posted January 28, 2014 05:53 PM            

I guess what I came here for is to see if anyone else can provide some insight. I do have a good deal of astrological knowledge, but I tend to second guess myself in my own personal relationships because it's easy to have biased judgement. (Merc sq Saturn )
Astrologically we do have many soul mate indicators. I can see what's behind the chemistry, but I want to be sure this is real. We are both going through some heavy neptune transits that are opposing my moon and his sun/venus.. So I'll let you all be the judge, tell me if you think this is the mark of a true soul mate, and if so, does he feel it as strongly as I do, like he says?

Synastry wise his sun/venus/north node is exactly conjunct my moon.
Sun trine neptune double whammy
Venus opposite venus
Sun-pluto double whammy
Venus-Pluto double whammy
My venus/pluto/Lilith trine his mars
His Saturn conjunct my moon and sadly opposite my venus. (I have venus sq Saturn nasally and he has venus conjunct Saturn natally)
Also, his sun/moon midpoint opposes my sun

Those are just a few off the top of my head. I'll provide the composite chart as well.
What's interesting to note though, is that the sun in the composite chart is exactly conjunct my sun/moon midpoint, and the moon of the composite chart is exactly conjunct his sun/moon midpoint...

posted January 28, 2014 09:53 PM            

seriously, what do u guys do. do u just make it as hard for us as possible? rofl.

well i see that synastry is super super intense. but i also think it wont end well. You guys are trine chinese signs....rabbit and sheep.........from what i could tell from your composite......you know what I could, TELL. lol.

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Nevertheless. Yes most of your planets are conjunct in the composite and the intense synastry, that will make it very intense. But I don't see this being real love. Real love takes things slow....and is not immediately melting into the other person right away. Just my 2 cents. I know that may sound harsh. I feel like it wont last, and what tells me that is this synastry...too much infatuation aspects, and not enough solid aspects that show true compatibility feel me?

posted January 29, 2014 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
i cant see the chart....it is so very small.....

seriously, what do u guys do. do u just make it as hard for us as possible? rofl.

well i see that synastry is super super intense. but i also think it wont end well. You guys are trine chinese signs....rabbit and sheep.........from what i could tell from your composite......you know what I could, TELL. lol.

But.

Nevertheless. Yes most of your planets are conjunct in the composite and the intense synastry, that will make it very intense. But I don't see this being real love. Real love takes things slow....and is not immediately melting into the other person right away. Just my 2 cents. I know that may sound harsh. I feel like it wont last, and what tells me that is this synastry...too much infatuation aspects, and not enough solid aspects that show true compatibility feel me?

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Hahaha, RAS I'm not quite sure why it posted such a small thumbnail. Maybe cause I posted from my phone? It does show up full size if you click on it though I'll post it again just in case

Anywho, I feel you on taking things slow. That is actually one thing we always talk about, we both want to do things the "right" way and not rush into everything just because it feels good. Though we have developed feelings ridiculously quick, I am no stranger to feelings of infatuation, this feels much different
But this is why I came here, I appreciate the sober thoughts and astrological insight It's just crazy because I have been studying composite charts and synastry for a while now, and I have never seen a chart quite like ours. Conjunctions and trines, seesaw, north node conjunctions, sun/moon midpoint for both of us aspecting the sun and the moon in the composite chart. But those Uranus and Neptune oppositions at the other end of the seesaw have me a little worried. It definitely explains the quickness and idealization of our relationship, but is it enough to break it apart? Not sure if it really makes a difference, but we have all harmonious uranus aspects between us in synastry. Not many, but they are all trines. And we do have saturn in there to add some stability. I don't know, what do you think?

posted January 29, 2014 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Wow, this composite has a stellium of 5 planets together, trine Moon/Pluto and oppose Neptune! Some elements might be too far to consider their aspects, but since they are together with other closer elements, I'd consider them as part of this big configuration.

Well, you have Venus, Mercury, Mars, Sun and Jupiter, their midpoints aspecting each other as well, and this is a pattern of mental and emotional attraction with the intention of commitment. Uranus is opposing Venus/Mercury, creating electrical chemistry between you. Then Pluto and Neptune here adds sensibility and deeper bond and compassion towards each other.
Moon conjunct Pluto can indicate a deep emotional connection, the capacity to feel each other at a deeper level. Thought the intensity can be too strong that it can bring up inner issues that can make it uncomfortable or even painful. Depending on the maturity of the couple, if not handled well it can become manipulative and selfish, thought if the couple is mature, they can handle the intensity and depth which allows a much deeper bond.
Saturn is also near Pluto, sextile Neptune and trine Sun thought it is out of sign aspect, but can add more stability in the picture.

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Thank you so much! I hadn't even noticed those until you pointed them out. Or at least hadn't put them together. Do you think the Moon/pluto trine neptune would soften the manipulative tendencies the moon/pluto combination can potentially draw out? I am quite comfortable with pluto contacts. I have moon sextile pluto, and venus trine pluto natally as well as pluto in the 7th. His moon also overlays in my 8th house. Deep emotions is an understatement! It's all very sweet though. It's like an overflowing insatiable love for one another, which is why we have such a compulsion to be together and see each other. We feel so much better in each other's presence because it's an outlet for all of these feelings. We are able to be physically affectionate and express our feelings and makes it less overwhelming for us to harbor these feelings, if that makes sense? Maybe the uranus opposite venus/mercury has something to do with that? Impulsive drive (uranus) to be around each other to express our
feelings of love? (venus/mercury) Also, do you think the saturn/pluto conjunction trine our sun would be enough glue? Though I'm doubtful sometimes of the idea of soulmates, it is interesting to see we have many contacts that have been attributed to soulmates. The feelings we have also have been said to be indicators as well. I can't help but wonder if this is really it. Might be hard to tell, but do you see anything that would be a definite yes or a definite no? Thank you so much again, absolutely fascinating insights

posted January 29, 2014 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:

You guys are trine chinese signs....rabbit and sheep.........from what i could tell from your composite.

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Ooh, I haven't looked much into Chinese compatibility. Now I have something else to research

posted January 29, 2014 03:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Queen Salome:
Go to While The Soul Slumbers and check topic 1111 and repeatitive numbers (if you have not already)

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I hadn't seen that until now, thank you! Didn't realize there had been posts about that on LL

posted January 30, 2014 10:16 AM            

Yes, Neptune can help soften the Moon/Pluto, thought the depth is still here, and only time can tell how it will unfold, since it will depend on the couple to show how it will manifest. A mature couple without serious inner issues will let a deep connection happen, while if there are inner issues, it can make it hard.
Ultimately, there is a reason as to why we are drawn to certain relationships. Do you feel that this is more inclined to healthy or unhealthy attraction? Do you feel this strong pull and need to see each other often, as something healthy or unhealthy? Sometimes the strong need might stem from some inner issues, but sometimes it might be just an initial phase, of having met someone with whom we can connect deeply and it being amazing. If it was a square then a square might often point to something unhealthy fueling the need and pull, but with a conjunction it might depend.