posted September 02, 2012 01:15 PM            

I have a aqua sun/pisces moon, venus and mars male friend. We met working abroad and kept in touch via email, phone and text for about 7 months, THEN I found out by accident he was in a relationship which he had neglected to mention during the 7 months of friendship. (Phone calls for an hour at a time, on his way home from gym should have been a warning sign).

Anyway, he apologised for not telling me and said it had "never come up". So we remain friends and work colleagues (but in different cities).

Conicidentally I go to visit his city as my friend is moving there so we meet Mr Aqua for a coffee. He does not mention his girlfriend once...He sends me a text on the way home saying how I always looked lovely but look dazzling now! He also gave me a hug and kiss on side of face as he hugged me. Lots of physical affection as he is usually cool.

He emailed me today, about work stuff and he is on holiday at home for next two weeks. I told him I hope he has a lovely rest and fun time with his gf and friends and he and I can catch up soon.

I have a leo moon so aqua is opposite and sag sun so we are all friendly and good with a bit of physical chemistry. But I do not like being deceived and felt he omitted his girlfriend previously cause he wanted me as an option.
Confused??

posted September 02, 2012 05:08 PM            

Mr Aqua: 15 February 1983

Me: 26 November 1983

In his reponse he said he needed to give his lady some attention. But only when I mention it, does he.

I will try not to let my leo moon get in the way, nor my libra love planets affect me, I like fairness and honesty on all levels and feel his charming nature and secrecy can lead to mixed signals. He text me telling me I looked lovely and dazzling...

posted September 02, 2012 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Ann7:
From a quick look I can tell you that he has a heavy pisces influence (venus conjunct mars in pisces) and his moon looks to be on the pisces aries cusp. I'm going to say that he is extremely charming and very flirtatious, probably quite the ladies man. There aspects that point to you enjoying each others company but, if I'm reading it right, it's almost as though your timing is off (both of you) in the relationship department. As in, when you're single he'll be taken and vice versa. I do not want to label him as a cheater as I haven't seen his entire chart with birth time (that wouldn't be fair) but the fact that he is sending flirty text messages is kind of a red flag.

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Hi Ann

YES to all of the above...flirting and charming with words, yet i realised he manages to find out everythign about how I am or feeling but I doesn't tell me the same in return. I think there is a deeper level to my annoyance, an acknowedgment of an attraction that is not real. I kept everything neutral after finding out (by accident) that he had been in a relationship ever since I met him, but he took it further by hugs, kisses on side of my face, and flirty texts. Indeed. I think I am also feeling red flags and alarm bells and an almost sigh of oh dear.

He seems to like the attention our friendships gives him...he suggested we stay in same hotel like we did last time on our business trip but this time I said no, I am going to be on my own somewhere and wish to meet up with others.

I could be reading this all wrong and he is just a very friendly aqua but I agree, his pisces elements are strong. My dad was a pisces and strong one too, he cheated on my mum, was also a charmer..

Perhaps am reacting to something else entirely. But also reveals strength not to get too emotionally involved with Mr Aqua...

I am not in a relationship right now, but there was a Mr taurus who I connected with this summer...I feel instinctively, that I won't be single for long. Hence I do not wish to get too involved with Mr Aqua, even on a friendship level, seem he cant help charming...

Mr Taurus was 29 April 1985, has more fire and air in him, despite earth sun sign. I don't think I can handle pisces energy that well.

posted September 02, 2012 05:40 PM            

Totally staying strong and part of me is really annoyed by him! I don't like deception and unclarity, especially as a heavy libra in venus and mars, i like honesty and fairness. I think I am struggling with the idea that he is really a bit of a snake...

Mr Taurus on the other hand, I liked alot, he and i have known each other (but not very well) since we were 19. But I always thought he was a player (mars in gemini and venus aries mix perhaps?) but he sees himself as a geek. Anyway, we connected this summer, but time has got in the way as I recovered from surgery and we never rescheduled our coffee date. Time will tell on that one, but thanks Ann for helping me with Mr Aqua....i think I felt warning signs all over again

posted September 02, 2012 05:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Ann7:
I think it's hard for you because your chart shows major mutual attraction. You know it could be awesome if he wasn't sneaky. I say definitely give Mr. Taurus a try!

