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The next time I saw him was like Tuesday. And he didn't want to face me. But we talked and I apologized for saying the things I did. And I asked him if he wanted to work on the relationship. And he said no. That he had begin losing interest in me from Dec...then he gave me a list of things he didn't like about my personality (such as I'm not serious, I'm into astrology, and that I'm not sarcastic enough). And that he was only only sorta attracted to me physically. That he was 86% not into me lol. And that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me as he has to be sure that we can be friends first then he can know

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Are you serious???? He said all that? "He was 86% not into you"? You're not sarcastic enough?

You are so better off without such a jerk. And he basically told you he was with you because he wanted to f*** you?

posted February 04, 2010 10:49 AM            

Moon Semisextile Uranus:
There is a dash and a vitality about you which stems from your alert quick mind seeking knowledge, you absorb and attract information. You can see all sides of a question which makes you a tolerant and an easy listener, also a fair minded adversary.
You have a lot of mental objectivity and can think abstractly on a large scale. The artistic and intellectual appeal to you as well as social theories. This all round approach can make you too tolerant, you need to choose a side and stick to it rather than understanding the points of view of others. You may hold to advanced views but are less likely to put them into practice. You could be interested in astrology and are certainly a seeker of unusual experiences. Your parents home and domestic arrangements are all likely to be a little unusual. You may have psychic abilities.

You are a character with much originality about you, eccentric perhaps, but a true original all the same. You are fearless in thought, someone who prefers the unusual and the bizarre to the normal when given the choice. You can make a mark for yourself and can develop an awesome reputation because no one can predict your actions. You are by nature expansive, emotionally erratic and in marriage difficult with your outbursts of temperament. Money does not stay long with you, though you like to spend cash it does not rule you, you are more interested in finding outlets to widen your ample fund of experience. You are much drawn to travel.

There could be some health problems associated with the stomach and childbirth, while home conditions will be rather changeable or unusual with your eccentric nature.

You have a strong interest in the occult and out of the way which you can turn to your profit.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
Your unconscious emotional security needs are expressed in one way, and your theoretical belief system developed in response to your upbringing works in another, leading to some stress. Until you develop more self-understanding, you may find that your intellectual belief system gets in the way of your feelings, giving rise to a dilemma of the closeness versus freedom type.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
Like most people, you enjoy being free-spirited and childish on occasion and you enjoy zany comedy or other entertainments to periodically break the usual routine. This may not be one of your strongest or most conspicuous traits, but it is one aspect of your personality.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
A desire to break free of negative emotions.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
KEY: present invisibility put alongside community integration

Cycles in your life end with intensity of emotion. You tend to exaggerate things and to strain your nervous system. Yet you will have sudden successes that come out of these tense periods. You need to balance fear and anxiety with restful periods.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
Your self picture may not include the more dramatically innovative thrust that emerges periodically from your unconscious mind. There is a certain panache or "twist" that you place on your actions, sometimes at the last minute. Your uniqueness and sense of individuality finds expression in this way. Through focusing on this process you are able to stabilize its function and have it be more useful in your life.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
INSTINCTS HELP CLARIFY LIBERATION

Your mother was a character. Part of you is impulsive and ready for anything new and unusual. You can relate to others in a somewhat cool, detached and friendly way.

Somehow, you need to be a nonconformist in a way that is comfortable and exciting. Once you make contact with progressive social elements, your life improves considerably. Be a free spirit. Contact some wild friends. You can go for some mutually creative sexy experiments. Otherwise, you can expect unconscious forces to rebel.

You can learn to successfully relate to others by way of computer bulletin boards. You could find romance through personal classified advertisements that feature voice mail boxes.
(* This proved to be very true for me. I met my husband on my message board.)

