posted November 25, 2004 08:33 PM         

How many times have you met someone who touched your heart and you have asked, "Is this person, 'The One'?" This expression refers to "The One For Me...."

From the time we are able to desire a partner - most people seek The One - the person who is here to make them feel complete.

That person would be a lifetime partner - always there with unconditional love, compassion and understanding.

The One is here to share your journey - through all of its detours - and to support your decisions as you evolve.

When you meet The One - if you are lucky enough to meet that person - you do not have to ask, "Is this The One?" You will know.

Most people change too much during their experiences here to meet The One.

They meet souls who may seem to be The One at a cycle in their lives - but later move on with another or remain alone.

The One is your soul - divided by the barriers of Time and Space - above and below - feeling naked and alone in third dimension and struggling to find the answers to age old questions...Why am I here? What is my mission?

The One as yourTwin Flame This is your polar opposite - the yin / yang - the balance aspect of your soul - The One who makes you complete - and waits in higher frequency for soul reunion - often guiding your path in third dimension.

While in 3D - young people search for The One most of their lives.

Middle Age people - still seek that person - but their goals with that person have changed.

Older people still seek a companion - The One become less a person of 'passion' and more about 'compassion.'

The One is linked with many aspects of Love: Spiritual [pure consciousness connection] - Physical [passion] - Romantic [feeds the heart and fantasies] - Emotional [understands and fills our many needs] - Mental [growing together and sharing new choices]

Do you think you have found The One?

Have you found - then lost - The One?

Do you have something to release connected to The One?

Have you concluded that you will never meet The One? When you say that - are you saddened by the thought?

If you do not meet The One - will you settle for another?

Can you be alone and not be lonely? Does being alone scare you?

Do you long for romance and passion?

Do not look for The One. Live your life. Embrace the moment. Be kind and caring.

posted November 25, 2004 10:57 PM         

"... Please remember that the function of the Balance Partner is to create balance and understanding for both of you. Make it fun and uncomplicated or it will end and you will miss whatever opportunity for growth your souls have created."

It made me think of certain people who have gone in and out of my life. Look to your South Node for any soul mate clues in your life, and see if it means anything.

posted November 26, 2004 01:43 AM         

Many thanks for sharing!!!

posted November 26, 2004 02:25 AM         

More and more you make me feel as if you are an alternate parallel reality, albeit, from my perspective. But I'll try to make this sound like it makes sense.

I almost married a long time ago, but never have. The sort of difficult challenges you go through sound like so familiar, as if, I can see myself in you had I married.

But, it's just like, I drew that line, and probably out of lack of strong money indications in me. Cuz you're going to be successful.

posted November 26, 2004 02:28 AM         

I can totally relate to alot of what you said. I've met many of my "One's" so far in my life. All different yet special in their own ways. And yes, "each time was real and significant to my growth and theirs." Always is!

I believe we all have many soul mates, but it is only a rare few who actually connect with 'their One'. Like the article above said "Most people change too much during their experiences here to meet The One." We have many.....yet we still have One. I dont believe it is in everyone's 'life plan' to meet the One or their "Twin Flame" in this lifetime. That doesnt mean you cant have some powerful soulmate connections, but I do believe that for the most part, most people arent evolved enough to connect with their 'other half'. From what I've heard it is very rare. And alot of people get Soulmates confused with their Twin Soul. Everyone is surrounded by soulmates, family, friends, lovers, neighbors, co-workers.........

But then there's the One. Everybody's searchin'. It's part of being human. But I agree with what she says above, "if the One for you is out there - and you are BOTH ready - you will attract each other by synchronicity - no other way." So all you can do it have fun until that happens. Not try to force anything......forcing always backfires anyway. Love yourself first.

I'm lucky, I'm with one of my soulmates now, and he's a great guy.

posted November 26, 2004 03:06 AM         

I've learned techniques lately, in which you will be hitting that "note" at every breath, and more elongated installments smack on that note if you choose.

