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Topic: Daily Horoscopes for Couples???
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MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted March 01, 2007 05:29 PM
 
Hey ladies (and gents  )! Some of you may remember me, I haven't made many posts though...Does anyone know where to find a site that does daily horoscopes for couples? You know to see how your compatibility is for the day? My "lover" and I have been going through major ups and downs and I am curious to see if there is something going on here...or is it simply male PMS?  The story line.....sorry its wordy...
the last couple days for example have been a rollarcoaster! Sunday we had a GREAT night together, playfull, laughing, cuddled, what have you. Monday night Kevin went out with the boys, I didn't care, so its not like some weird issue of control. Tuesday night, again, started out as GREAT night. Met up with friends, everything seemed usual, happy and carefree, had a few beers. Next thing you know we get to talking and he says he's not sure about our relationship. He thinks its moving to fast...that our next step is moving in together and he's not ready. Mind you, we've only been together 3 months and I've never even suggested we cohabitate. I told him that I wasn't planning on us moving in together anyway. A few other issues surfaced and we still ended up "breaking up" (though it ended well so it feels more like a "break" - geez, don't you hate those?) Then, Wednesday night he sends me a text saying "I'm sorry," I text back "For what" and he replies with "Life bad day, we'll be ok though." That's it. oook. Then there's today - he calls me and asks if I am sitting at my desk, I told him yes (as I was) and he's like, so do you still want to go to Blaine (2 weeks ago we planned a trip to Blaine where his family cabin is for a friend's bday party/trip). I asked him if he wanted me to go and he said its up to me. I said sure. We talked about the trip and he's like ok, I'll talk to you next week. wth. This up and down has me going in circles! 
Please tell me its the pull of the tides and a full moon or something  Maybe the fact I was sitting at my desk signalled to him talk about our relationship status wasn't good timing. And a little further info on us:
me, age 22, Sun in Aries, Moon in Taurus.
Him, age 23, Sun in Aquarius, Moon in Pisces. Thanks to everyone and anyone who can help in someway decipher my Aqua man! IP: Logged |
MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted March 01, 2007 05:56 PM
woops, what was I thinking? lol my moon is in Gemini IP: Logged |
CrankyCap
Knowflake Posts: 420
From: Powell, Ohio, United States
Registered: May 2006
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posted March 01, 2007 08:31 PM
Hey Momma Aries!!! I was wondering what happened to you!!!!I'm sorry to hear that you're having ups and downs with your Aqua... Wish I could give you some more advice, but, *sigh* I'm so confused about men I'd probably steer you wrong anyway. Just wanted to give you a shout out! I hope things start to turn around and this works itself out for you.  -CC IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
Knowflake Posts: 1115
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posted March 01, 2007 10:28 PM
Hey! Unfortunately I can't offer much advice as I too go through the ups-and-downs, with my Gemini (never like yours though and not at the three-month stage). But I do like the romantic daily horoscopes for couples from astrology.com - they're usually pretty accurate, although brief. It's early days for you two yet and I don't think moving in together is a good choice so early in the relationship!Have you looked at your bf's current transits and his progressed chart? That's where I get my answers as to my bf's behaviour, and his progressed chart seems to hold most of the overall clues.