You're a bit frisky and desirous of excitement and stimulation. You can relate to people successfully once you learn appropriate ways to arouse their fancy. You were born to do something different. You were born to combine the love of romance with the love of freedom.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
You have a love for adventure and excitement. You have the powers of intuition that help you in forming friendships with like minded people. You also stand to benefit by your friends, especially if they are females. You also have an inclination towards the study of technichal subjects.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
You do not seem to trust your own emotional responses or the emotional responses of others, and this annoys you terribly. Your usual way of proceeding involves having you try to get very close to someone and then panicking and having some sort of unplanned emotional outburst that drives the other away from you. Because this really was not your intention, you get very frustrated and embittered. You must look to your early childhood upbringing in order to understand why this pattern is at work. Perhaps you had an unfortunate experience with your mother — or the person who played that role for you — wherein you were denied the love and security that you should have had and you are now repeating that pattern over and over. Either learn to live alone and like it, or seek the advice of a respected counselor to help put this problem in a proper perspective.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
Your emotional nature, moods, feelings, and caring tendencies gets new perspectives in relation with your individuality, desires for change, and tendency to go against social norms.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
You tend to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and you may feel that you don't fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in your life would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved.

Ideally you can create a unique lifestyle that affords you a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow your own somewhat erratic rhythms -- while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within you also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Whether you realize it consciously or not, you crave change and excitement.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
You are very original when it comes to home and surroundings -- the environment you build around you. This could also manifest in unusual ways of supporting yourself. Your mother may have been quite eccentric or your upbringing somehow different. When you have breakthroughs, they often come as insights into your immediate surroundings, home, and environment -- your support system in general. This could also manifest in your finding new and different ways to make a living. You may have new ideas about the past, history, and younger people, find it easy to create an unusual environment, and enjoy surrounding yourself with what is new and different.
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Moon Semisextile Uranus:
The life of the party, able to loosen up even the most sober. Great at bringing out the best qualities of others, discovering hidden talents. New and innovative ideas regarding the social scene. Spontaneous, on the move. Independent.

posted February 04, 2010 11:33 AM            

I have Moon square Uranus, exact. This plays out in many ways.

The main way it affects my love relationships is that I need breaks. I not only need time away from the relationship to express other parts of myself, but I also need variety within the relationship. I need times when we relate to each other in different ways - light, serious, friendly, sexual. Without that variety, I'd start to feel obligated to behave in a way that may not match my mood at the moment. Too much of that phoniness would make me rather break up than continue living like that.

My SO and I have lived together for nearly 8 years (minus a 6 month separation - gotta have one of those with this aspect ). Before him, I lived with a boyfriend. From that situation I learned how crowded cohabiting could make me feel.

So I came up with a way to deal with that. From the start with my SO, on some days that we're both off from work we'll make plans to see each other that evening. The rule is that until then, we ignore one another. That way we're both free to do our own thing, w/o any guilt that we're neglecting the other. It also builds anticipation for that night's date.

Being a Moon-Uranus, I'm attracted to stuff that's just out of reach. My SO is an Aries Venus and feels a similar pull. So usually what ends up happening on those days is that we meet up before the date, no talking, just sex. I highly recommend this to other Moon-Uranus people!

posted February 04, 2010 10:05 PM            

I need me time. I have always been content with enjoying my own company. Romantically, I CANNOT be (feel) suffocated and need to get away to enjoy my own solitude.

As winter put it, I too will attempt to block my need to get away and end up with restless nights or nights of creepy dreams.
Lately, I have been a complete twat to my SO and have occasionally hinted (shouted) to get the hell out of my home because I need breathing room. Since I feel my point isn't getting through his thick (Taurus) head I had one of my creepy dreams. This one consisted of one of my molars coming out which I placed in a cup of milk. After I placed the tooth in the milk I realized my tooth was abnormally massive and later in the dream went to sleep. When I woke up I checked on the tooth and placed it in my palm where it opened up like a flower and was soft like chewed gum.

I end up feeling resentful and sometimes disgusted, if I don't get a sufficient amount of solitude.

I have been with my current boyfriend for 5 years with a couple of months off because I was itching to break free.

The other day I speaking with my mom where I told her "**** is one his last string... he is on my last nerve." My mother asked "Why?" and I replied "I don't know. He bores." My mother's response "That's not even funny."

I also need spontaneity in a relationship.

posted February 28, 2012 08:46 AM            

My husband has the sextile and is similar...so there is a gap between us where, in some respects, we don't actually know each other. OK by both of us.

