posted May 19, 2012 01:53 AM            

Mine:

Well, we've talked about this in other threads, as far as only looks go, and I said I like guys with dark hair and dark eyes and rough "earthy" features. I have no earth in my chart so that's why I'm drawn to guys with a lot of earth. But usually virgo moon for some reason. My ideal is also very enthusiastic and energetic and expresses his feelings about everything. You might say he lives life passionately. It vibes with my dramatic leo moon which either loves or hates something. I have libra rising, so my ideal guy would also be very extroverted and a go-getter, since libra is passive. Aries DSC also makes me love enthusiastic energetic people who love the outdoors.

posted May 19, 2012 02:07 AM            

So I always pictured myself with a guy taller than me, brown hair, and muscular. Oh, nice teeth (they don't have to be PERFECT but I mean teeth that have been taken care of.) I don't really care what his hair color is as long as it's not gray, red, or bald. He has to look manly. Not dirty... MANLY. Big difference. Suits are a turn on, so are police officers;

Personality wise... this is a toughie. Because I want somebody steady in their emotions, loyal to me, but at the same time is their own person and has their own life. I just want them to SHARE their life with me. But that whole concept has seem to been a real toughie to find in someone. I also want a very honest, and blunt person. A decisive person. That is like trying to wrestle an alligator. I want someone with staying power, who has a plan for us. A good communicator. I don't really care about romance because romance... just makes me feel awkward. Then again, is being "romantic" surprising me with groceries? If so then yes, I need that.

Saturn, Uranus, Neptune in the 7th all in Capricorn although 7th is ruled by Sagittarius.

What I seem to attract is crazy, delusional people who are here for a moment to teach me something about relationships, and then gone the next. They usually come on strong/intense too which I wonder is due to Sagittarius.

ETA: Aries sun, Taurus moon, Gemini rising.

posted May 19, 2012 03:58 AM            

yup ...that'll do it

posted May 19, 2012 07:09 AM            

Skinny and clean, serious and austere, secret sweetie pie!

posted May 19, 2012 07:17 AM            

Saturn, Neptune and Uranus all in Capricorn in 4th, so I want kids and a home, solid foundation, family.

I have Mars in Aquarius so I'm attracted to fun guys, i want a spark, a connection, a click. Physically tall, wide shoulders, Aries Sun preferred. not boyish, but MANLY. I prefer older guys. mature, sophisticated, and one thing he must have, Patience, because I seriously lack it although I do have lot of Earth in my chart. MUST be fond of public display of affection, romance in public excites me, Venus at Mid-heaven.

posted May 19, 2012 08:07 AM            

my big 3: Libra sun, Cancer moon, Sagittarius ascendant

since we're talking love, I'll also throw in my Mars and Venus: Mars is in Capricorn and Venus is in Scorpio

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I don't have a strong need for a partner, but if I were to have one, I'd want the following:

--My ideal relationship would be one that would unfold slowly, and then would continue to deepen and grow over the years. We would start off as friends first, really get to know each other, and then fall in love, over time. We would be intimate in every sense of the word--not just sexually, and not in a way that was invasive or that limited our individuality, but essentially our life together would be a world unto itself that we would continually explore. When we hit the deepest depths with each other, we'd simply create new ones and expand the boundaries of our world.

--No kids. This would have to be in the pre-nup, with no wiggle room or loop holes. NOT going to argue this one.

--As for the person, my partner has to be loyal and faithful, 100%. I do not believe in open relationships or polyamory. The other person would have to want only me in that way. And for my part, this would be mutual: I would also give that for which I am asking.

I would want someone who was warm, intelligent (emotionally as well as mentally), kind-hearted, generous, honest, and caring; ideally, someone who could make me laugh. I would want stability, but not to the point of staleness. I would want a true equal: a sort of benevolent co-conspirator. I like someone who's protective and makes me feel safe, but without suffocating me or stifling me. I would want someone who really appreciated me, and someone who I could love, too: that is, I wouldn't want someone who couldn't ever be expressive or be given compliments. I like good taste and good manners (not to the point that a person can't be himself/herself, but just socially graceful and appropriate). I would like someone, too, who really knew me and appreciated "the little things". I don't need expensive, extravagant gifts. My favorite ones are the small little ones that show that a person is paying attention.

