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Topic: Aries & Cancer
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polylepsis Knowflake Posts: 6 From: California Registered: Aug 2007
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posted August 27, 2007 11:02 PM
I just got into a relationship with an aries girl. The premises of the relationship itself is quite odd, but I was wondering - has anyone been in an Aries/Cancer relationship? Seen one? How was it, and how did it turn out? I'm just curious to find out. IP: Logged |
etoile03 Knowflake Posts: 18 From: Allier, France Registered: Jul 2007
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posted August 28, 2007 12:16 PM
Hi there I am an aries girl and i just (2 months ago officially 1 yr ago emotionally) got out of a seven year relationship with a cancerian man.As to the whys of it not working, the things i guess are most rlted to his chart are the moods, a real "lunatic" in the original sense lol. He personally was incapable of showing caring emotions, which is not particularly cancerian, but was a cause of many of the problems. Don't be tight with money lol, not that we want your money, but theres nothing more offputting than someone who brings "everything" round to money. The good points; I liked the way he was with kids, he also had some great ideas about lots of things (just lacked the get up and go to do anything about them lol) Good luck Etoile IP: Logged |
polylepsis Knowflake Posts: 6 From: California Registered: Aug 2007
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posted August 28, 2007 01:55 PM
Sorry to hear about the relationship, but this is really good advice.Thanks so much IP: Logged |
lovegoblin Knowflake Posts: 379 From: norfolk, virginia USA Registered: May 2006
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posted August 28, 2007 02:16 PM
cancer girl- lived with aries man almost 4 years. what a disaster. just a warning. he had five planets in aries though, and all my water couldn't cope, even though i have a leo ascendant.he was too, too much of everything. every situation is different though. you two might be the perfect fit. IP: Logged |
polylepsis Knowflake Posts: 6 From: California Registered: Aug 2007
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posted August 29, 2007 02:10 AM
well, here's the deal - i'm actually just a beginner with all of this stuff, so I'm not quite sure how to find out where each of our planets are, but it's a female/female relationship, and we were best friends for five years beforehand. i don't know - is there a difference as far as the harshness of the aries character goes? we recently went through a rough patch as well, but I am very optimistic that we have gotten through it. eck. sorry if this isn't making any good sense xP
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lovegoblin Knowflake Posts: 379 From: norfolk, virginia USA Registered: May 2006
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posted August 29, 2007 08:40 AM
You might start by going to astro.com and doing a synastry chart. Its free and from there you can look at the different aspects with each other. Some might be very binding and good aspects. If you were friends for five years, I think that a good sign. Every situation is different. The aries i was living with had a very harsh side to his personality. Like i said, he also had ascendant, moon, venus, and mars in aries. In his particular situation it made his personality too rough for me over time.Your situation might be totally, 100% different. Also, we lived together and over time brought out the worst in each other. I have 5 planets in water, would become over emotional, which in turn only increased the harshness of his personality. He wasn't into empathy. IP: Logged |
etoile03 Knowflake Posts: 18 From: Allier, France Registered: Jul 2007
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posted August 29, 2007 08:46 AM
I would go along with lovegoblin, in as much as I thought that I could cope with his traits in a relationship, I couldn't in the end, but although we are over and I have anew love, i have no animosity towarrds him. I like him as a friend and obviously as hes my daughter's papa thats really important. But I know i could never ever be romantic again with him, without starting to die inside again, which is how i felt.sorry if thats a bit muddled lol, but i'm preparing for a HOT date with my sexy frenchman tonight lol so my mind *is* a bit muddled.. Etoile
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polylepsis Knowflake Posts: 6 From: California Registered: Aug 2007
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posted August 29, 2007 05:39 PM
Well thanks I will definitely check out the charts today and gather what I can find. We've already been living together for about six months and haven't had too many problems, so I hope thats a good sign I suppose most of what I can do is just wait and see how things end up. Thank you for all of your advice, you guys, it helps a lot ^^ IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 9661 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted August 31, 2007 01:16 PM
I've seen a Cancer marry an Aries. I kind of doubt that it will work. Only time will tell.IP: Logged |
polylepsis Knowflake Posts: 6 From: California Registered: Aug 2007
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posted September 03, 2007 05:00 AM
Hm. Well, it is good to know. Well, I got the charts if anybody wants to look at them xP (I have no idea how to read them). Hers - and mine -
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MysticMelody Knowflake Posts: 2328 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted September 03, 2007 01:36 PM
Looks like her moon (emotions) is conjunct your Cancer Sun, so you will feel comfortable together. You also have a moon that is barely Pisces, so you have "water" emotions too. So you both are emotionally emotional. hehe Even if we compare every aspect for days and yank out our box of asteroids and start comparing those, you still won't know if it will for sure "work out". My favorite advice: Give it time. Take it slow. Get to know her and be friends and explore what you have and take notice of what you don't have. She will probably want to move fast, but you would be wise to set the pace to slow. If she doesn't allow you to do that, or if you don't feel comfortable taking charge (or even co-charge) in that way, you might begin to see what your future troubles might be if you choose to marry a fiery Arian Zena Warrior Princess. You have a lot of planets in fiery Leo yourself, and in the Friend area, so you will probably be comfortable dialing pace down and getting to know each other. Just remember that the more you romance her, the more you will have to deal with her emotions, which are probably quite strong. IP: Logged |
polylepsis Knowflake Posts: 6 From: California Registered: Aug 2007
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posted September 03, 2007 03:33 PM
Thank you so much! That was very helpful. And I know I definitely can't base the relationship on something that isn't for sure, so I won't, but this is interesting IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 9661 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted September 05, 2007 01:17 AM
I noticed that Cancer Moon as well. That bodes well for her being sympathetic to you. Her Mars is also sitting on your Sun, which probably notes some dynamism. I also noticed that her North Node is in Capricorn, which means that her South Node is in Cancer. Oh, both of you have Capricorn North Nodes. Read here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/007999.html
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