posted December 18, 2011 01:42 AM            

Well, at first he was supah stand off-ish and rude. But a day later, he was already "being himself" around me. That's what my friend noted.

Now, we'd spend hours talking to each other, well into early morning. But last night was a disaster...

I developed warm feelings for him, and flat out told him (is my style), and that I want NOTHING AT ALL from him. At the time, he said he felt the same.

Just earlier today, however, he said he was tired at the time and didn't know what he was talking about. It was clear by this point he didn't want to talk to me.

So my thoughts are: holy f!ck, in five days I went from arguing (not fighting) with him to being one of his inner circle (populated by a whole two other people). What could point to this? I'm the blue, he's the red.

I think I'm going to stop talking to him. Dunno yet, I wanna see what he has to say.

posted December 18, 2011 01:54 AM            

you sound like an interesting friend. he sounds like an interesting boyfriend, did you forget your friend was in the picture when you told him you developed feelings for him?

posted December 18, 2011 02:00 AM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
I wonder what your friend thinks about her friend talking to her boyfriend for hours and hours.... until the morning lol

you sound like an interesting friend. he sounds like an interesting boyfriend, did you forget your friend was in the picture when you told him you developed feelings for him?

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LOL! Okay, well, yeah, I obviously told her about all this. She was cool with me talking to her bf for hours. She thought it was adorable. But she utterly understood everything that was happening. I'm big on honesty and she's big on understanding, so we make a good duo.

Anyways, to answer your questions...

posted December 18, 2011 02:02 AM            

1. You only just started talking to him alot, it's not like you've been repressing strong feelings for years.
2. You and I know perfectly well what your intentions were.

Come on. It's your friend's bf.
Talking constantly on the phone is already verging on crossing the line.

Have you at all thought about how your friend would feel? Step in her shoes for a sec.

posted December 18, 2011 02:07 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
What the hell. No offense but why would you tell someone's bf you like them? You say you don't want him to react, but it's just selfish and puts him in an awkward position. What were you hoping to get from that? Don't say 'cos you wanted to get it off your chest'

1. You only just started talking to him alot
2. You and I know perfectly well what your intentions were.

Come on. It's your friend's bf.
Talking constantly on the phone is already verging on crossing the line.

Have you at all thought about how your friend would feel? Step in her shoes for a sec.

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I would rather be honest about something then hide it away and be all shush shush.

I was hoping he would understand and we, including my friend, could work something out (like agree that nothing is to happen, which we did).

I didn't have and still don't have any intention to ruin anything or whatever. D:

posted December 18, 2011 02:23 AM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
I would rather be honest about something then hide it away and be all shush shush.

I was hoping he would understand and we, including my friend, could work something out (like agree that nothing is to happen, which we did).

I didn't have and still don't have any intention to ruin anything or whatever. D:

That would be horrible and I don't want that.

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You DO know telling him would make things change? Either he will respond, or he will pull away and everything will be super awkward? I mean you're not a kid, it's not rocket science.

posted December 18, 2011 02:28 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
You DO know telling him would make things change? Either he will respond, or he will pull away and everything will be super awkward? I mean you're not a kid, it's not rocket science.

There's a difference btwn being honest, and doing this. If you didn't talk about your feelings it wouldn't be lying cos it's not like he's asking you how you feel about him.
Man if my friend did what you did. I would be ****** and hurt. A good friend just doesn't do this. A good friend also doesn't spend hours on the phone with sb else's bf. There's a difference btwn being friendly and chummy, and having late night talks. DUH lol.

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I did know that. No, I'm not a kid, no it's not rocket science. Listen, I knew what I was getting into!

I'm sorry you feel that way, mintgirl123, it's just too bad. But my friend understood where I was coming from. If I'm not a good friend, well...my apologies. She understands me and I guess you don't.

posted December 18, 2011 02:45 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
What the hell. No offense but why would you tell someone's bf you like them? You say you don't want him to react, but it's just selfish and puts him in an awkward position. What were you hoping to get from that? Don't say 'cos you wanted to get it off your chest'

1. You only just started talking to him alot, it's not like you've been repressing strong feelings for years.
2. You and I know perfectly well what your intentions were.

Come on. It's your friend's bf.
Talking constantly on the phone is already verging on crossing the line.

Have you at all thought about how your friend would feel? Step in her shoes for a sec.