It is the moment between breathing and not breathing. A gift we all have with us every second of the day and night.

posted November 26, 2004 01:47 PM         

this is what i believe. as we grow we change and our needs change, and so changes the one thats right for you at that moment in you life

posted May 01, 2005 01:41 PM         

Earlier this morning (it's still morning for me now) I clicked onto the crystallinks site posted above by 26T (you're so good!) and ended up spending 1 1/2 hours reading up on the 11:11 phenomena because last night on my way home, I looked at the clock in my car right at 11:11 and knew at that second it had significance, I could feel it and knew with certainty. Just don't know what it is...yet.

I've been thinking a lot about a relationship and healing and somehow knew 11:11 had meaning and connection to it, but I don't yet know what it is...I have also had, in the past couple of days some other experiences connected to this relationship that were quite unusual in a good kind of way...

Funny how a web link can take you places, I know none of it was by accident.

I also know that when you ask questions and keep asking, the universe will answer you...

I'm in the process, too of wanting some questions answered and am just trying to go with it for right now...(not easy for me to do, believe me!)

kisses
Laura

posted May 01, 2005 02:20 PM         

I do believe that over the lifetimes we've accumulated, there are several "One"s, and that you meet those Soulmates, if you're fortunate (which ties into your article 26T, of being ready and able to, or "enlightened" enough as the article put it, to recognize your Soulmate).

I believe that is why we meet so many people and think they're the One. There was some special connection. There was "something"...and one or both muck it up somehow, or maybe it was just meant to be a connection in passing in this lifetime.

Maybe there is a particular "the One" that you're meant to be with in this life, but I don't believe that same person will "the One" in the next one necessarily.

But until we're all ok being just ourselves, by ourselves, I don't think we'll ever find "our other half(ves)".

Maybe I'm just cynical, I don't know. I stopped believing in the concept of "the One" for a long time, and only recently started believing in it again.

But I do believe that you rarely find the thing you seek. It finds you.

posted May 01, 2005 04:19 PM         

I think the only way its possible to find the best person for you is to stop looking for one person. To be open to all kinds of people. Then you see who's best for you. And i use the phrase 'best for you', not 'the one' because there are several people who touch our hearts in different ways. You will never find someone who will be completely emotionally , verbally, physically, mentally, etc etc etc compatible with you 100 percent. because even you are not compatible with yourself. conflict is the spice of life. NO relationship lacks conflict, because there is not 100 percent compatibility. and if it does, it usually means the two people have drifted apart or dont care about each other enough to create positive conflict.

in that way i dont think there is a One. but of all the people we meet in life, there is one person that will be the best for us, that will stand out in the crowd for us, the one that we will love the most. everyone touches us in different ways but whomevers touch is the most lasting, the most influential, that is only one person truly. but just because only one person can achieve that, does not mean that everyone else who touched your heart was not important. also, its not necessary that you end up with that person.

i totally dont believe that there is one person out there that you have to go and find. rather, of all the people in life you come across, you have to see which one touches your life best.

i do believe in true love. love itself is a singular concept; there is only one thing love and it shud not and cannot be confused for friendship, lust, etc. but u can love several people, in several different dimensions. even love has different faces: love of parents, siblings, friends, love for the less fortunate, love for money and status (yes it does exist), and then love for the partner. the true love for ones partner can best be achieved with one person you love most.

the most pure love and the most pure oneness in my opinion can only be achieved on the spiritual level: as long as we are confined in our bodies we will always have restraints to achieving that kind of love.

posted May 01, 2005 04:32 PM         

You are right: one attracts what one is, so when you are ready, you will infact, attract 'the one'. Your mirror image...

posted May 01, 2005 07:43 PM         

Then I simply stopped searching. I settled for something completely different.

God does moves in mysterious ways.

posted May 01, 2005 10:42 PM         

....

"Ready" ?

Who's ever ready?

Yeah, maybe in the next life, or the one after that, or...

If you were "ready" would you even care for a mate?