Looks-wise, I tend to prefer dark hair and warm (not piercing) brown eyes, but this is negotiable. Blonde hair and those soft brown eyes is something that I'm starting to like a bit more. Height, I don't care about; I'm not overly tall myself. Weight/build, I tend to go for average. I do not find super-ripped/toned people attractive; they just look too plastic-y to me. I'd feel way too self-conscious and I'd constantly worry that the person was ashamed of me for not being model-perfect. On the other side, though, I wouldn't want someone who was really heavy to the point of being unhealthy/likely to develop serious health problems. So, I'd say middle-of-the road, plus or minus a few pounds or muscles, is fine with me. I prefer a face that is soft and gentle.

*edit to add: a partner would also have to not have mental problems/not be a psycho or have a weird fetish anything like that; would have to be all there and normal and everything. Like, if a partner had had depression or anxiety or something, that would be one thing, as I've experienced that myself and know that it's fairly common, but I could not deal with someone who was really screwed up.

posted May 19, 2012 08:54 AM            

Physically: On the Tall side, broad shoulders, slim yet muscular, large hands long fingers, dark soulful eyes, dark brown hair- jet black, full lips, defined face and cheekbones, older than I but not older than 6 maybe 7 yrs.

Mentally/Emotionally/Personality: I prefer intellects; He'd be able to teach me something new that I don't already know is attractive. Overall I'd be able to have a intelligent civil discuss about anything from religion, politics, sex, art etc. without conflict arising from it.
Bluntly honest.
I'd like someone who has many sides to their personality; someone who can still surprise me even after years of knowing them.
He'd be funny and sarcastic.
He'd be the intense creative type; his own creative outlet such as music, painting, writing, dance etc.
Knows how to take care of himself i.e. cooking, cleaning etc. Physically active person.
Not defined by gender roles and mannerisms and someone not afraid of their sexuality.
A generous selfish with money or resources; a humanitarian.But not a pushover.
Loves animals.

posted May 19, 2012 11:45 AM            

Personality wise, I prefer intellectuals and guys with a weird sense of humor. I also like guys that question authority/the status quo/institutions. I find guys that are activists extremely sexy... bonus points if they're anarchists. I also dig dudes in bands and skateboarders (duhhh) but the ones that actually don't subscribe to the politics of the subculture they try to emulate aren't cute to me. Like for instance, dudes that dress all punk rock but think that feminism is dumb. POSERS

I also find ambition to be extremely attractive, but not necessarily guys who make a lot of money. Like straight up capitalists are bores.

My current boyfriend is a good example of above. He's a junior economist when most of my peers are still in school/just floating by on restaurant jobs but is still extremely liberal, really into bicycles/mopeds and listens to loud and fast music. He also has the MOST PERFECT veiny arms (which some of you know I'm really into) and really pretty, piercing eyes (he's Scorp rising so).

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Sag DSC, Jupiter in 11th in Aries trine Mars, opposite Moon
Saturn and Uranus conjunct DSC, Neptune in 7th

Mars in Sag in 6th opposite Chiron, sextile everything else basically (wide conjunction to Saturn/Uranus)

posted May 19, 2012 12:59 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Awww, I wub you . You're my ideal, too, of course. Haha.

See, if you notice you fit my description!

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posted May 19, 2012 01:07 PM            

remember this one? yours is nicer though

posted May 19, 2012 01:36 PM            

Man, brings me back to me teen years.

posted May 19, 2012 01:53 PM            

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Originally posted by hmm:
not a serial flirt....(taurus=jealous)
someone i can talk to...makes you think.
sporty/outdoorsy.... not a jock
humble/not narcissistic
dominant. knows how to push you...take care of you...protect you *blush*
and a couple other things....
mainly sporty and someone i can talk to :P

yup ...that'll do it

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posted May 19, 2012 02:13 PM            

To the best of my knowledge, no such person exists yet.

posted May 19, 2012 02:16 PM            

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Originally posted by love being Aries:
me and Hannarama have lots in common.
Aries Sun, Taurus Moon, Virgo Rising

Saturn, Neptune and Uranus all in Capricorn in 4th, so I want kids and a home, solid foundation, family.

I have Mars in Aquarius so I'm attracted to fun guys, i want a spark, a connection, a click. Physically tall, wide shoulders, Aries Sun preferred. not boyish, but MANLY. I prefer older guys. mature, sophisticated, and one thing he must have, Patience, because I seriously lack it although I do have lot of Earth in my chart. MUST be fond of public display of affection, romance in public excites me, Venus at Mid-heaven.

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OH YES, Patience! I also like Moon conjunct Moon, Moon conjunct Venus and Sun conjunct Moon with someone.