This is a great article: http://sasstrology.com/2010/06/the-detached-lover-aspects-between-the-moon-and-uranus-in-the-natal-chart.html

posted February 28, 2012 02:25 PM            

I can totally relate to that article.
For me seperation was caused by death, which can not be controlled.
I have no relationships that are "till death do us part" unless they are blood relatives, and then they are somewhat distant. I have forced myself to push my little birds (children) off the branch so that they may fly on thier own.
I am always ready to swoop down to catch them just in case but so far I've done a good enough job in preparation and it hasn't been necessary.

It does make you skittish, I understand that time changes or alters relationships and because of this I have always held back a piece of me that will enable me to continue to go on after a tragedy.

Taurus Moon make me stable so it's not that I am flighty or even fickle, my emotions don't change that much but when they do change I feel that panic that reacts by taking 2 steps back.

In the end you can not force someone to want or love you, you can just do your best and if it happens, acceptance. The more you fight it, the worse it gets and then it prevents it later on down the line from being amicable.

posted February 28, 2012 02:36 PM            

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I have moon conjunct uranus in sagittarius.

i'm 23 now and my relationship history was spotted with 1-2 month flings, and a heart breaking experience which also just lasted two months. I have this tendency to want to escape and break free from something or someone that causes me to feel like I am "settled" or "trapped" or even "defined". For example there was this guy that liked me for over a year, even though i thought we had great chemistry and get along great, the idea of him liking me... the consistency of this idea just turned me off. Another example, I got together with a guy i really really loved at the time, and after we got together, the moment that i felt it was "settled" i also felt like the chase and excitement is over, and that I'm gonna have to start behaving like a "gf" (whatever that means). I felt like i was trapped in the definition of the term, and i subconsciously wanted to break free. And I did.

Basically, I feel it is not so much about emotional instability, but rather about the need to feel free and unbounded by silly definitions and expectations.

I also have to say this. I am currently in a relationship for over 2 years now (by far the longest relationship to date, ha!) I just really jive with this guy and I feel that the relationship is utterly free and undefined, none of that "he's my BOYFRIEND, and i'm his GIRLFRIEND" business. I don't even feel comfortable referring to him as my boyfriend. I just think these terms are so restricting and pigeonholes a special relationship between two people and creates an image or unrealistic expectation according to how everyone else define or see it.

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I hate that I'm actually comfortable with NSA relationships because the guy is WAY too happy. So I act up in ways that I hope will make him even unhappier than he would be if he was in an officialized relationship with me. Such as, suddenly telling him to bug off, and he ends up getting very infrequent sex and there's always that risk of me screwing some other guy who is way better in bed...

I guess that's a Moon in Aqua square Venus-Uranus Scorpio for ya.

posted February 28, 2012 03:14 PM            

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Hi,

I have Moon square Uranus: we like more change than steady relationships. We like change and it happens suddenly, so as Uranus is.

Bobbie

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hard aspects to moon show problems with mother on some level, quite poss an early break, broken friendships and emotional erruptions, depending on signs of course.

posted February 28, 2012 03:15 PM            

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What about sun opposite uranus? My boyfriend has that and he's super inconsistent and I can't seem to depend on him. Sigh.

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want freedom to do unusual things, that feed the pride and ego. Lots of impatience.

Look to other aspects from sun as these will modify how the sun expresses...

posted February 28, 2012 03:17 PM            

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Moon conjunct Uranus
You possess an independent spirit, and you resist being labeled or pigeon-holed as a result. You are not one who is drawn to traditional roles when it comes to family, friends, and relationships. Your emotional energy vacillates, so that you can be extremely sociable, friendly, and available at times, and completely aloof, independent, and unavailable at other times. Behavioral patterns are quirky, changing, and inconsistent, and this quality is most obvious when you are at home or with family and very close friends. You need space and freedom, and situations that allow for spontaneity. Routines bore you, particularly domestic routines. You need to mix things up a little in order to prevent a restless, unsatisfied feeling, for example, changing your "schedule" day to day. When it comes to parenting, you prefer an open and free atmosphere with your children. Some fear of becoming too close or attached to others is likely present. You detest overly serious or stuffy atmospheres, and you will do what you can to loosen everyone up. Sometimes you say or do something with the goal of mixing things up, or to shock. Rebelling against traditions is something that seems to come naturally, but you might want to be careful that you are not being irresponsible or insensitive in the process. You are humorous and spontaneous, and given to acting on a whim.

