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Topic: Virgos thoughts on words
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~jane_says~
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: SD
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 22, 2006 04:51 PM
 
I know this is a desperate attempt, but please bear with me. I have a significant other who had recently had an encounter with an ex at a party claiming they didn't get together in a physical sexual way. However, I found a saved conversation online that occured two days after the meeting up. There was quite a bit of reminiscing and some talk to hooking up but no confirmation of it of a later date or that night. He would go back and forth being mean towards her and then reminiscing of how it wasn't meant to work out and that in the end he may have meant to be single. He seemed to confide in her while chiding her promiscuous behavior. They also discussed me and her words were harsh towards me about my appearance and such. He didn't defend me instead he said he was just dealing with me, but did say he's happy once. It was so back and forth, but I am deeply hurt and feel cheated on. After confronting him, he said she's just a **** and always will be. She does have a very bad reputation. That he never hooked up with her, has always been faithful. By the way he's never given me reason to think otherwise until now, although he's not above a little light flirting. But in the end, he said they were just words and that it didn't mean anything. That more than anything he was doing it to rile her up, which I'm not totally convinced of. I'd just like to know where he is coming from as his main excuse is they the hurtful words like wanting to be single and sleep around basically. She said she was available and to let him no but the convo ended and he didn't set anything. My thing is do I trust. I know he loves me, and that being pregnant and insecure has put some strain on our relationship. Just from an astrological point of view, is he capable of cheating and lying without so much as a blink. Here's his info: Gordon, Nebraska. 7:07 pm Sept 17, 1976. If anyone can help me out I'd greatly appreciate it. We've since worked things out but it's still brimming beneath.
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AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 8376
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted December 22, 2006 05:53 PM
I recommend waiting it out. Work on getting closer rather than retreating.IP: Logged |
~jane_says~
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: SD
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 22, 2006 06:25 PM
Thanks. I'm definitely trying my hardest. By the way if this helps I'm may 22, 78 hardin, mt, usa, 4:12 pm...IP: Logged |
thedividedsky
Knowflake Posts: 264
From: utah
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted December 22, 2006 07:02 PM
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MysticMelody
Knowflake Posts: 1568
From:
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted December 23, 2006 12:57 PM
He doesn't like her promiscuous behavior because it makes him jealous and it's not "pure". When she called you ugly or whatever, if he didn't want to confront her he could have just said, "Well, it was nice catching up, I gotta go."* "Lips Of An Angel" Honey why you calling me so late?
It's kinda hard to talk right now.
Honey why are you crying? Is everything okay?
I gotta whisper 'cause I can't be too loud Well, my girl's in the next room
Sometimes I wish she was you
I guess we never really moved on
It's really good to hear your voice say my name
It sounds so sweet
Coming from the lips of an angel
Hearing those words it makes me weak And I never wanna say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel It's funny that you're calling me tonight
And, yes, I've dreamt of you too
And does he know you're talking to me
Will it start a fight
No I don't think she has a clue Well my girl's in the next room
Sometimes I wish she was you
I guess we never really moved on
It's really good to hear your voice say my name
It sounds so sweet
Coming from the lips of an angel
Hearing those words it makes me weak And I... never wanna say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel It's really good to hear your voice say my name
It sounds so sweet
Coming from the lips of an angel
Hearing those words it makes me weak And I... never wanna say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel And I... never wanna say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel Honey why you calling me so LATE?
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Jazzebel
Knowflake Posts: 298
From: Georgia
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted December 23, 2006 01:45 PM
he needed a closure. And used this last convo to lash out at her all the anger he had inside. And the left-over love feelings for her too.
I think with that last conversation, he said what he had been waiting to say for a long time. I personaly don`t think he`d cheat on you with her. oh by the way, I am a Virgo too.IP: Logged |
Motherkonfessor
Knowflake Posts: 860
From:
Registered: Oct 2003
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posted December 26, 2006 12:39 AM
He is the Virgo, right?No, he won't cheat on you. He couldn't live with the self-recrimation of such an act, if you are pregnant with his child. I am a Virgo, and even if my partner wanders... if I love, I LOVE, and I am not going anywhere. Its okay, dear.... don't fret. MK IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8581
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted December 26, 2006 11:51 AM
I am married to one....a Virgo.....I cannot every imagine him cheating on me....even though i put him through hell at times!As MK says "dont fret" I have found Virgo people to be one of the most honourable signs of all....."the server"......decent and true  IP: Logged |
BlueEyes24
Knowflake Posts: 598
From:
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted December 26, 2006 12:22 PM
I'm a Virgo and unfortunately I have cheated in the past (never again)....but I agree with what was said above...if a Virgo truly loves you, they will NOT cheat. I am very loyal and committed when I love someone.IP: Logged |
Natural111
Knowflake Posts: 321
From: Los Angeles, CA, USA
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted December 26, 2006 12:40 PM
Ditto to what everyone else said.I have cheated, and do cheat but not on someone I am sure about and know, know, know, I'm in a real relationship with. That is, it is spoken, like he says, be my girlfriend and I be your guy. Then, I won't cheat. And if I feel he's cheating, I'll simply break up with him. Or, if it's hard to break the ties, I won't break up physically, but psycologically and emotionally, I won't be his anymore, though I'll go through the motions and thus be susceptible to cheating. So, I don't know. That's just me. I don't know. My faithfullness hinges on me trusting him. IP: Logged |
sthenri
Moderator Posts: 4452
From: Generic New England City
Registered: May 2003
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posted December 26, 2006 11:15 PM
I don't know about that, a married virgo asked me to cheat with him a few months ago and he is known for being very committed and very married for many years. Then again I am a Taurus/6th house sun so I attract a lot of virgos and I was vulnerable and emotional that night. I don't think he would have gone there if I was not needy. I guess what I am saying is watch the Lady. (of course I told him no, and cut off contact)That's my suggestion. Natasha
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~jane_says~
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: SD
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 28, 2006 10:26 PM
THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH for taking the time to help me out and give me sound advice. We've been fighting less since this situation. I've been trying to be less demanding and bossy(something that's been alienating him from me) and giving him space. It's working so far for us, but I still think about the convo a lot. I've decided to believe him (my mom sees a psychic and he has said to ask her about went on, so that's enough for me) and not bring up the conversation.Thanks again, I appreciate it. IP: Logged |
~jane_says~
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: SD
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted December 28, 2006 10:29 PM
By the way, just out of curiousity. How does his Moon in Cancer play into all this? I've heard that they truly never forget or toss away the past and all that goes along with it.IP: Logged |
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