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posted January 28, 2012 11:29 PM            

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When they are insecure, do they get cocky and arrogant? Or do they just do this anyway?

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posted January 29, 2012 12:29 AM            

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good question

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posted January 29, 2012 12:47 AM            

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i know one that can make people insecure but is not really arrogant/ boastful about themselves. dunno if that makes sense but it seems she expects people to uphold her aesthetic standards and makes it loud and clear if you do not live up to them. (iz my grandma lol) she is correct tho on most things. she was also born the same day as anna wintour hehe!

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posted January 29, 2012 01:01 AM            

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A Scorpio being arrogant is just another way of expressing their hostility.

A Scorpio is hostile when they have either not developed well or enough or when they are feeling wronged/victimized.

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posted January 29, 2012 01:07 AM            

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Ok example. (If I said this was hypothetical would you believe me?) Scorpio boy is briefly but intensely involved with Libra girl, (coincidence?) after years and years of build up... After the breif 'fling' they become weird with eachother, they stop talking on fb whereas they used to talk on fb constantly. No one makes the first move and days turn into weeks. Libra girl is determined not to do the initiating. Scorpio suddenly starts doing weird stuff like putting up statuses and then 20 seconds later deleting them. (Not that Libra girl is stalking or anything!) Then one day Scorpio boy puts up a very 'arrogant' humiliating (for the Libra girl) comment implying (in code) that the interlude meant absolutely nothing to him and that he can pretty much have any girl he wants, anywhere, anytime. Libra girl is furious. Hypothetically speaking of course.

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posted January 29, 2012 01:14 AM            

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posted January 29, 2012 01:14 AM            

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file under mindgames and revenge tactics?

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posted January 29, 2012 01:15 AM            

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posted January 29, 2012 01:16 AM            

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The statuses were about nothing. It is really weird. They would be about tennis or that he walked his dog or something, then a few seconds later... deleted! And the Libra might have been feeling hurt too! Why should she be the one to break the ice? Isn't that a guy thing?

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posted January 29, 2012 01:17 AM            

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Although the one about him being Gods gift to women and a heartbreaker... did NOT get deleted!

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posted January 29, 2012 01:19 AM            

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Oh I left out a very important bit. After the brief fling, Libra girl was wanting more and made this clear to Scorpio boy, but he very tactfully said that he is not 'boyfriend material' and that he would only hurt her and that they should remain friends. That's when the talking stopped.

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posted January 29, 2012 01:24 AM            

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Daaaamn...where's his Moon?

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posted January 29, 2012 01:27 AM            

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posted January 29, 2012 01:52 AM            

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On the other hand, though, I would say that the arrogance part is still hurt, but it doesn't make sense. Why would he be hurt when he's the player? Players are the ones who DO the hurting.

So, if he is hurt on some level, I don't really understand why.

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Maybe he was burned by some girl in the past that he really loved, so now he plays people before they can play him. He may be taking out his anger and humiliation out on others so they can feel the same pain that he did.

Or he could just be a major jerk who just likes screwing with people. Sometimes an a** is just an a** . There isn't always a deeper meaning behind someone's actions.

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posted January 29, 2012 01:55 AM            

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Or he could just be a major jerk who just likes screwing with people. Sometimes an a** is just an a** . There isn't always a deeper meaning behind someone's actions.

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That happens! ;D

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posted January 29, 2012 01:58 AM            

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His moon is in Aquarius, and we both have Sag Venus. There's a real looong history there, and if there was a girl who really hurt him I'm pretty sure it was me. 17 years ago. Nothing happened back then he just chased me real hard and I ran even harder. He's only been with one woman since then and he didn't love her.
It's too long to put all of the circumstances in here but long story short when he said he wasn't wanting more I basically wasn't convinced. I took it as reverse psychology, so maybe I'm the arrogant one.

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posted January 29, 2012 02:00 AM            

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^My friend and long-time astrology buddy said that strong Air and the right placement of Fire can make a guy into a douche bag. Perhaps that holds true here...?

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posted January 29, 2012 02:03 AM            

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Lol.

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posted January 29, 2012 02:03 AM            

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Mercury in Scorp, same as me. Mars in Aries.

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posted January 29, 2012 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
Mars in Aries.

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I KNEW I SMELLED ARIES SOMEWHERE! I thought maybe he had an Aries Moon, since Mercury is ruled out what with him being a Scorpio.

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posted January 29, 2012 02:05 AM            

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What do you suppose is up with the weird status deleting?

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posted January 29, 2012 02:07 AM            

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Looking to get someone's attention maybe? I dunno, really, but that's my guess if he had some ulterior motive.

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posted January 29, 2012 02:23 AM            

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posted January 29, 2012 02:37 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
...I hate making social mistakes and I don't want to be "that guy" who doesn't realize that I'm disliked/that someone else really isn't interested in talking to me...

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Omg same!

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posted January 29, 2012 03:04 AM            

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Idk....the whole thing is a mystery. I told him I liked him. If he wants my attention all he has to do is inbox me, or call me, or something. So indirect!

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