posted July 19, 2012 11:12 AM            

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posted July 20, 2012 04:31 PM            

also like Spritualjourney mentioned the tight Moon conjunct Uranus is a bit unpredictable indeed. its hard to tell sometimes who feels which planet. you trigger her Uranus with your Moon. So she might be annoyed by your emotions sometimes (or the other way round').

Plus the composite Mars square Pluto is a another aspect showing conflicts. Mars is in 12th (hidden house), Pluto in 3d(communications). Mars in the 12th shows one of you perhaps hides jealousy & anger. (Maybe the progressed composite shows Mars out of the 12th so the jealousy is more visible now?) And since you are so Scorpionic you see through people, feel this square from composite more?

composite mars square pluto:

This relationship will be marked by powerful transformations. Be conscious of where you are directing your power together. If you have positive and purposeful objectives, you have great chances to achieve them. There is tremendous creative energy to solve problems. However, without great care and courtesy and consideration, the two of you will most certainly find each other to be vicious, crude and difficult to deal with. http://www.adze.com/Celebrities/MelanieGriffith&AntonioBanderas.htm

you have 2 tight Chiron aspects in composite too. Uranus oppo Chiron maybe shows your interaction can cause you slightly unpredictable wounds sometimes(but also healing). and the magi astrologers call the saturn-chiron a heartbreak clash aspect. obviously she is your friend not romantic interest, but still could indicate emotional wounding.

posted July 20, 2012 05:55 PM            

I don't fear her Scorpio energy, then again I've never thought about it.

also like Spritualjourney mentioned the tight Moon conjunct Uranus is a bit unpredictable indeed. its hard to tell sometimes who feels which planet. you trigger her Uranus with your Moon. So she might be annoyed by your emotions sometimes (or the other way round').

I do get annoyed with her a lot!!! Especially when I view her objectively.

Plus the composite Mars square Pluto is a another aspect showing conflicts. Mars is in 12th (hidden house), Pluto in 3d(communications). Mars in the 12th shows one of you perhaps hides jealousy & anger. (Maybe the progressed composite shows Mars out of the 12th so the jealousy is more visible now?) And since you are so Scorpionic you see through people, feel this square from composite more?

Lol I wish I was Scorpionic. She can obviously read me because it's hard NOT to read me but I hide my anger from her. It definitely builds up.

posted July 21, 2012 12:39 PM            

anyway. you are a very Aries person. outgoing, bold, like to hang out with different friends. she is probably more introverted, somewhat mysterious, she also has a stellium in 12th. she has a more hidden personality on top of that scorpionic mystery. such a scorpio/12th house person probably has only a few very good friends, you must have lots of acquaintances? maybe that is the cause of jealousy?

since her Venus in Scorpio is the only really 'visible' planet on her AC, she is good at hiding the jealous, possessive part of her.

since you have Mars in 12th house like you said you hide the anger from her too. so in the composite i assume the mars in 12th resonates more with you, the pluto with her. you stir up the jealousy in her. maybe she doesn't like sharing you with other friends? lol you two certainly must have deep conversations together, but she might say some things that make you upset, angry. Scorpionic people sometimes say things that are hurtful, in a way they like to play manipulative games. however only if they really like you. lol it must be annoying, frustrating to a person who doesn't have much scorpio in a chart to understand. there is much good to Scorpio though. very loyal, true friends. they like honesty, but it's funny they like to play mind games as well, especially when they are hurt. she might be testing you to see if you care? you are such a direct Aries, you probably don't understand why that is necessary. i hope i'm making sense. lol

i'm not sure what would cause for you to feel these changes recently though. like i said in the progressed composite chart the mars probably went out of the 12th, so the mars square pluto from composite is more visible now. all that hidden repressed anger is bubbling out of you. and she probably knows it too. i wouldn't be surprised if she gets a kick out of it too. (Scorpio games)

i have moon in aries in the 8th house. so you see i like both of these signs. i'm quite confused about my emotions sometimes too. lol

you two have a pretty good composite otherwise. you certainly like hanging together, having fun, the Pluto has a nice trine to Moon(conjunct DC too) a very healing, meaningful friendship and since there is so much earth, a very stable one too. that tight mars square jupiter is not really bad either, you two enjoy physical activities together, sharing laughs, so if things get to heavy with that mars&pluto that is the best way to release that friction i think.

did any of this make sense? lol =)

posted July 21, 2012 03:31 PM            

She has told me numerous times she tries really really hard to control her jealousy and possessiveness. I'm usually good at picking that up in water signs though, but with her I never felt it and I felt she treats me differently than her other close friends.

I feel she takes advantage of my weak spot - which is dating. I do have a lot of acquaintances and friends (not a separate group but people are much more receptive to me, and she seems not to realize how she comes off to people.) Anyway, I usually gave her the benefit of the doubt but lately I've been thinking over things I've told her and her actions afterwards and the odds aren't favorable. She excels at getting attention from the opposite sex, keeping her emotions under control and letting me make a fool out of myself. She introduces me to men who are interested (and still interested) in her and then claims naivety. I'm 23 and she's nearly 25. I feel at this age you can't deny interest.

BUT you're right. She's been loyal to me and me her even when we've both messed up in the friendship, so I do feel that's genuine (and we bust up a lot when hanging out too!) but that's why I don't understand the competition she feels with me.

posted July 21, 2012 05:32 PM            

synastry some interesting patterns:

the ruler of her Dc is Venus in Scorpio in 1st, that itself shows she knows she's very attractive to partners. her Venus is the one that quincunxs your stellium (Mercury/Sun/Venus). your stellium goes into her 5th of romance. her 5th ruler Mars in her 11th(friends) in the sign of Libra--it's ruler Venus again. i think she definitely indeed plays little games with you in that area. shows off & knows she could ''steal'' partners from friends if she wanted.

you have a double whammy Mars oppo Saturn + Mars square Saturn too

both are challenging aspects. limitations/frustrations in the way you two assert yourselves sometimes. her saturn is oppo your mars(ruler of 11th) you feel limited by her sometimes, but her saturn is also trine your stellium in aries. so it's not that big of a deal to you. she however might feel limited/frustrated by your relationships with others. her mars in her 11th of friends squares your Saturn in your 7th of relationships. maybe that's why she tries to 'sabotage' your relationships.

you do have mars trine mars to help release that a bit though.

and i see you're not completely without Scorpio energy, i believe you have Moon opposition Pluto in natal. but her Pluto also is opposed your natal Moon pretty tightly from what i can see. this one is a hard one indeed. probably *the one*. intense emotions between you two, power struggles, she being the Pluto definitely manipulates your emotions (specially because Pluto is her Asc ruler!) she's good at hiding it (pluto 12th house).

you have a nice Moon trine Moon too. you have lots of nice aspects, throw in some Pluto power struggles, Saturn limitations, things can get frustrating indeed. i don't know she's such a powerful Scorpio, obviously there would be negative qualities as well as positive ones. but i think you are not just imagining things. she's definitely playing some games with you. (in my opinion)

sorry for the lenght lol i'm a bit sleepy. not sure if i made sense. lol