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Topic: Anyone have Moon Uranus Aspects?
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GrlyGirl20 Knowflake Posts: 410 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 09:33 AM
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katatonic Knowflake Posts: 7585 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 01:18 PM
well i have a trine between the two, and more often than not i have noticed that when i CLING to a relationship it ruptures, whether permanently or temporarily...yet i don't really mind this...i DO need to be in relationships that allow me to do my thing and if NOT then i start to feel suffocated. so i think the trine lends itself to the same stuff but more gently...IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted February 01, 2010 01:38 PM
It sounds like it is comfort or discomfort with intimacy. Is that it or are you talking about something else? Maybe, it is not intimacy but personal space. What do you think? Ami IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 2588 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 02:17 PM
I've moon in gemini in square merk/uran in virgo. I also have moon and venus/N.N/mars in house 11. My DC ruler are uranus.I have 2 mirrage and my second last in 15 year. I do not want to be alone but it's so importent to me to be free in a relationship. I do not want to be with other men but I must be free to do all that I want. My partner must also be my best friend. My first mirriage was like a prision so I must leave. My second mirrage also feels like a prision before it's ended. I think my saturn in trine to my venus/NN/mars give my second relationship the possibility to last as long as it did. Look at strong saturn in chart there uranus are in conflict aspect. Saturn give the chart more strong stable and could be a good subdued to the speed uranus character. IP: Logged |
Caramia Knowflake Posts: 44 From: germany Registered: Jan 2010
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posted February 01, 2010 03:09 PM
I have moon in gemini (second house) square uranus and pluto. my soon/venus/mars in cancer.as cancerian i tend myself to be the opposite. I open up the more affection i receive. I cannot think of any relationship in my life in which i have felt suffocated because of so much dependance or neediness from my partner. it tends to be the other way around. for me, the more affection i receive the more comfortable i feel. I suspect that sometimes, my soul needs independence because my partners tend to be very independent and somehow push me toward independence because. check for the house where the moon is. i read somewhere that when the moon is in fixed sign houses it gives more stability. another thing, i have observed that people with moon in piscis and some uranian influence tend to have this tendence of feeling suffocated. i am not sure about it, but u may want to find out about piscis moon. hope it helps Cara IP: Logged |
woah city Knowflake Posts: 578 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 03:28 PM
ehh, i don't entirely agree with bob marks' assessment. he's pretty fatalistic about it. there was a great thread a few months back about uranus/moon. i'll see if i can dig it up.i have the opposition at a 0 deg orb. i think it's entirely possible to balance independence and interdependence and with these two mingling, that balance is even more possible, if one does the work of sorting through their fears of abandonment. mine's part of a boomerang configuration so it's extra potent in my chart. i'm fortunate to be with a scorpio who encourages both extreme closeness and healthy independence and if he wasn't that balanced in himself, i might have more trouble with [doing my best to] maintain that balance myself, and might find myself swinging between the two a little more. i think moon and uranus can be great friends in whatever aspect they find one another but maybe that's cuz i'm an aquarius with taurus moon so emotionally i'm pretty placid for the most part and mentally i am as flexible as i need to be when something matters to me. i have a lot of practice with strangeness and discomfort and tend to look for solutions within conflict, which is all it's about really. challenging aspects are just opportunities to grow. IP: Logged |
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posted February 01, 2010 03:32 PM
I dated an Aquarius with a Virgo Moon square Uranus. His Moon also squared Saturn (more tightly than his Moon/Uranus square). He basically would push people away if they got too close. He was also highly insecure and very critical about himself, which manifested in acting like a pompous jacka** whenever possible.IP: Logged |
Scorp31 Knowflake Posts: 188 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 04:14 PM
I have the trine, I found that it emphasizes my need to not get lost in a relationship, to maintain my individualism and freedom to grow and achieve singular goals. In my experience this can intimidate or infuriate a person that needs someone to surrender everything to the “relationship” and not maintain some sense of self.IP: Logged |
winter Knowflake Posts: 194 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 04:33 PM
I have a stellium that includes moon and Uranus and at the ripe old age of 47 I’m just really seeing now how disruptive it is in the relationship arena.Of course it wont affect everyone the same way, other chart factors may modify its expression. Like Woah City mentioned there was a thread on this some months ago and it was very good. My experience with this is as soon as something is expected of me (from a partner) I need to disengage for a while. If I can’t see an easy way to disengage I will create a drama – after all this stellium is in Leo. I’m usually back with 2 days full of loving feelings, wanting the closeness and ready to get back into it. Unfortunately the person on the receiving end of this has been hurt. My most recent episode of this happening was crazy because now I was actually aware that I do this and I was determined not to go down the usual route. When I felt the need to disengage I fought it and stayed put and forced myself to stay in the situation. That night – worst sleep EVER. I slept very fitfully, thrashing about and just could not stay still. My physical response to my ignoring my need to disengage was overwhelming. By morning I was filled with almost seething resentment toward someone who did not deserve it. As hard as I tried not to, I created the necessary drama needed to get me some personal space. And sure enough within 2 days I’m over it………..unfortunately he is not. I certainly feel for those who are involved in a relationship with those who have this aspect although not everyone who has it will experience it the same. It must be crushing for them. Even though the need to break free periodically is not about cheating, seeing what else is out there, wanting to end the relationship etc, the person on the receiving end could be left feeling very insecure.
