if he scratches his head, you scratch..if he puts his fork down, you put yours down..unconciously..it indicates relatedness. I dunno, what do you guys think of this? forgot to address the what to wear question.
I as a virgo, have a fondness for white. i would wear my boho long white skirt, brown michael kors lace up sandals, a side hanging belt and a simple wifebeater with some flowy wrap over you--AG's right,,No bra.  IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted June 28, 2005 03:55 AM
Personally, I would wear a bra if he's a Capricorn, since they are fussy that way, or if he has Scorpio influence, they may like to look at you but then you will get criticized later!But I wouldn't worry about mimicking him, I find men like a woman with her own personality since so many women try so hard to be funny and friendly. Keep a straight face when you want to and let him know you are thinking about what he says, look deeply into his eyes and think intense but talk cute and funny. And yes luring is good, don't call him right away, let him call you. If he's in a funny mood, and you think he's thinking of you, leave him alone. If you think he's not thinking of you then call him. Good Luck,
Natasha
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Tranquil Poet
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posted June 28, 2005 03:59 AM
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shop22much
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posted June 28, 2005 07:29 AM
See I am a Virgo with aries moon as well, it sounds like youre meeting someone from the net which is cool and a little nerve wracking because you dont know what to expect, but all in all just be yourself(i know i know the mantra BLAH!)
but when I meet someone new i usually
ask off the wall questions or say something to make them laugh to break the ice, like "if you knew you were going to die in 5 mins, what would you do?" or " tom cruise is an idiot" something to make you guys both laugh or just something to make the convo flow from there, get what im saying? i am very shy at times so i also have a hard time approaching people, but if i do i usually say or do something stupid, like what the hell are you doing here? in joking manner, or i just go up to them and say hello.
I dont know but usually i say something out there to break the ice, i dont know if you can be funny, or clever, but if you can, it helps. and Id say capri with sag moon! that sounds like a great match to me! sags are great, and caps always make me laugh, a little too cold, at times, but nonetheless! IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted June 28, 2005 09:34 AM
i feel i should say this :
mnf= impossible situations (LOL)
i would approach with very simple things and then may be move on to common interests and i would most probably maintian a balance between both , its very important . if the cancer is ignored or eevn if not given prominenece as much as others (especially in these situations) , he will remember it for ever , afterwards u might have problem cracking him , so remeber this , and it s the almost same for the cap also .
they both are most probably good talkers , so why not enjoy with both .
as for your getting along , my feeling is initially , it would be the cap not the cancer . u need time to crack them , other very important thing is , cancers and virgos have quite different sense humour .( i am basing this all on my exp.)
ok, why didn't u want harsh advices ?
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cancerrg
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posted June 28, 2005 09:41 AM
hey i forgot this one
if u are meeting the guys seperatly then in that case , for cancer - u better wear something that is conventional , something that makes look a bit of child woman (may be) , dont wear anything that u can't carry effortlessly ( this is quite important ) . even if u choose something that is unconventional but in fashion , u should how to carry it . cancers normally are very sober dressers but they appreciate confidence even if its in the way u carry ur self .i dont think revealing clothes will make any difference with him in ur effort to impress him , so better leave the idea .
best of luck .
do tell us the results of the meetings and let us know how much right are we? 
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cancerrg
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posted June 28, 2005 09:53 AM
i think the fourth suggestion that lovely gave could be quite interesting with the cancer guy but he should n't feel that he is being mocked . do it in a funny way and make sure he knows u are not mocking him .in fact i feel that would help u getting close to him , they like funny people .
now how do u do that ! its very difficult to answer actually . but u can try it this way , howz ur impression on him?, do u have any idea ?, if he already knows u are the funny kind then every joke would be taken in that spirit but if doesn't take ur time to make him know this .and no personal comments plz.i hope u didn't get bored !! IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted June 28, 2005 01:56 PM
WOW. Thankyou everyone for all this excellent advice!AG- Charming?  haha Thank you! No bra? Actually I tried that last time... wasn't a good idea, I ended up having to run in heels with no bra, not fun! Especially when you're being chased by a car (No joke!) Gemstar- They are two guys although I've always thought they might secretly be the same person! ( I have seen them in a room together before)! lovely- interesting! I read some of those before. Nice clothes advice, although I wouldn't wear white because this place has UV lighting and so I'd glow!!! Natasha- Great ideas! I have tried a couple of those before subconsiously Thanks. TP- LOL!!! ok! shop22much- Cool, my personal favourite is "I hate this part of town, there's absolutely nowhere to park a helicopter!" Stupid, I know. Oh, I do know these guys though, I have met them before, so no worries! cancerrg- Hey there! What would I do without you? Your replies are always top stuff! All three of them lol. The Cancer, I actually think I am closer to. I know him better and trust him as a friend, plus, luckily, he gets my humour! I do these cartoons which I think he really finds funny. The Cap I just really fancy and I have flirted a lot more with, but I adore the Cancer. I am really stuck!