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MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
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posted March 02, 2007 11:57 AM
hi CC! Glad I was missed heh hehThanks for the thoughts...I am hopefull it will work itself out. Whither the way I want it to (he quits THINKING so much and we get back together) or he commits to what he wants and doesn't string me along. I would love to be his friend, he's too much of an amazing person and our connection is too strong not to remain in each other lives one way or another. I just hope the "I'm sorry" and the invite to the cabin wasn't more of a friendly gesture. If it was he needs to make that clear prior. The whole situation happened so out of the blue and sudden yet ended somewhat well. We were even kind of laughing afterward. Like when he walked me to the door, I started giggling to myself and when he asked why I was laughing, I said, "Habits......like just now I was about to kiss you goodbye." He smiled and said "bye babe." Maybe space and time to think is all he needs? I just wish I was close enough to his friend's girlfriends (who are like his sisters) that I could talk to them about this without worrying they might say something to him...I also really want to talk to his mom but fear that might be crossing a line though we seem to have a bond as well. I hate being confused! But glad I have you guys around ------------------
"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget the way you made them feel." -the great, Maya Angelou
"What hurts the most, was being so close, And having so much to say. And watching you walk away. And never knowing what could have been..." -Rascal Flatts lyric IP: Logged |
MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted March 02, 2007 12:24 PM
Hello GeminiLover I am gonna have to say I haven't looked up my boyfriend's current transits and his progressed chart...cause my next question is what is that and how do I find it I have dabbled in and out of astrology for about 10 years, some things have stuck over the years, others need some dusting off. Can you point me in the right direction? I tried to find what you mentioned on Astrology.com but I feel like I keep hitting road blocks on that website. Either its just info for me or I need to buy a subscription or something  heh heh (I love these smilie things) I can tell you this much though:
__________KEVIN________ME___
SUN.......Aquarius.....Aries
MOON......Pisces.......Gemini
MERCURY...Capricorn....Taurus
VENUS.....Capricorn....Pisces
MARS......Scorpio......Scorpio
JUPITER...Capricorn....Capricorn
SATURN....Scorpio......Scorpio
URANUS....Sagittarius..Sagittarius
NEPTUNE...Capricorn....Capricorn
PLUTO.....Scorpio......Scorpio
LILITH....Pisces.......Pisces
ASC NODE..Gemini.......Gemini lol damn near everything is the same. Which like I said, since I am a bit rusty and feeling new at this I have no idea if thats good or bad or what it means.... ------------------
"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget the way you made them feel." -the great, Maya Angelou
"What hurts the most, Was being so close, And having so much to say. And watching you walk away. And never knowing what could have been..." -Rascal Flatts lyric IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
Knowflake Posts: 1115
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posted March 02, 2007 05:01 PM
The big thing I see here is his Aquarius sun... that seems to be the big difference between you two, he could be more detached whereas as an Aries you know what you want and you go straight in to get it!I think the pop-ups at astrology.com are the stumbling block. I always have to turn off my pop-up blocker when I go there, or I get nowhere. If you go to another site, which is astro.com, and create an account, you can enter your data and automatically run natal charts, synastry charts, a composite (midpoint method), and progressed charts. All the options are there in a list. It's fascinating when you first find these options - you can study the charts for ages to see what's going on! If you want, you can post them here and we can all offer some interpretation. First I recommend running a synastry and a composite, which are two ways of showing you things about the relationship. The synastry will show you the effect you have on each other individually, and the composite will show you how you are TOGETHER. Second, run a natal chart plus transits for him. Then we can see what he's about as a person and what planetary energies might be affecting him RIGHT NOW. Third, run a progressed chart for him and that will give an overall picture of where he's come to in his life psychologically thus far. At least that's how I see it. It shows differences from the natal chart and gives just a bit of extra insight. For example, in my bf's progressed chart I found that he has a T-square to Jupiter in his 7th house... showing that very possibly, he thinks he can just kick back and take it easy in relationships, no work required. But yet he needs to do this work. That doesn't show up in his natal chart, but it does turn out that issues in his natal chart need to be addressed. I hope this helps!