Interpretation sample from the In Depth Profile Report: You have unusual habits and original methods of implementation of your ideas. Your sense of timing in life is unique; sometimes this works to your favor, sometimes it doesn't. Your special rhythmic way of expressing yourself can be interpreted as being flighty, indifferent or irresponsible by others, so you do yourself a favor keeping people posted as to your ideas and procedures. Your spontaneity and creativity gives your activities an exciting carefree feeling. You may experience large amounts of emotional tension so you should learn to relax. Of course, easier said than done.

Alternate Karmic Insight interpretation: In your incarnational past, while there may have been long periods of contentment and tranquility, there was also a time of great upheaval which forced you to turn your back on the security and way of life you once knew. Your home life may have been disrupted, and your inner sense of who "family" is, radically changed. It is possible that you were involved in revolutionary activities, or were in a profession that was considered unorthodox or even heretical by the authorities of the day, and your fellow "radicals" or sympathizers become your true family.

All of this may affect you in the present in a number of subtle ways: a deep-seated restlessness or desire to break away totally from your past, a feeling that the rug could be pulled out from under you at any moment, emotional impulsiveness, a craving for newness and excitement for which you are willing to forego security or an orderly existence.

It is important for you to try to embody the ideals and unusual interests and inclinations you have, without "throwing the baby out with the bath water"!

Women with this aspect (from the Astrology Profile for Women report): With the Moon in conjunction with Uranus in your chart, you may feel that you are riding an emotional roller coaster. Your highs can be very high, and your lows, very low. Your hormonal cycles may also be rather extreme, and you might benefit by taking a very careful look at holistic ways to handle PMS. Review your dietary habits to be sure that you're getting appropriate nutritional support. Your independent spirit plays a definite part in your resistance to taking on the traditional roles of a woman, although you can be a trendsetter when you're simply doing things your own way.

Some Famous People with Moon conjunct Uranus: Anais Nin, Bob Dylan, Ann-Margret, Drew Carey, Jodie Foster, Lorne Greene.

Moon square or opposition Uranus
People with these aspects in their natal chart are studies in contradiction. When they are able to fulfill their emotional needs for closeness, support, and intimacy, another part of their personality rebels. They feel closed in, restricted, and uncomfortable with feelings of dependency. However, when they are left alone on an emotional level, they can feel left out. They begin to crave closeness and intimacy once again. They keep people at an emotional arm's length often enough, yet struggle with their emotional independence.

Daily routines feel too stifling for these individuals. They need to mix things up in order to feel creative and emotionally vital. Inconsistency is a result, and some level of domestic disorder is almost a guarantee. Living with them can be challenging for more orderly and systematic people!

People with Moon-Uranus hard aspects despise emotional pretense. They are adamant about expressing themselves honestly, which generally translates to "sporadically". If they don't "feel it", they simply won't do it. It can be challenging to pin them down at times--they will feel cornered. Don't take it too personally, however, because they not only rebel against your schedules, they rebel against their own as well! The fact is, when they try to bring more order to their lives, it can be hard to stick to a program, even if they were the ones who designed the program.

Their insistence on following their own intuition and "inner code" is admirable on one hand. In fact, they are generally quite proud of their emotional honesty. However, this honesty can be difficult for others to deal with at times. They are sometimes accused of selfishness as a result, although they don't see it that way at all. They are generally very creative people, although their creative output is sporadic. Whenever Uranus is strongly connected to a personal planet in the natal chart, you'll find this "stop-and-start" energy simply because these people live on intuition. Uranus intuition is not the same as Neptune intuition--it's more self-focused and has to do with being true to oneself.

More often than not, Moon-Uranus people had unusual early home lives. They may have been given an unusual amount of freedom as a child, or the converse. Whichever was the case, they insist upon a certain level of personal freedom as adults. Their experience of their mother figure may have also been erratic in the expression of nurture.