I'm seeing them at the same time. Will tell you how it goes but it's not til July! IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted June 28, 2005 05:21 PM
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I ended up having to run in heels with no bra, not fun!
I'd have liked to have seen that...but then I'm just a dirty old man. Of course you're charming! Always have been. You're a fun person to have around on this forum. Isn't it interesting that the Capricorn said go for the Cancer, and the Cancer said go for the Capricorn? IP: Logged |
SecretGardenAgain
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posted June 28, 2005 08:30 PM
WAIT WAIT WAIT from a strictly astrological point of view, please remember that ur moon squares the Cappys sun, and his moon (sag) squares ur sun!!! possibly, but still!! the signs are square! do not fall for the sun-sun moon-moon compatibliity, it does not always work! my mother is a Leo / Pisces, me a Gemini / Scorpio. Peachy? NO NO NO NO NO *she screams at the top of her lungs* its horrible and traumatic! BECAUSE her sun squares my moon by the exact DEGREE and my moon squares her sun by the exact degree! i know, its horrid *runs away, traumatized* Love
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pixelpixie
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posted June 28, 2005 10:38 PM
Be you.the charming fascinating, slightly breathless with 'like' and possibly blushing a little, you.
Be you.
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The Mutable Night Force
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posted June 29, 2005 01:06 PM
AG- If only I could flirt as well as you in real life! SG- thanks for the advice! Actually, I know what you're talking about... worringly enough! pixie- Awwwww, thank you! I'll try! IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted June 29, 2005 01:33 PM
I'm seeing them at the same time. Will tell you how it goes but it's not til July!
mnf: before u do that , wish me a very very very very happy b'day , its my b'day today . 
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The Mutable Night Force
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posted June 29, 2005 01:36 PM
Awwww cancerrg!!
Have a happy happy happy cancer birthday!!!!!!! Love and hugs to you dear!
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cancerrg
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posted June 29, 2005 01:40 PM
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Of course you're charming! Always have been. You're a fun person to have around on this forum.
agree absolutey . especially the situations that she provides , u need to think a lot sometime. isn't it ag ? IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted June 29, 2005 01:43 PM
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Isn't it interesting that the Capricorn said go for the Cancer, and the Cancer said go for the Capricorn?
interesting observation! IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted June 29, 2005 01:49 PM
*blushes*hehe I don't know what to say. Wow. Thanks. IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted June 30, 2005 02:10 PM
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slightly breathless with 'like'
what does like here mean , pix? IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted June 30, 2005 02:12 PM
Well.... I wouldn't call it 'love'.. would you?
breathless with 'like' strong 'like', fascination, attraction, connection.
Call it what you want, we've all been there.IP: Logged |
amisha121877
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posted June 30, 2005 04:17 PM
just my opinion - i have an affinity for scarves - so for whatever you wear - wear a scarf on your head, on your waist ban, somewhere visible on you with a color that best describes how you feel. ???? i don't know where that came from but...........IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted July 01, 2005 02:46 AM
pixie- ahhh ok... I admit, I was a little confused by that but I understand now.amisha- yes! Scarves are awesome... although it will be summer so I don't think I'll need any extra clothing. Actually, that's more of the problem, I reckon it'll be too hot for jeans and I can't decide whether to wear a t shirt or not.... My one denim skirt in too short and my legs are too pale and unappealing for that. My one long skirt is too long! Haha I don't know what to do!!! IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted July 01, 2005 04:25 AM
I honestly love long skirts. I don't know what it is about them, but I've always loved them. IP: Logged | |
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