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op sounds like she was kind of thinking about her own needs etc tbh id drop my friend if she did that especially behind my back

posted December 18, 2011 02:48 AM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
op sounds like she was kind of thinking about her own needs etc tbh id drop my friend if she did that especially behind my back

op Which one is which??? are you blue or red

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posted December 18, 2011 03:04 AM            

here's one from me <3

i'll just point out the negative mercury aspects, which i'm sure you've already noticed. lol, you could see them from a plane.

also the mutual moon uranus aspects

i don't like 12th house synastry, but i think it could be nice when it's both way...which it is.

posted December 18, 2011 03:09 AM            

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Originally posted by defeat:
wow, redscorp, you're not getting a lot of love on this site....lol

here's one from me <3

i'll just point out the negative mercury aspects, which i'm sure you've already noticed. lol, you could see them from a plane.

also the mutual moon uranus aspects

i don't like 12th house synastry, but i think it could be nice when it's both way...which it is.

but yeah, mainly <3

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Hey yeah! I didn't notice that we both had our Mercurys in each other's twelfth house, as well as my venus in his twelfth and his sun in my twelfth...

posted December 18, 2011 03:43 AM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
it's not that I'm not giving you love I'm not giving you hate either sorry if you got that I wasn't giving you love

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Oh, well...either way, I'm fine. c:

posted December 18, 2011 03:59 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
You DO know telling him would make things change? Either he will respond, or he will pull away and everything will be super awkward? I mean you're not a kid, it's not rocket science.

There's a difference btwn being honest, and doing this. If you didn't talk about your feelings it wouldn't be lying cos it's not like he's asking you how you feel about him.
Man if my friend did what you did. I would be ****** and hurt. A good friend just doesn't do this. A good friend also doesn't spend hours on the phone with sb else's bf. There's a difference btwn being friendly and chummy, and having late night talks. DUH lol.

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I feel you so hard on this post, girl. I consider myself an unbelievably laid back person, but if my friend was having hours long late night talks with my boyfriend out of the blue, something about that doesn't sound right in the slightest. Granted it's not just RedScorp here, it's also the boyfriend for enabling it. But yeah, I'd be pretty suspicious and borderlining on p*ssed off. Given the synastry though, we can infer they're both probably in high school so the seriousness of the thing lessens as opposed to everyone being in their mid to late 20's here.

posted December 18, 2011 04:03 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Come on. It's your friend's bf.
Talking constantly on the phone is already verging on crossing the line.

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OKAY, FU-CK, I MISSED THIS, OMG.

posted December 18, 2011 04:09 AM            

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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
I feel you so hard on this post, girl. I consider myself an unbelievably laid back person, but if my friend was having hours long late night talks with my boyfriend out of the blue, something about that doesn't sound right in the slightest. Granted it's not just RedScorp here, it's also the boyfriend for enabling it. But yeah, I'd be pretty suspicious and borderlining on p*ssed off. Given the synastry though, we can infer they're both probably in high school so the seriousness of the thing lessens as opposed to everyone being in their mid to late 20's here.

Anyway. Leo and Scorpio is always a volatile match, but once you guys got more into depth with one another, your moon/outer planet conjunction + stellium in Capricorn provided a nice and surprising familiarity and that's where the sudden and surprising trust probably comes from.

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Well...she thought it was good, 'cause I was bringing him out of his shell. Believe me, it was all in good fun. And uh, we're out of high school now. C:

posted December 18, 2011 04:12 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
lol same thing though. You're still chatting with him for hours. And at night too.

Step back alittle =).

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It is not the same thing! D:

posted December 18, 2011 04:14 AM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
I like the Jup-Venus conjunction. A lot of affection and joyful/easy-going energy. It can indicate close friends as well.
I also like your Moons in same sign, perhaps wide conjunction, and his Moon in your 5th. That alone could explain the "warm feelings" you have for him. Your Sun and Scorpio planets are on his ASC. His Venus sextile your Mars. It goes on and on... I don't see many long-term relationship indications (would like something on each other's DC, or IC or in the 7th or 4th houses).
The speed of the relationship development could be due to Uranus in tight conjunction to your Moon's and Neptune's in your 5th (his 3rd).

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posted December 18, 2011 04:22 AM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Lol Uranus...I think I know what you mean. It would be kinda Uranus-like: from arguing a little to becoming over-night besties to sudden romance to dislike of one another. All in five days!

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Exactly what it looked like from here!

posted December 18, 2011 04:28 AM            

Was there a reason you thought he might be bi or gay?

If he is hetero then - obviously he wouldn't date you..
I mean I understand why you might feel like you needed to get it out rather than hide it. But I'm not sure how you were expecting this to go down.

posted December 18, 2011 04:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Is her bf bi-sexual?

Was there a reason you thought he might be bi or gay?

If he is hetero then - obviously he wouldn't date you..
I mean I understand why you might feel like you needed to get it out rather than hide it. But I'm not sure how you were expecting this to go down.

If you have a hunch that he is gay and hiding it - let your friend know!

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LOL oh no, he said he was pansexual. My friend knows.