posted November 12, 2018 12:16 PM            

Sure. What’s your q?
I guess my q would just be where mt’’s feelings are for me as of late.

posted November 12, 2018 12:38 PM            

looks like mt is doing some thinking to figure out exactly how he feels. He does like you, there is physical attraction for sure. He is just trying to decide how to proceed or even if he can be what you need. I do feel like he may mention something similar to you about his thoughts and fears.

posted November 12, 2018 01:23 PM            

I’m sorry but I do feel that t is in between a rock and a hard place in regards to his marital situation. It seems like he has been in contact with her, and he feels the need to end the romance with you, as he is rooted to the home situation for the time being. Even though that situation seems stale and flat, he feels that’s what he has to do at this point ....I also see that he will be like a ping pong ball with you for the next couple of weeks, if not months. Like he will tell you he just wants a “friend” yet he will still want to be intimate with you. Keep your eyes wide open with this so you don’t get played. I’m
Sorry this was not more positive <3
Do let me know if you’d like to exchange again? I’m around for the next hour or so

posted November 12, 2018 02:13 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
Thank you. I plan on asking him later....will he be honest with me about it?

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Yes and no. Pay attention to his body language as you are very direct and intuitive. I feel like he will be somewhat honest in the sense that he’s confused ( which he is) but I also feel he has made the situation out to be far worse than what it really is ( with the mother of the children). He feels like a chicken. This is what I think. He doesn’t want to lose you, but he also can’t commit to you. He needs to be transparent with you but I’m not sure he will be 100% for his fear of losing you is great.

posted November 12, 2018 02:26 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Yes and no. Pay attention to his body language as you are very direct and intuitive. I feel like he will be somewhat honest in the sense that he’s confused ( which he is) but I also feel he has made the situation out to be far worse than what it really is ( with the mother of the children). He feels like a chicken. This is what I think. He doesn’t want to lose you, but he also can’t commit to you. He needs to be transparent with you but I’m not sure he will be 100% for his fear of losing you is great.

May I ask : do you actually feel like mt wants to express how he feels to me? Perhaps move forward ?

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makes sense! will he be intimate with H as well? Or is he only wanting her to believe things in order for her to not make his life a living he** when he's around for the kids? I do feel he's made it out worse that what it really is for sure and so I question who he wants to be with. I just need to know if I should cut my losses now because he's playing sides.

Ok so MT....will he express how he feels? anchor, cross and heart. he definitely wants to! But yes I do think he will, just not as soon as you'd like. I see him "suffering" some more

posted November 12, 2018 04:13 PM            

SO I do feel the need to tell you to cut his losses. I truly feel the issue at hand is that he is not attracted to her at all, but he feels bound and stuck (devil/Hanged man).

With you, he feels very attracted both emotionally and physically. BUT I would err on the side of caution with this one... even though he does not WANT to be intimate with her, I do feel he will be out of obligation (i know sounds horrible) which is not only unfair for you, but it is unsafe...I would say cut your losses until he comes forward with papers in his hand.

Any chance you could look at what MT wishes to express to me?

I'm happy to read agin for you.

posted November 12, 2018 04:23 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Thanks Dustib!

SO I do feel the need to tell you to cut his losses. I truly feel the issue at hand is that he is not attracted to her at all, but he feels bound and stuck (devil/Hanged man).

With you, he feels very attracted both emotionally and physically. BUT I would err on the side of caution with this one... even though he does not WANT to be intimate with her, I do feel he will be out of obligation (i know sounds horrible) which is not only unfair for you, but it is unsafe...I would say cut your losses until he comes forward with papers in his hand.

Any chance you could look at what MT wishes to express to me?

I'm happy to read agin for you.

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They were never married but have 5 kids together and I know there are issues with the kids. Can I ask, if I totally go silent and disappear after telling him he needs to figure out who/what he wants, will that make any impact on him....like will he walk away from her but not the kids? It's like he isn't sure he can split the 2 but we both know he can. And, will I see him tonight? if not, then this week at all?

Any chance you could look at what MT wishes to express to me?

bridge, package, fox, clover, volcano and clarifying card road

posted November 12, 2018 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Sure I can look at that. May I also ask you one final question? Just to what extent HAS he thought of me ? ( testing my intuition on myself here )

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devil, giraffe, and house

posted November 12, 2018 05:35 PM            

I see February bringing some changes to his situation, perhaps by outside circumstances. I do feel he will ultimately break it off with her , just not yet. I feel the best thing for you to do is to say thst and stick with it. No contact

posted November 15, 2018 01:47 PM            

May I ask does MT think we would be happy if we actually got together?

cherries, clown and arrow

posted November 17, 2018 08:31 AM            

Are you up for another exchange?
I need to ask you about these guy MT....what does he want with me? Is it just friendship or something more?

posted November 17, 2018 11:54 AM            

MT is looking for love and he knows he is definitely attracted to you. he is wanting a successful "chance" is how he's seeing it. He wants to see if that attraction goes further and turns into love and he's hoping it is.

I pulled with lenormand cards and got stars, mice, sun, fox, snake and clarifying card clover. Yes he is definitely hoping that things work out with you in terms of success/love. The attraction part is definitely there for him as well...he thinks you're sexy and he's going to do what he can to make it happen because he wants long term.

posted November 17, 2018 10:50 PM            

I know you say he blocked you and that he has not done that before...I also realize you have both said . hurtful things here. The truth of the matter is, he still harbors deep feelings for you, intense and passionate feelings that will not easily go away on either side. I see a conversation taking place in two-weeks time where some very serious points are made, and you actually reconcile a bit...I don't feel this is over but it will take some bending on both sides to make this workable, if you so desire....he does still have very xtrong feelings for you though...

posted November 19, 2018 08:27 AM            

Sorry was away for a day or two.
Would love to exchange with you again.

