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Topic: Sharing your personal experience
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Kamots
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From: Cascais, Portugal
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posted January 29, 2007 09:33 PM
  
Hi everyone, I was wondering if any of you could share your personal experience about any of these difficult interaspects in synastry, so I could get a better idea of what they represent (the different interpretations I read on the internet made me feel they were unreliable, so I'd rather hear what each of you went through):Sun square Mars
Moon square Moon
Moon square Venus I know many don't believe in "bad aspects" and that we always have to look at the whole chart, but I want to learn more about these as the influences they represent.
Thanks in advance.
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carlfloydfan
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posted January 29, 2007 11:35 PM
I wish I could help with those three but maybe I can share one thats similar, Moon Square Mars, if you don't mind.
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Lauren
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posted January 30, 2007 12:22 AM
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Lauren
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posted January 30, 2007 12:23 AM
This is pretty good on Sun/Mars: http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_mars.html IP: Logged |
SagSun
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posted January 30, 2007 03:26 AM
I have Sun square Mars with someone (I'm the Mars) ... I didn't experience this placement as an agressive one, but more as one creating strong physical attraction. He isn't chauvinistic at all towards me (he is more like the perfect gentleman). IP: Logged |
Lauren
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posted January 30, 2007 08:16 AM
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BlueEyes24
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posted January 30, 2007 10:33 AM
Well, my Venus is square my mom's moon....and my Sun is opposite her Mars...and while I am very close to her now, we would always get into arguments almost daily about the SMALLEST things while I was growing up.. I've also had Sun in hard aspect to Mars in synastry with someone, and while there was a lot of sexual attraction, there was also a lot of tension and the feeling like we could never be calm and relaxed around one another. IP: Logged |
teaologist
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posted January 30, 2007 02:37 PM
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Kamots
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posted January 30, 2007 05:20 PM
Thanks for the answers so far.Lauren and Teaologist, I'm sorry about the physical violence involved in your experiences. I wish you had known some jiu-jitsu back them so you could sumbit their a*ses out with a nice little choke 
Anyway, I believe this sort of behaviour comes from each person's set of values... what were those guys' birth charts like? I've had my Pisces Sun opposing my ex-girlfriend's Virgo Mars and I believe some aspects of my identity got on her nerves, although we felt magnetically attracted to eachother (which might come from other aspects in our synastry, such as her Mars parallel my ASC, her Mars/Venus trine my Chiron forming a Grand Trine, a Mars-Pluto double linkage in the declinations, my moon conjunct her ASC and her moon trine my ASC). Would you agree that the Sun-Mars square by itself could just indicate that one's self-expression of identity is irritating to the Mars person and that as a result, the Mars person hurts the Sun's ego? Could you appply this to the relationship you had with the gentleman SagSun? I would expect sexual attraction to come from oppositions more than squares... maybe those of you who felt an attraction with the square could find other aspects that could justify it, no? About, the Moon-Venus square, I expected somenone to say something like "the way he/she expresses affection doesn't make me feel nurtured/safe (moon person)" or "the way he/she tries to nurture me makes me feel smothered (Venus person)". But I never experienced it myself so I'll have to go with Lauren's explanation of "Venus wants to have fun and the Moon seems overly serious". Did you have difficulty feeling calm around that person, like BlueEyes24? The reason I'm asking about these aspects is that I was asked by a friend to evaluate a potential match up where these three appear, along with the terrible venus square saturn. I'm also concerned about the Moon-Neptune square they have in the composite, but I'll leave that to another topic. Anyone else with anything to share about the three squares at the beggining of the topic? IP: Logged |
Lauren
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posted January 30, 2007 09:36 PM
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Kamots
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posted January 31, 2007 07:32 PM
Lauren,I wasn't too surprised when you wrote about his Mars-Pluto opposition... Violence is often associated to both planets and all that tension must be really difficult to deal with. Those people have a lot o repressed anger, which they either turn against themselves or others.
Anyway, that Mars-Venus conjunction and double Mars-Pluto (flowing aspects?) could explain the attraction between the two of you better than the Sun-Mars square. I don't know, I wish more people could talk about their experience with this aspect. Anyone else say something please. I neeed you people to help me out with those three aspects. No one ever had Moon square Moon? IP: Logged | |
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