posted July 16, 2007 10:05 PM              

~Neptune alone in the 7th(fantasies/illusions) in Saggitarius

~Venus in the 12th(called a "heartache placement") in Gemini

~Chiron in the 12th in Taurus

I'm not feeling very lucky in love at the moment I guess I must be really evolved to have all 3 of these placements to work through in this incarnation....Plus Sun opp Moon and Pluto conj Juno Natally.Advice anyone??

posted July 16, 2007 10:08 PM            

Also... Sun opp Moon will make you constantly search for satisfaction that never seems to come. I have the square, so I'm the sure the opposition is miserable!

Also, also... Venus in the 12th (I have this one too. It's on the cusp of the 11th and 12th houses....12th according to Equal system) shows general disappointment in love. No matter how things are going, it will never feel quite good enough.

posted July 17, 2007 05:27 AM              

i haven't got a best friend for a vvery long time.

sometimes its even hard to feel satisfied. i have saturn square moon and sun. its awful. and moon opposite pluto..

posted July 17, 2007 06:21 AM            

I have a Uranus opposite DC, and all the successful relationships I've been in have been long distance.

My Sun is at 2'53 Scorpio.

posted July 17, 2007 06:40 AM              

I've been wondering recently if this is saying something about me personally. Perhaps I have sub-consciously chosen these types in fear of losing my own independence???
I definitely want someone to share my life/love with, but not at the expense of sacrificing who I am - I LOVE me!!!

posted July 17, 2007 10:09 AM            

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alanabelle - what about DC in Scorpio - though I also have Jupiter in 7th (Sag), and Uranus is sextile to Jupiter (wide), I've had two major relationships break-up when I've gone over-seas, despite all the promises

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DC in Scorpio would basically mean your need for a partner and relationships in general center around passion, loyalty, and a deep profound connection. It also shows jealous and suspicious, controlling partners (at worst). Maybe they broke up because you leaving overseas would be a loss of general "control" over the relationship...Not knowing what's going to happen...

Though Jupiter (long distance) is there, it doesn't always *mean* you're capable of a long distance relationship. At least, it's general happiness and positive growth through relationships... I can also mean expecting way too much or the opposite- way too little. It could mean being over-generous towards others, or it could be way too much self-indulgence and self-focus. It could mean that you also desire a partner who's open, adventurous, and is capable to enjoy the good side of life...someone who can help you understand the larger picture and grow as an individual...A Sagittarian type individual....

Uranus sexile Jupiter would make your passionate (Scorpio DC) and adventurous (Jupiter) partners be quite original and independent (Uranus) as well.

I mean Uranus in aspect to the 7th house or it's ruler, not so much planets IN the 7th house, though it does have an impact as well. Where is your Mars/Pluto by sign, aspect, house?

And where is your Moon? I've found the Moon has to do with how we feel about relationships...in addition to the 7th house.

I mentioned my Uranus opp. DC in regards to long distance...but I also have Saturn opp. DC, with Chiron conj. DC and Jupiter in the 3rd/4th house...making me a person used to distanced relations with family etc. I need a TON of space...and I don't mind it...Plus my DC is in Gemini...all my partners are always on the go anyway...

posted July 17, 2007 05:41 PM              

My Mars is Aqua 9th; Pluto Libra 4th; Moon Cancer 2nd
Again thanks for the feedback

posted July 18, 2007 02:21 AM            

I have Neptune in the 7th (conjunct Mars), but I'm the opposite of you.. in that I'm much more likely to fall in love or "in like" as soon as I find out someone is in love with me.. so I think to myself - that's so sweet, and I date them or go out with them eventually, down the track. I guess I think - if this person cares about me so much, we must have things in common.. that maybe I haven't noticed.. or maybe I didn't know them well enough.. so I'd want to get to know them.

Actually, question: how do you react upon finding out that someone is in love with you?

And an astrology question: What signs are your Venus/Mars in and what major aspect do they make, if any?

Alanabelle, I have a Sag DC.. I wouldn't mind a long distance relationship ONLY if it started in the here and now though and then became long distance.. and I'd love traveling back and forth to see the person or alternatively traveling with them.

The main reasons I'd want this are - the travel (very important to me), to find out more about people who come from a different background.. and because I love personal freedom and having my space.. I also have no problem giving the other person as much space as they like. I think relationships are much happier when you are not constantly in each others' faces..

posted July 22, 2007 02:32 PM              

Although, I'd think that strong neptune/twelfth house influences would make it harder... coupled with strong jupiter, maybe, giving you the drive to chase futile dreams...?

posted July 22, 2007 03:19 PM              

i trully believe you and you man will be together!I really do - try not to think that you are chasing an impossible dream - its is POSSIBLE

look at me for example :P - i never thought it was impossible and we are nailing it

Have Faith Moon

In this thread i realised some similarities with my own and his chart.

We have the same planets in Sag: uranus,neptune ( his on his 5th and mine on 3rd houses) I to have Jup in SAg on my 3rd.

With mars in 11th ( ruller of my 7rd) skuaring uranus/jup and trines Neptune.
Jup conjuncts mars.

His Saturn ( ruller of his 7th) sextiles uranus,and trines Moon in Aqua (only planet on his 7th).

We two are also in a long-distance relationship- does this placements show taht reality?

posted July 22, 2007 09:47 PM            

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I think Wanting What You Can't Have is a universal human theme. Everyone is plagued by it. Everyone.

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posted July 22, 2007 09:54 PM            

In my case, the people who brought me up.. specially my father figure.. he was *right* in every way.. and I always felt loved, so I *know* what I want in a man.. very clearly. I had a very close relationship to both.. and pretty much get on nicely with everyone in my family.

How could I ever go for someone who doesn't make me feel valued.. when I know that as a child I was always valued.. I could never do that.. Even out of respect for the people who brought me up, I couldn't do anything that would harm me.. because it would harm them. They don't deserve that. They *deserve* to see me happy with a good man and a good career.. and see that the positive and kind things they taught me had a positive impact.