posted May 19, 2012 03:21 PM            

I would want someone who can be emotional yet Mercurial. Someone who understands how to comfort, but rationalize when it is appropriate. I would want them to be willing to be expansive, not afraid for us to travel and move around a lot. I'm big on traveling so I need a partner who can enjoy it as much as I do. I don't want to be with someone who wants to settle down and have a kid. I want us to do soul searching together. (8th house ruler is the Moon in Virgo in the 9th).

posted May 19, 2012 04:18 PM            

My 8th house (the house of intimacy) is Cancer, ruled by Moon in the 8th house also in Cancer…. And I do love some water in the mix too…. Placements in Cancer, or Scropio are good…. Like a watery Moon or Jupiter…

Funny thing I’ve noticed…. I have my 7th house ruler Mercury in the 12th house (conjunct my Asc), and although I don’t usually go for Pisces by sign…. I have noticed that one or two nice Neptune aspects(like Neptune trine Venus for instance) in the chart really attracts me… I like when a guy can be tough like a Fire sign, but also sentimental, like a Pisces….

I also like a healthy dose on Air in a partner….interestingly, I have a Gemini Dsc…. And I have noticed in the past that I’m also attracted to people who influence my 3rd house (the house ruled by Gemini)…

My 3rd house is Aquarius ruled by Uranus in Scorpio…. And although I usually prefer Fire Suns, I have noticed that personal planets in Aqua and Scorp are really attractive to me as well…

If I were to describe my type not using astrology…. I’d say I like really outgoing, passionate, funny guys, who are friendly and open… Kind of a class clown type, who is interesting, dynamic and a good communicator….and someone who’s strong, and confident, but also kind, caring and fair…like he has a big soft heart and makes a really good friend…having good morels is a must, like actual integrity…( Jupiter can be quite moralistic)…and I also like it when he’s someone who really feels things, has real emotional depth, and certain stuff that he does take seriously…. Despite having a fun crazy side… he has a sensitive, responsible side as well…

Yeah, that’s pretty much my perfect man…

And I notice this does correlate well with my Fifth (feeling ‘in love’), Seventh (feeling strong affection), and Eighth (intimate sharing) houses when you look at the symbolism…

posted May 19, 2012 07:59 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
^ what she said
leo sun/taurus moon/scorp rising

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taurus sun, sag moon, gemini rising

but yeah, talk about dreamy, right :P

posted May 19, 2012 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Strong, outspoken, successful, confident, enthusiastic, emotionally mature, loves children, likes travel, is very good at whatever he does, is intense and not boring, knows what he wants (v important!), interested in becoming a better person, a bit of a weirdo in some regards, good social standing, supports himself, a good set of morals and last but not least, is not intimidated by strong women.

To the best of my knowledge, no such person exists yet.

Aries. Sag. Cap.

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posted May 19, 2012 11:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Primarily, I�m most attracted to guys with strong Aries and Sag placements�. I have a Gemini Dsc (and I did once have a crush on a Gemini Sun) ruled by Mercury in Sag, and Jupiter in early Cancer in my 7th house (probably explaining my love of Saggies in general)�. And I have Aries on the 5th , the house of romance and courtship� (probably explaining my attraction to Aries)�. Ruled by Mars in Leo�

My 8th house (the house of intimacy) is Cancer, ruled by Moon in the 8th house also in Cancer�. And I do love some water in the mix too�. Placements in Cancer, or Scropio are good�. Like a watery Moon or Jupiter�

Funny thing I�ve noticed�. I have my 7th house ruler Mercury in the 12th house (conjunct my Asc), and although I don�t usually go for Pisces by sign�. I have noticed that one or two nice Neptune aspects(like Neptune trine Venus for instance) in the chart really attracts me� I like when a guy can be tough like a Fire sign, but also sentimental, like a Pisces�.

I also like a healthy dose on Air in a partner�.interestingly, I have a Gemini Dsc�. And I have noticed in the past that I�m also attracted to people who influence my 3rd house (the house ruled by Gemini)�

My 3rd house is Aquarius ruled by Uranus in Scorpio�. And although I usually prefer Fire Suns, I have noticed that personal planets in Aqua and Scorp are really attractive to me as well�

If I were to describe my type not using astrology�. I�d say I like really outgoing, passionate, funny guys, who are friendly and open� Kind of a class clown type, who is interesting, dynamic and a good communicator�.and someone who�s strong, and confident, but also kind, caring and fair�like he has a big soft heart and makes a really good friend�having good morels is a must, like actual integrity�( Jupiter can be quite moralistic)�and I also like it when he�s someone who really feels things, has real emotional depth, and certain stuff that he does take seriously�. Despite having a fun crazy side� he has a sensitive, responsible side as well�

Yeah, that�s pretty much my perfect man�

And I notice this does correlate well with my Fifth (feeling �in love�), Seventh (feeling strong affection), and Eighth (intimate sharing) houses when you look at the symbolism�

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Just realized I forgot to put my Sun/Moon/Asc combo. I've got Sun in Capricorn 1st house, Moon in Cancer 8th house, and Sagittarius rising. Venus is also in Sag, and Mars is in Leo... Like I said, I love outgoing guys who have lots of charisma and can cast a 'spell' over his audience so to speak. By nature I'm usually more reserved so I enjoy it when someone is different from myself in this way.

posted May 19, 2012 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

Sorry you lost me at the "a bit of a weirdo part". . Just joking.

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posted May 19, 2012 11:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Weirdo creepy is bad. But weirdo interesting is good.

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posted May 19, 2012 11:47 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

Sorry you lost me at the "a bit of a weirdo part". . Just joking.

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I like unique individuals, that don't follow the crowds but instead march to their own rhythm. I said that because in the past sometimes this is what got my attention. I meant weirdo good, like Lotis said lol. A bit of Aqua-like energy.

posted May 20, 2012 12:42 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Yes. I'm sorry. Humor doesn't translate well over the internet

I understood completely what everyone meant

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posted May 20, 2012 12:59 AM            

Personality wise, he should be intelligent, talkative, adventurous, fun loving, self-confident, career-oriented, possessive & intense, interested in travelling, & generous with gifts.

Someone who'll paint walls with me, who won't mind if I splash paint on him & for whom revenge is emptying the paint bucket on me.
Someone who'll love our plants & sit with me Googling sapling names. The type of guy who'd suggest we play hide & seek when there's a power-cut & who won't mind my walking into Estee Lauder, trying on their makeup in the name of trial session & running for the door after having told them that their products weren't all that good.

Astrologically, he should be Sag + Scorpio + Capri.

Descendant in Cancer.
Uranus/Neptune opp desc.
Pluto trine desc.
Moon in Virgo in the 8th.
Leo intercepted in the 7th.
Sun in Sagittarius in the 11th.

posted May 20, 2012 01:11 AM            

For just plain attraction-wise, I usually appreciate guys with a dark look. Long dark messy hair and thick dark eyebrows. They're usually the same race with colorful eyes. Honestly, I place quite a small importancce value on appearance.

They'd be a humorous, loquacious erudite. Enigmatic in an almost nauseating way, a comrade + companion who I can share opinions with.
I'd probably appreciate them for their mind and their possessive/loyal nature.
A charmer to the masses-- YET LOYAL AT THE SAME TIME? 100%
Someone I can objectively talk to about the worst topics.
Someone I can get intimate with on ALL levels. Other stuff.

I would know them better than any other person on this entire earth.
We'd peregrinate. I'd adore them for who they were as an individual---and to me thats absolutely the best kind of loving.

posted May 20, 2012 04:08 AM            

Your placements, madam? =)

posted May 20, 2012 08:08 AM            

I want a woman who is feminine, I don't like overly masculised females.

Rounded in the right places and slim in the others.

Artistic, loyal,fun and supportive.

posted May 20, 2012 08:45 AM            

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Originally posted by hmm:
taurus sun, sag moon, gemini rising

but yeah, talk about dreamy, right :P

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posted May 20, 2012 09:39 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
@depth - My eyes bugged out at mixing Sag and Scorpio together because ime those people are verrrrry extreme and sensitive like a hot stove, then I saw your Sag sun. I was like "Oh. Makes sense." Lol.

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All my ex boyfriends had this combo. I'm literally stuck between Scorpios on my right & Capricorns on my left; have never dated any other sign.
I've been looking for a guy with Moon/Venus in Sagittarius. What I end up getting is a guy who has Mercury(ALWAYS!), Uranus & Neptune in Sagittarius. My most recent ex had his Sun, Venus, Pluto & Saturn in Scorpio with Mercury, Uranus & Neptune in Sagittarius. Possessive? yes. Jealous? yes. insecure? yes. Intense? thankfully, no.

posted May 20, 2012 11:06 AM            

Personality-wise, I love guys who are talented or creative (with their hands), intelligent and inquisitive, thoughtful, mature, humorous, communicative, emotionally balanced, honest, humble and non-narcissistic.