Either way, enjoy the attention and feeling pretty!!!

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Thanks Ann! Yes no good having amazing attraction if guy cant be trusted but I aam learning and doing well.

Mr Taurus, I have to say there is atrraction there too...he has the most amazing memory...rememebers the night we met years ago and teases me constantly about things I say...I am not normally in the habit of saying from a chart, oh this is right, or wrong. Mr Aqua proves it too, something can be amazing but sometimes not meant to be as we all have free will and behave in ways not good sometimes.

But Mr taurus I was not sure if truly interested (He is 29 April 1985) as I think he has leo moon, its all his aries and gemini energy that kept me interested. I should not write him off yet, time and we had lots of synchronicity moments over the summer, must be telling me something.

I also had the owl in a animal card reading on astral realms and the pointed to truth and awareness, perhaps seeing mr aqua for what he is

posted September 02, 2012 06:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Ann7:

Either way, enjoy the attention and feeling pretty!!!

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posted September 03, 2012 04:15 AM            

His behaviour is not consistent, acts like he is single...but is not. It seems he compartmentalises his relationship and other interests.

Had a dream last night that I was in a library with Mr Taurus, seemingly in dream world I am seeking knowledge and clarity.
Hmmmm.

Sparkling

posted September 03, 2012 09:33 AM            

I think I was seeking knowledge or an answer to if he is interested. Well, he told me today that sometimes you need to force something or push for something. Then he was asking me about my recovery and if I had someone in my life (not quite in those words but was asking if I had met a guy). We flirted and had banter back and forth and talked about healthy foods we like and travelling etc.

I may have been chasing him a bit as I kind of saw him, said hi and sat down (he was on his own) and we talked. Then we said goodbye we said how nice it was to see each other, I said I like talking to him and he owed me a coffee (from a coffee date that got postponed). He looked at me seriously, and said "it will happen " patience kind of thing.

Hmmm, all I know is that the amount of times we have since each other and flirted since mid-summer, if a guy was interested he usually makes it clear.

Time shall tell, at least I know I tried and I do gennuinely want to get to know him...but we shall see.

My faith in men is not great right now after Mr Aqua but my dream told me to seek knowledge and facts and that is what I tried today.

A brave Sparkling

posted September 10, 2012 02:48 PM            

He sent me text saying im a great friend etc.

Woah, aqua confuses friendship and love it seems.....one minute i am dazzling, the next friend category. Talk about being chameleon!

posted October 15, 2012 12:04 PM            

Seriously, I dont get him at all. I said goodbye and it was goodbye for me on an emotional level.I dont need a guy who plays games.

posted October 15, 2012 03:33 PM            

This is one saggie woman running for the hills. No mind games for me.

posted October 15, 2012 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
Well Mr Aqua called me today, wants to stay in same hotel on our work trip.....hmmmm I put him off and told him one nearby.

He sent me text saying im a great friend etc.

Woah, aqua confuses friendship and love it seems.....one minute i am dazzling, the next friend category. Talk about being chameleon!

Sparkling

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posted October 15, 2012 07:34 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Aquas do like their mind games.

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posted October 16, 2012 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by BlueTopaz124:
Sparkling...it appears you caught him on his game and he knows it, so is back-pedaling and playing games with you.

Good thing things didn't get very deep with him.

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Hi Blue Topaz..I agree His drunken self was quite different. I am glad things didnt get deep too...I saw him clearly. By the way I LOVE being friends with guys....very libran saggie girl here. BUT I do not wish to be played or manipulated. I am worth more.

posted October 17, 2012 09:19 PM            

"Pisceans may flow in and out of your life at a moment’s notice, which can be aggravating for their partners. Individuals who seek responsible and dependable mates may have a difficult time with Piscean individuals. Pisceans can usually get their lovers’ attention back due to the fact that they are romantic and sensitive, and have the ability to seduce people easily. Pisceans sincerely do not mean to hurt others; in fact, hurting others is the last thing they would ever want to do"
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!pisces-the-disappearing-man/c1qjn