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enchantress299 Knowflake Posts: 431 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 07:50 PM
quote: I have the trine, I found that it emphasizes my need to not get lost in a relationship, to maintain my individualism and freedom to grow and achieve singular goals. In my experience this can intimidate or infuriate a person that needs someone to surrender everything to the “relationship” and not maintain some sense of self.
I agree with that Scorp31. I also have the trine and when a person seems like they are going to cling to me to the point of suffocation, I back off. I need to have my own ideals, goals, and LIFE. I definitely dislike partners who feel the need to try to control me out of jealousy or possessiveness. Needless to say, I'm of the school of thought that walking the path of life WITH a partner is more appropriate than the melodrama of "You complete me." IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 438 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 01, 2010 10:22 PM
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MellowAries Newflake Posts: 3 From: Registered: Jan 2010
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posted February 01, 2010 11:01 PM
Hi, I'm a noobie here. I have my moon conjunct uranus in virgo. I have periods where I truly enjoy being with people and then can go without talking to anyone for a couple of days. I have a variety of friends, I like people that are different and will talk to anyone. But I sometimes have difficulty planning things with friends because I may just wake up that day and not "feel" like being with anyone. It's very strange.There is a line from a song that goes "I'm a million different people from one day to the next" and I can say with 100% certainty that is how I feel pretty much every day. IP: Logged |
Diablo Knowflake Posts: 884 From: Melbourne, Australia Registered: May 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 01:35 AM
[I have the trine, I found that it emphasizes my need to not get lost in a relationship, to maintain my individualism and freedom to grow and achieve singular goals. In my experience this can intimidate or infuriate a person that needs someone to surrender everything to the “relationship” and not maintain some sense of self]I have a similar placement (Moon sextile Uranus) and I never really knew how this aspect affected me and my personality but the above is a perfect description. Also, I find with the emotional moon and the intellectual rebellious uranus, my emotions are very interconnected with my mental space, almost as though they're interchangable and the same thing. So what i think, i feel and what i feel, i think and this changes a 100x a day due to the individual erratic, always changing moon & uranus IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 154 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 02:01 AM
Im similar to this. when things get like this i also start to walk away a bit. thats why I think its healthy to mix it up in a relationship never get to comfortable.. although that is also someting I seek deeply. I have a moon uranus sextile. but I also have Sun Quincunx Uranus. venus opp. uranus wide. mars square uranus. IP: Logged |
Duality2 Knowflake Posts: 57 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 02:59 AM
Interesting GrlyGirl20.I have moon in Pisces opposite Ur (and Pl) in Virgo (2 deg orb) and I am scared of people who are needy. I do feel trapped. OTOH,I know I wasn't really in love with those guys so that could have had something to do with it.
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bonadea33 Knowflake Posts: 931 From: Centre of Europe Registered: Jan 2010
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posted February 02, 2010 05:31 AM
Hi,I have Moon square Uranus: we like more change than steady relationships. We like change and it happens suddenly, so as Uranus is. Bobbie ------------------ Dime con quien andas, y te dire quien eres. IP: Logged |
lotion Knowflake Posts: 124 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 05:33 PM
I have moon conjunct uranus in sagittarius.i'm 23 now and my relationship history was spotted with 1-2 month flings, and a heart breaking experience which also just lasted two months. I have this tendency to want to escape and break free from something or someone that causes me to feel like I am "settled" or "trapped" or even "defined". For example there was this guy that liked me for over a year, even though i thought we had great chemistry and get along great, the idea of him liking me... the consistency of this idea just turned me off. Another example, I got together with a guy i really really loved at the time, and after we got together, the moment that i felt it was "settled" i also felt like the chase and excitement is over, and that I'm gonna have to start behaving like a "gf" (whatever that means). I felt like i was trapped in the definition of the term, and i subconsciously wanted to break free. And I did. Basically, I feel it is not so much about emotional instability, but rather about the need to feel free and unbounded by silly definitions and expectations. I also have to say this. I am currently in a relationship for over 2 years now (by far the longest relationship to date, ha!) I just really jive with this guy and I feel that the relationship is utterly free and undefined, none of that "he's my BOYFRIEND, and i'm his GIRLFRIEND" business. I don't even feel comfortable referring to him as my boyfriend. I just think these terms are so restricting and pigeonholes a special relationship between two people and creates an image or unrealistic expectation according to how everyone else define or see it.
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venus in gemini Knowflake Posts: 883 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 05:46 PM
You guys are awesome in explaining how the Moon/Uranus aspect feels to those of you who have it. It really helps me see it from the other person's viewpoint. We've had to work through a lot of those issues, because my guy has Moon opposition Uranus in his natal, and we also have Moon square Uranus in our composite chart.IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20 Knowflake Posts: 410 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 06:09 PM
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lotion Knowflake Posts: 124 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 06:48 PM
lol, grlygirl, i can see how you and him got along...Sorry if i missed this, but what is your sun and moon sign? I remember saying I love you to my bf (he is sag sun/gem moon), i was the first to say it too btw! and that was after a year of hanging out together. You're a brave one, saying it after two months lol. I couldn't have done it, fear of rejection was too strong :S But are you sure it was the "i love you" that caused him to bolt? or something else? IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 438 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 07:36 PM
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GrlyGirl20 Knowflake Posts: 410 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 10:10 PM
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GrlyGirl20 Knowflake Posts: 410 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 10:22 PM
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2032 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted February 02, 2010 10:48 PM
What about sun opposite uranus? My boyfriend has that and he's super inconsistent and I can't seem to depend on him. Sigh.IP: Logged |