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Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008	posted November 21, 2008 02:54 AM whats peoples experiences without these? or a lack of them? is it doomed? i only have mars sextile (her) pluto. and we have some relationship aspects, thats it. but i like her, but i can't tell which way. IP: Logged
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008	posted November 21, 2008 03:06 AM Man, throw out the synastry book LOL. For starters, we're such a horny bunch that we can all make ANY aspect into something sexual. Second of all, Pluto sextile Mars is extremely sexual. Third of all, synastry is one thing, and what you want is another. It's not as though synastry is going to control where your relationship is going to go. It's just going to show you highlights and so on...like a movie preview. But ultimately, you're the writer and director, and you both star in the production. Synastry's just a critic that writes the reviews ...you'd be making the production either way, teehee IP: Logged
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 239 From: Registered: Apr 2008	posted November 21, 2008 03:08 AM I've recently checked the synastry aspects with my ex's and current bf and there's usually plenty. Seems like my obsession with a guy lies in how many of his planets my mars is aspecting. Lots of good and bad aspects too. IP: Logged
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2761 From: Sacramento,California,USA Registered: Jul 2006	posted November 21, 2008 03:11 AM you might want to check the midpoints...they do work activations to these following midpoints: conjunction,opposition,square,semisquare,sesquiquadrate: Venus/Mars (I had a double whammy of Sun=Venus/Mars with an ex) Venus/Pluto (had this with the same ex) also Mars hitting a midpoint involving Venus (except for Saturn...because it tends to restrict) my Mars aspected my ex's Venus/Uranus midpoint her Mars aspected my Venus/Pluto midpoint there were no sexual attraction aspects in the regular astrology chart, but the sexual attraction was very strong, I believe that it was in synchronicity with the sexual attraction midpoint configurations I agree with somebody that said throw away the synastry book. I have doubts about a lot of the traditional astrology stuff. Raymond IP: Logged
23 Knowflake Posts: 4497 From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain Registered: Aug 2006	posted November 21, 2008 03:18 AM Try house overlays as well and progressions too. IP: Logged
Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008	posted November 21, 2008 03:24 AM thanks for the responses, i will check out those other aspects if and/or when i get a birth time (sorry virgo mars just won't ask directly. lol) IP: Logged
annaf Knowflake Posts: 322 From: Registered: Oct 2006	posted November 21, 2008 06:42 AM agree with what has already been said. Traditional Astrology is often too black and white. In fact I had a venus-mars conjunction with an ex and judging by classic astro literature I should have been nuts about him. Reality looked different - there was very little chemistry. On the other hand the person I was most drawn to I dont have any of the classic links with. I think it has a lot to do with your natal chart what you will find attractive/sexual. If someone's 7th or 8th house is ruled by mercury, I'm sure they will find mercury contacts far more chemistry inducing than someone whose 7th house is ruled by a more sexual planet like mars or pluto. So in any case I would always check out the personal charts first and would have a look how your 5th, 7th and 8th house rulers are aspected in synastry. IP: Logged
Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008	posted November 21, 2008 06:45 AM thanks for the reply annaf, that seems to be a very good idea, i'd need to get a birth time if i do i will definitely check that out : ) IP: Logged
darkdreamer Knowflake Posts: 3991 From: Germany Registered: Aug 2006	posted November 21, 2008 07:13 AM There are so many hints towards sexual attraction. Example: - aspects of Venus, Mars, Pluto, Eros, ASC to each other, also Mars-Sun and Mars-Moon - Venus, Mars, Pluto, ERos in 1st, 5th or 8th house; also Mars and Pluto in 7th house I guess - aspects of ruler of 1st, 5th, 8th house to each other; also ruler of 7th house aspecting ruler of 1st or 8th house - aspects of ruler of 1st, 5th and 8th house aspecting Venus, Mars, Pluto, Eros - midpoints of Venus/Mars, Venus/Pluto, Venus / Eros, Mars / Eros, Eros / Pluto But I agree with Annaf, according to my experience the aspects between houserulers have been the most certain signs, along with progressed aspects of Venus-Mars for example. I also sahre a Venus-Mars-conjunction with my friend`s husband, and even though that guy and me have always been good friends (we also have Moon conjunct Moon), we never felt sexually attracted to each other; not even before he met my friend (I knew him before her). But his Venus rules his 4th house and Mars rules my 4th house, so actually it even emphasises the Moon-Moon-conjunction between us as the 4th house rulers are also conjunct. A nice placement, but definitely not sexually attractive. So, I would always give a special weight to the ruler-aspects, if the birthtime is known. IP: Logged
