posted December 26, 2011 04:39 AM            

Is it because of Saturn/Aquarius on the cusp?
I feel like I have a schizoid personality, sometimes.

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posted December 26, 2011 04:52 AM            

but i have some problems there too
mostly when i see the friendship has no use....its done for good
we dont talk or write to each other and the connection fades like we never met

also i can be quite aggressive with my friend whem im angry.....sometimes throwing sarcastic remarks i feel sorry for saying after

any other people with 11nth house scorpio? will be glad to meet <3 <3

posted December 26, 2011 05:14 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
I have my sun in the 11th house. It means I treat my friends pretty well, right?

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posted December 26, 2011 05:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I have a friend with Scorpio in the 11th and Pluto there, and we've just had a disagreement because she is intense in her friendships and I am not. She wants to see me regularly and I can't maintain a regular friendship, like she wants me to. She can be really aggressive and sarcastic, too, and unfortunately she gets upset because I am so distant.. I don't know how to make her understand that that's the way I am.

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well...from my experience as a person with 11th house scorpio i dont think that trying to convince her to deal with who you are will be helpfull cause ahe will probably walk away
and you wont hear from her anymore

i had a friend for 7 years who was my closest friend also and he had some rough period and i helped him get through that and then he changed and started pusing me to change to what he belived was right and that just ****** me off....

one day i just told him not to talk to me anymore and he was kind of shocked and we didnt spoke or saw each other since

but thats mine experience...your friend is a different person and might react differently to the situation

i hope it will work out between the two of you

posted December 26, 2011 05:37 AM            

I hope things will work out, but even if they don't, I won't feel really affected by it (I know this sounds awful, but I'm just being honest).

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posted December 26, 2011 06:04 AM            

i forgot to notice i have jupiter in 11th too

but its at the very end of the house
does it mean its also on house 12 or it is just in house 11?

posted December 26, 2011 06:39 AM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:

but its at the very end of the house
does it mean its also on house 12 or it is just in house 11?

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Yes it means that it is both in the 11th and the 12th, but even more in the 12th.

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anongirl, did you mean to say your Sun is in the 11th too, instead of the 10th?

posted December 26, 2011 06:52 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
Opinions vary.

I personally use the whole sign system, so if two planets are in the same sign, they are always in the same house.

With other systems, I personally feel that if something is at the end of a house, it is still in that house. It's kind of how I feel about people who are born near the days that a sun sign changes: you're one sign and one sign only. So, I view it the same way: a planet can only be in one house, and one house only.

However, that's just my own opinion. As you're new to astrology, I encourage you to look at different ideas and come to your own conclusions; not trying to force my views or anything. You'll find that there are varying opinions on some issues in astrology (such as which house system to use, cusps, etc.). So, lots of ideas out there waiting to be explored, and of course people can always agree to disagree and discuss differing opinions peacefully and respectfully ;-)

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thank you very much for giving me an anwser so soon!

looking around interpretations of jupiter in 11th and 12th house it seems they fit me both
somehow XD

posted December 26, 2011 01:02 PM            

My Venus in Aquarius is in the 12th House on the border of the 11th House, and my Saturn is there too.

The only true friends I have are all women, and they treat me very well and I treat them very affectionately, with rational boundaries. Affectionate speech and affectionate gestures flow freely and emotional intimacy is deep, again with boundaries. Women who can't handle this type of friendship usually quickly freak out and it never works out.

Unfortunately, I don't get along with men and emerging friendships usually end up in total disaster, so I've stopped even trying. I mostly end up cold to men.

I'm fundamentally a loner, so I like operating alone, but friends are nice to have when you need to count on them.

posted December 26, 2011 05:30 PM            

Friendships are how I understand the world, they are how I understand myself, they are the most fulfilling relationships in my life (more fulfilling than love, than family, and definitely more so than WORK - blechh)...

I LOVE to give of myself to my friends - when I was younger, I struggled to understand how not everyone could feel the same as I could regarding friendships and their importance in life. Now that I'm older, and have perspective, I don't take people's unique perspectives personally, and this helps me to enjoy my diverse friends even more.

I LOVE all friends equally and immensely - be they new acquaintances, or old school friends. If, however, someone crosses a boundary of mine in terms of respect - they will never ever be dead to me - but the friendship resembles something that feels hollow to me. The trust for me is gone - which is essential to any relationship.

I have a very resilient heart though, and forgive most grievances. I remain friends with all former lovers. My progressed Venus is Conjunct (less than 1 degree) my Mars in 11th House Aqua right now.

I consider friendship to be the ultimate form of love and the perfect basis for a relationship as well!

Also, since my mid-twenties, I've become a home-base for many of my friends (lots of modern-day gypsies!), and I love to entertain and cook for just about anyone. It is such a great feeling. Guess I'm coming into my Cancer Moon a bit too... : )

Also, like RegardesPlatero, I'm a HUGE communicator, clearly verbose, if you want to break my heart or drive me crazy, just ignore me - give me the silent treatment. It's complete torture.

posted December 26, 2011 05:50 PM            

It's funny how we're all different.

posted December 27, 2011 03:32 AM            

I am the type to make more friends through people I am already close friends with and the type who doesn't get jealous if my best friend has another best friend and would end up been really close friends with her other bf....libra in the 11th really just wants everyone to get along and like each other LOL.