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MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted March 02, 2007 05:09 PM
GL-- I'm on top of it!! What would you like me to post exactly? I am digging and I am diggin deeeep! I love this stuff but 90% of it I have no idea how to read it, absorb it and apply it *hurumph*------------------
"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget the way you made them feel." -the great, Maya Angelou
"What hurts the most, Was being so close, And having so much to say. And watching you walk away. And never knowing what could have been..." -Rascal Flatts lyric IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
Knowflake Posts: 1115
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posted March 02, 2007 05:23 PM
Can you post graphics of the charts? You'll need to save them to your computer and then upload to something like photobucket or your own webspace, and then link to them here in [IMG]imageaddressgoeshere[/IMG] tags.IP: Logged |
MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted March 02, 2007 05:34 PM
I ended up using CafeAstrology.com, I am sure its all the same though? There were also some Aspect charts, do you want those as well?....crap...I can't access Photobucket from work. I will see where else I can upload the charts to get them posted here as pics. For now though I can tell you: Me born on April 7, 1984 at appx 8am, in Aberdeen WA, USA (not Aberdeen Junction btw)
Kevin born on February 3, 1984 no idea what time in Longview, WA USA I'll keep trying but theres that info if you'd like to toy around with it THANKS GEMINILOVER!! Thank you so much! I am not ready to let my Aqua go, are connection is too deep, even in 3 months. Plus I always have strong relationships with Aquarians so it doesn't seem right this one is ending so quickly and based to me on what seems like over thinking instead of living.... ------------------
"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget the way you made them feel." -the great, Maya Angelou
"What hurts the most, Was being so close, And having so much to say. And watching you walk away. And never knowing what could have been..." -Rascal Flatts lyric IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted March 02, 2007 05:44 PM
Being with a Gemini for over a year and a half, I certainly know what you mean about the overthinking rather than living... I'll input your data to astro.com if I can grab some time later today! IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted March 02, 2007 05:48 PM
Hey I just input your data... wanted to check to confirm before I go any further, it says your rising sign is Gemini. Is that correct, or does it at least sound right to you?If you can find out Kevin's birth time, it will really help things a lot. IP: Logged |
MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted March 02, 2007 06:08 PM
That sounds about right for me...I think I asked him once he said appx noonish. The only way I could find a way to upload pics that I can actually access at work is through Yahoo/GeoCities. So now, I am making a webpage about our astro signs lol  ------------------
"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget the way you made them feel." -the great, Maya Angelou
"What hurts the most, Was being so close, And having so much to say. And watching you walk away. And never knowing what could have been..." -Rascal Flatts lyric IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted March 02, 2007 06:15 PM
Ok... if he was born at noon he is also a Gemini Rising. Does this sound like him?IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted March 02, 2007 06:21 PM
Wow... your ascendants (and therefore all the house cusps) are conjunct... so Pluto, Saturn, Uranus and Jupiter are all conjunct in the same houses. No wonder you feel a connection!One thing I notice is that you both have Uranus in your 7th house (and your Uranus' are conjunct)... maybe this is the on/off quality to your relationship. Combine that with his Aquarius sun and Gemini rising, and you have a man who could be very hard to pin down!
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MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
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posted March 02, 2007 06:22 PM
lol oh no... I honestly don't think so. I just read a brief profile of a Gemini and it does and it doesn't sound like him. One site said his rising sun is a Taurus, but that totally did not sound like him lol oh bother. If I felt better about asking him right now I would  ------------------
"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget the way you made them feel." -the great, Maya Angelou
"What hurts the most, Was being so close, And having so much to say. And watching you walk away. And never knowing what could have been..." -Rascal Flatts lyric IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted March 02, 2007 06:23 PM
hmm ok... we need the exact birth time! If you can think of any way to get it, it will solve a lot!IP: Logged |
MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted March 02, 2007 06:29 PM
"maybe this is the on/off quality to your relationship. Combine that with his Aquarius sun and Gemini rising, and you have a man who could be very hard to pin down!"The only on/off part it seems is him not "knowing" what he wants. I once read somewhere "if you don't know what you want, how will you know when you find it?" ...and as far as pinning him down, I'm not trying to. lol Maybe me moving out on my own (from my mom's house afer moving in after a bad relationship ended) and having a child is why he thinks that I am trying to pin him down?? Oof, I dunno. oooh snap, or maybe its pin down in a sense of figuring him out, hence why I am so confused??  Can you read the charts at all to see why he might be doing this half assed (so to speak) contact with me? Like I mentioned in the OP he texted me and called. TODAY he texted again "good morning, how r u?" I was so irritated and confused at the time it took me 3 hours to reply back "I'm good" and thats the end of our communication so far...I can't figure out if he is keeping touch to stay friends or because he regrets the whole situation, like he spoke up too soon?... IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted March 02, 2007 06:43 PM