darkdreamer Knowflake Posts: 3991 From: Germany Registered: Aug 2006	posted November 21, 2008 07:16 AM Also Annaf is absolutely right. It definitely depends on your natal chart. I am one of these Mercury-examples, as Mercury is ruler of my 7th house. And every single man I have felt drawn to had strong Mercury-aspects to my chart (interestingly, mostly it was their Mercury, not mine). And if a guy`s Mercury is in the wrong sign (20� - 30� Taurus), he just does nothing to me. I guess I am a Mercury, Moon, Jupiter and Venus girl, as they rule my 7th, 8th, 1st and 5th houses. IP: Logged
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2761 From: Sacramento,California,USA Registered: Jul 2006	posted November 21, 2008 07:23 AM the geocentric nodes of Venus and Mars could be involved with sexual attraction too My Mars was conjunct my ex's South Venus Node,and her Venus was oppose my South Mars Node both within half a degree orb IP: Logged
CoralFrequency Knowflake Posts: 1432 From: Registered: Feb 2007	posted November 21, 2008 07:37 AM LL09 - it's definitely better than having too many sexual aspects. Trust me. IP: Logged
darkdreamer Knowflake Posts: 3991 From: Germany Registered: Aug 2006	posted November 21, 2008 08:12 AM What is too many? IP: Logged
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 6678 From: Australia Registered: May 2008	posted November 21, 2008 08:20 AM DD quote: What is too many? I think that would be up to individual discretion and discernment. IP: Logged
deuxantares Knowflake Posts: 1197 From: Meet Me in Sofia Registered: Nov 2006	posted November 21, 2008 08:24 AM Ummm, is 3x a day too much? IP: Logged
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006	posted November 21, 2008 08:27 AM hihi is it ever too much!!! Are we talking about aspects or encounters of the 3rd kind? IP: Logged
Atlenta Knowflake Posts: 501 From: Registered: Jun 2002	posted November 21, 2008 08:48 AM if you check the declinations you may find more. IP: Logged
CoralFrequency Knowflake Posts: 1432 From: Registered: Feb 2007	posted November 21, 2008 08:53 AM DD, these were too many, in my case - Venus conjunct Mars Mars trine Mars Mars sextile Pluto Mars opposite Pluto Venus opposite Pluto Sun square Mars Mars conjunct NN It was too much of something and not enough of something else.. It wasn't my kind of relationship anyways. I'd still like to see a couple of these aspects in synastry, with some action at a Mercury/Mercury and Sun/Moon level. If there are no connections between Sun/Moon/Mercury - it doesn't usually work for me. IP: Logged
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006	posted November 21, 2008 11:05 AM I have these aspects with someone and l don't feel it to be too much. It's intense for sure but manageable venus sesquiquadrate mars exact venus quincunx pluto venus conjunct NN exact mars opposes pluto pluto trine mars uranus square venus (9 degs though) mars parallel pluto venus contraparallel mars his natal: mars opposes pluto my natal: venus semisextile mars exact, venus quincunx pluto exact, mars trine pluto exact, mars parallel pluto IP: Logged
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008	posted November 21, 2008 11:15 AM I've personally found Mars conj Moon to be really sexual. Double whammy...forget it IP: Logged
annaf Knowflake Posts: 322 From: Registered: Oct 2006	posted November 21, 2008 12:04 PM MyVirgoMask, were you moon or mars? I also found moon opposite mars very intense. IP: Logged
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008	posted November 21, 2008 01:09 PM annaf, it was a double whammy, going both ways in the synastry chart, so I was both It was extremely intense. I want to say the sexual attraction had a real emotionalism about it. IP: Logged
annaf Knowflake Posts: 322 From: Registered: Oct 2006	posted November 21, 2008 02:06 PM yep, the emotional aspect is also what I noticed about moon-mars IP: Logged
Green Fairy Knowflake Posts: 1024 From: Registered: Feb 2006	posted November 21, 2008 02:20 PM Not only Pluto is sexual. Mars, Uranus [yeah why not?], some asteroids etc IP: Logged
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006	posted November 21, 2008 02:28 PM anyone think eros conjunct eros and psyche conjunct psyche is sexy? IP: Logged

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