These people attract changes and disruptions into their domestic lives. They may not enjoy this fact, but if this is the case, they must examine their lives a little more closely. Consider a person who thinks to himself, "hey, my life has become pretty routine--even boring" and then shortly thereafter his life takes a sharp turn. The crises that he now faces may not seem like something he has literally asked for. However, with the Moon in hard aspect to Uranus, the basic energy is a basic need for emotional excitement. We may live with this basic need and not even recognize it. If we don't own it, we can attract upsetting emotional situations and disruptions into our lives. It's hard to know whether Moon-Uranus people embrace changes (these ones move house often, re-arrange their homes frequently, mix up their domestic routines every once in a while, and so forth) or resist them stubbornly. One thing is certain, however: the happiest people with this natal chart aspect recognize their need to do things differently with regards to how they approach family and home life.

Women with this aspect (from the Astrology Profile for Women report): Your Moon is in opposition aspect to Uranus, adding a high level of unpredictability to your emotional nature and a need for personal independence. You need excitement, change and distraction, but at levels you can tolerate without totally disrupting your life. You may also be more comfortable when you're independent, instead of being tied to a set schedule, a certain role or a particular list of demands. As an independent woman, you are more likely to tolerate commitments. If you're expected or demanded to do certain things, you may just rebel for the sake of rebellion. After all, you're an individual! There may be other planetary aspects in your chart which add a level of focus and stability to your life, but this influence alone can disrupt even the best laid plans! At the level of your soul you cry out to be seen and accepted for who you are, unconditionally. That acceptance must first come from within yourself.

This influence also indicates the possibility of higher than normal fluctuations in hormonal levels, which can also stimulate more profound emotional changeability. Those who are close to you probably recognize a cyclical level to your alterations in mood, and you can probably tie them to a cycle yourself if you pay attention. You may or may not decide to choose motherhood as an option, and may be more comfortable in non-traditional relationships. To maintain a relationship you need plenty of room to be yourself. And to be the kind of mother you want to be, you need to develop a supportive relationship with your children which has some levels of consistency. You may relate to teen-agers more easily than to small children.

Some Famous People with the Moon in Hard Aspect to Uranus: Squares - Lloyd Bridges, Jeremy Irons, Oscar Wilde, Robert Wagner; Oppositions - Hank Aaron, Fred Astaire, Shari Lewis, Lisa Marie Presley, Donald Trump, Ron Howard.

Moon sextile or trine Uranus
Preferring to live in an open and accepting manner, you encourage others to "be themselves" with an attitude that anything goes and a fondness for the unusual and unconventional. As a parent, you may be quite open with your children, and encouraging the same in them. You aim to be friends with them. In fact, you are like this with most people you meet--you treat others as equals regardless of their status or position. You detest stuffiness, showiness, and pretense, and you will often do or say something that will break others out of an overly serious frame of mind. You are spontaneous, funny, perceptive, and a little quirky.

The trine aspect is the more dynamic of the two harmonious aspects. Those with the sextile can call upon these traits when needed, and those with the trine between the Moon and Uranus have incorporated the traits of the aspect into their personalities, expressing them naturally and consistently.

Moon sextile Uranus: You act on unique and experimental thoughts. You are humanitarian and freedom oriented in the way you explore life. You have a knack for improving your surroundings. -- Interpretation from the In Depth Profile Report.

Moon trine Uranus: You take bold steps in your approach to everyday problems. This gives your personality a sparkle and excitement that others love and respond to. You know how to make excitement out of everyday activities, as you search out new methods for performing routine activities. http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/moonuranusaspects.html

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posted February 28, 2012 03:20 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
What about sun opposite uranus? My boyfriend has that and he's super inconsistent and I can't seem to depend on him. Sigh.
Oh and it's really close to the IC (where his sun is at) and MC

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Natal chart aspects http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Planets_in_astrology http://www.astrologyweekly.com/learn-astrology/astrology-glyphs.php http://www.skyscript.co.uk/sunaspects.html http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/planetsaspectsastrology.html http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astrological_aspect http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_aspect_e.htm http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/aspectsreference.htm http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/aspectssun.htm http://astrologynotes.org/wiki/Sun_aspects http://www.astrologyindepth.com/Special:Prefixindex/category: http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/TOClessons.htm http://www.theastrologicalaspects.com/ http://www.strangehouse.com/natal-aspects/index.php

planets in houses http://www.horoscopeswithin.com/planetsinhouses.php
Houses/signs are like the backdrop of a stage/theatre, planets in houses behave like actors on a stage, the *aspects* show how these planets/actor behave in a house