So -when I look into this situation, right away I feel/see his confusion and turmoil over this whole situation both with you and with H.

Now, with H all I feel is turbulence. There is nothing healthy about this situation and he knows it. The thing is, he feels very stuck and bound to the situation, not to H but to their circumstances. (Devil/six of cups/Hanged Man/Six of swords)

In this read, I do see him eventually cutting the ties that bind, but it may take a little while and he seems to feels a lot of guilt over this. He does not realize though that the only way to move forward is by being honest. He is afraid to tell H it is REALLY over, even though in his mind/heart it has been over for sometime. This part is true.

Now, we have you. This is a VERY different read and energy altogether. He met you at a time in his life when he was feeling very low and down oh himself. You have brightened up his world and he has gotten a taste of 'comfort and normalcy', plus he is super attracted to you....I feel this as a strong and heavy soul connection. He knows it is different and he is very hesitant to let you, or this, go. It/you ,brings him joy and happiness, a feeling he is not used to but yet he loves it. He has been struggling with these emotions as he DOES want to do the right thing. In a perfect world, he would erase everything with H and be with you, no questions asked. (Two of cups/five of cups/Chariot/Lovers/Devil again)

Now as for playing both sides as I saw earlier....this is NOT his intention, but he does not want to cut you out or lose you entirely. He truly is trying to figure out a way to keep you in his life that would be fair to you. I Do see him eventually moving on from H but it will take a lot of time and tears on that side. She is quite co-dependant on him, and he is to with h on some level, so do be warned about that. His feelings for you are strong and true, You keep him going , you make him want to be a better man. Now,, saying all that I do still see him trying to keep the contact open with you....he will let you know he is unhappy yet feels stuck. I don't know that much real steps will be taken for him to move forward until at least March/April/.May of 2019...so this is what I am getting...if he is playing both sides, it's not really an intentional game it is just that he truly cares for you and want you in his life....he's just really stuck and scared......but for you, this may not be enough. Keep demanding truth and honesty as it keeps him moving forward. He does respect you and care for you greatly....

I hope this resonates...

My question would be about MT (surprise lol). Actually. I have two hope you don't mind

1).. Do you see him as being supportive of me/towards me if we really get together?

2). Has he been keeping tabs on me? What is he waiting for?

posted November 19, 2018 01:31 PM            

1).. Do you see him as being supportive of me/towards me if we really get together?

dog, man and flies

uh yes 100% loyal and supportive. This man will spoil you actually.

2). Has he been keeping tabs on me?
compass, train and scissors

not consistently but he does sometimes check things out. He knows he shouldn't do it if that helps. LOL

What is he waiting for?
fountain, spoon, parrot, butterfly, house and feet

Looks like he is trying to get some things dealt with and ended so he can come towards you. I feel this has to do with home/family situation more than anything and he knows in order to be able to give you what you need and want, this has to be handled. It's like this is the foundation he needs to have in place in order to approach you and be happy with you. He's working on it!

posted November 20, 2018 02:19 PM            

"Can I ask, what is D wanting to happen with me?

D wants to do the right thing. D wants things to go back to how they were when you first met, before it slowed down and got complicated. When you first met, there was an instant soul recognition on both ends, and he thouroughly enjoyed that feeling. He liked when the connection felt pure and innocent, he wants movement yet he feels stuck...

I have to be honest, I feel you are a catalyst for him, in the sense that if he is serious about you (which I feel he is) he needs to do things the 'right' way, and he knows it. So overall, he wants everything with you, but he recognizes that he needs to make MAJOR moves, that he feels unready to take at this moment...

Six of cups-Knight of coins- Justice

(FYI six of cups and Justice are MAJOR soul connection cards when I read).

posted November 21, 2018 06:34 AM            

What is it that M wants with me/from me at this time?

Clover, devil, flies, foundation, snake and clarifying card umbrella

Interesting.... he's back and forth. On one hand he wants the happiness and pleasure he knows will happen with you but he also knows right now he can't give that because of his issues he's dealing with so he's avoiding being around you. He's feeling guilty about it and also feels he's going to lose you if he keeps this up. This isn't going to last forever though and when the time comes, he hopes he can have a renewal with you. so basically he's wanting your understanding. I don't a have patience card so I'm not getting him asking you to wait but to be open when he comes back into your life.

posted November 21, 2018 08:38 AM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
Yes! You just described it perfectly based on our history and what he's told me. He's been in and out for awhile but as to the serious part, I don't think he is(maybe he hides it well) as he's told me many times in the past 2 years he doesn't want serious and definitely can't do a relationship.

What is it that M wants with me/from me at this time?

Clover, devil, flies, foundation, snake and clarifying card umbrella

Interesting.... he's back and forth. On one hand he wants the happiness and pleasure he knows will happen with you but he also knows right now he can't give that because of his issues he's dealing with so he's avoiding being around you. He's feeling guilty about it and also feels he's going to lose you if he keeps this up. This isn't going to last forever though and when the time comes, he hopes he can have a renewal with you. so basically he's wanting your understanding. I don't a have patience card so I'm not getting him asking you to wait but to be open when he comes back into your life.

Have I asked you that about T?

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Thanks Dustib...not sure if you asked about T. is this a male in your life? Happy to read on it, just clarify.

I have another question if you don't mind!
Even though he's avoiding me at the moment (which I do understand), does he have the desire to talk to me? Like , will he ever tell me the truth, express anything to me when the time is right?