Hmm well I just looked at his transits, and Jupiter is transiting his 7th house. My bf was having that transit when he met me. It's an ideal time for meeting a partner, but it CAN (not always, but it CAN) lead to a person feeling like they can just "cruise" in a relationship, like things are easy. In my experience it is an easy time for relationships, but it can also lead to taking things for granted.I'm wondering if he's finding your Aries energy too intense for his Pisces moon? Maybe, at this three-month point, he just needs to slow things down for a bit and not lose himself too much just yet. Three months is one of those "relationship checkpoints". 3 months, 6 months, a year, all seem to be times where we think about where it's all going. I think that with Jupiter transiting your 7th houses this is a good time for you both, but I do think you both need to communicate with each other, so that you know where you are both at. Another thing with your Uranus placements is that you could have an unusual relationship together, or one with quite a bit of freedom involved. IP: Logged |
MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted March 02, 2007 06:53 PM
Thanks so much for everything so far GeminiLover! You've been a big help in settling my nerves a bit... I am still trying to track down his birth time as well as I'll find my baby book tonight to get an exact for me as well. Then I'll post the charts on my new handy dandy webpage lol I could call and ask him right now, I doubt he'd know without talking to his mom, but he'd probably ask why and the only reasonable answer is Astrology stuff then I risk him thinking I am a loon and that I should just give up on "us" already lol And if I called his mom she would probably think I am a dink just for believing and reading astro related stuff....oh stuck...I'm gonna text him in about 30 mins too wish him luck on his poker game tonight. If he calls perhaps I can feel him out and see if I could bring it up I'll keep in touch! ------------------
"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget the way you made them feel." -the great, Maya Angelou
"What hurts the most, Was being so close, And having so much to say. And watching you walk away. And never knowing what could have been..." -Rascal Flatts lyric IP: Logged |
MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted March 02, 2007 06:55 PM
btw I wish I could offer something as a thanks for just being interested in my buisness loldo you have a myspace? IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted March 02, 2007 07:27 PM
No problem! I know what you mean about being careful to reveal your astrology interest, too... lol. Lucky for me my bf and his family are into astrology. It's a lovely giving community here at LL, we all help each other so I don't mind at all! I do have a myspace - it's http://www.myspace.com/alicatpurr . Do you have one? IP: Logged |
MommaAries
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Vancouver, WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted March 02, 2007 07:42 PM
I do! www.myspace.com/indymay I'll add you tonight you won't be able to see mine otherwise Well, I just talked to Kevin. I sent him a text about 4:15 that simply said "good luck tonight" (at his poker game). He replied, "I miss my baby, your myspace message made me tear up" (I sent him a message the night we broke up basically saying it was probably for the best and he deserves someone who doesn't have a child thats going to hold him down, I can send it to you if you'd like...). My response was "that wasn't my intention...I miss you too." THEN HE CALLED. oof. I felt a lump in my throat the second it rang. We talked for a minute he basically said he is not happy at all, he couldn't even eat lunch today. That he misses me. I told him I missed him too and I think he might have started to tear up. I could sorta hear it in his voice, plus a sniffle. He said he'd call me later tonight cause he was leaving work right now. Once we hung up he texted me a radio station he wanted me to tune to...it was Keith Urban "Making Memories of Us." *sigh* I just want to hold him so badly right now. Not only cause I miss him but because he's unhappy. I sorta feel like its my job to make sure he's taken care of and happy. Whither I am apart of that unhappiness or not....ahhh, love.... IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted March 02, 2007 08:05 PM
Awwww... that's so beautiful!  I broke up with my Mr Gem around 3 months I think, maybe less... and we were heartbroken without each other... we were back together within 3 days. All the best with your man!IP: Logged |
pearlized
Knowflake Posts: 53
From: TX
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted March 02, 2007 10:52 PM
I bought the yearly subscription to thefutureminders.com and i noticed you can make a daily synastry for several people. The astro spy on that site is very helpful as well. im not sure if they are free or only available with the subscription.
Also astroadvice.com has a daily horoscope for couples. its free but very generic.IP: Logged | |
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