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Topic: Flirty vs unflirty
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3212
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 01:28 PM
  
You know the rules  ------------------
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somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 3673
From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 01:32 PM
I'm not really flirty, but I am playful and cute...and I do return blow when people flirt with me...if they're cute too.
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6800
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 02:03 PM
flirting with strangers..
I can be receptive depending on how attractive I find them.
but most of the time..
I'm usually very flirty with my friends especially when I'm drunk.
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DaniPepper87
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 06, 2013 02:09 PM
I love being flirt by someone... but as an innocent fish I fall in their net!!Mars in Libra in the 12th house, too relax to go after, I go only if you get the attention of my Venus in Sagg in the 1st (Oh God! That the hell of chart I have)  IP: Logged |
Gabby
Knowflake Posts: 1715
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posted November 06, 2013 02:15 PM
Libra AC, conjunct Pluto and Venus....i dont flirt, if im flirted with i will respond if im interested but other than that, im not flirty!IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 06, 2013 02:33 PM
I'm super flirty and love being flirted with, when I'm single. When I'm in a couple I don't flirt. Asc & Venus, scorpio.
(actually, i dont' know the rules. :-O )
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5281
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 02:36 PM
Probably a busy Saturn.IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 534
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 06, 2013 03:15 PM
I don't really flirt with complete strangers ,I like to flirt with my boyfriend.However,when i'm single I just play femme fatale because it's amusing.Leo rising Mars conjunct Venus in Gemini  IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 431
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 06, 2013 03:18 PM
I don't flirt…anymoreI feel a bit insecure if a man - ANY man is even looking at me:P (cause everyone knows what he wants)
And I find it really uncomfortable if a not so good looking man is trying to flirt with me lol…omg… Once I thought it was fun, but the problem is… when the person actually want's to complete the flirt if you know what I mean…I hate to turn them down:P Then I would rather tell I'm not interested to begin with… but that's also because I'm in love these days 
If I was single and more desperate, then yeah, I'd probably start to flirt again:P But I have to say, that this is very unlike me…I guess I must really have fallen in love this time! It will probably only last a couple of months, then I'm gonna be as flirty as normal, I hope:P Libra mercury and scorpio venus conjunct pluto in 5th house^^ IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 3194
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 06, 2013 03:40 PM
I haven't flirted much, at least not intentionally. A lot of times I'm just being polite and perhaps that's a rural Southern thing that's easily misunderstood elsewhere. The rare times I've flirted has generally been in a more smoldering glance, tone of voice, and/or kidding around in suggestive ways (or responding to obvious flirting). One thing I want clear, when I smile at someone, show interest in them, give them the time of day, even put a comforting hand on someone that does NOT mean I'm flirting. I'm gobsmacked that many think it is but maybe they're so obsessed with sex that they think of it almost 24/7 and therefore they wrongly assume everyone else is as well and thus wrongly assume any pleasant acknowledgement of their existence is therefore flirting or even attempted seduction. And yet that's not the case at all, not with me, and not with some others. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
Knowflake Posts: 64
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 06, 2013 03:59 PM
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One thing I want clear, when I smile at someone, show interest in them, give them the time of day, even put a comforting hand on someone that does NOT mean I'm flirting. I'm gobsmacked that many think it is but maybe they're so obsessed with sex that they think of it almost 24/7 and therefore they wrongly assume everyone else is as well and thus wrongly assume any pleasant acknowledgement of their existence is therefore flirting or even attempted seduction. And yet that's not the case at all, not with me, and not with some others.[/B]
Well, even though I do love to flirt. I'm very friendly so even when I'm not flirting people sometimes think I am.
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SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 1172
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 04:02 PM
I know this guy with a Massive Stellium in Cancer and he is sooooooo unbelievably flirty that he borders on creepy -_- IP: Logged |
Violets
Knowflake Posts: 1080
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted November 06, 2013 04:11 PM
I am not flirty. At all. If I find someone interesting/attractive, I hang out with them and we talk about stuff. The end. If we like each other, that's great. If not, well okay.Probably my Virgo Moon and Aqua Mercury/Aqua in 7th (yes, again). I'm attracted to people who are interesting, unique, witty, etc. To me flirting would be the opposite of all of those things. Like something that's forced or canned. I also have never been on a "date" that I can recall. The very word makes me cringe. I hang out with people. If we happen to really like each other and decide to have sex, hey awesome. But I'm married now, so I don't need to worry too much about all that.  <Edit>
Thinking about it, if I'm really interested in someone I may dress in a subtly provocative way when I know I'm going to be around them, but I'm casual about it. I *might* make casual physical contact with them on purpose, but that's about it. IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn
Knowflake Posts: 319
From: Quirky
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted November 06, 2013 04:16 PM
flirting not really, teasing yes! but only with single and unmarried women! and only if i am single too!IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 5122
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Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 06, 2013 04:27 PM
I'm a flirtbag. Libra Asc, Mercury dominant and Aqua in H5.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 6312
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 06, 2013 05:08 PM
Don't flirt. Never flirt (?) - maybe that's too strong. OK, seldom flirt.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3212
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 05:14 PM
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Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn:
flirting not really, teasing yes! but only with single and unmarried women! and only if i am single too!
I'm a teaser too Do you have anything in Sagittarius? ------------------
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5281
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 05:19 PM
Cappy, I'm not sure if you consider yourself flirtatious. I have a lot of Saturn in my chart and am kinda quiet. I like to look serious.IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 431
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 06, 2013 05:21 PM
The most flirty person I've met is a leo girl with libra moon and cancer venus and leo mars She flirts with everyone, even girls, even ME her friend, the teacher, someone in the mall, everywhere…and she does it with that kinda charm that you don't know if she is just joking - but I think she is not really deep down she loves it haha:PIP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3212
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 05:22 PM
SSS
Of course I don't. I might reciprocate if I'm in the right mood but generally I'm no flirter.------------------
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Gabby
Knowflake Posts: 1715
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 05:27 PM
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Originally posted by Violets:
I am not flirty. At all. If I find someone interesting/attractive, I hang out with them and we talk about stuff. The end. If we like each other, that's great. If not, well okay.Probably my Virgo Moon and Aqua Mercury/Aqua in 7th (yes, again). I'm attracted to people who are interesting, unique, witty, etc. To me flirting would be the opposite of all of those things.
I'm Virgo moon also and I think that's why I'm not flirty even with libra AC conjunct Venus! Virgo mooners are to practical emotionally to be overly flirty!
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5281
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 05:30 PM
I am very serious and kinda quiet and I have Virgo sun trine Saturn and Venus square Saturn. Those are my serious aspects, and Capricorn IC trining sun and Saturn. I don't want to be thought of as a flighty flirt but rather a serious intellectual or something like that, a nerd or geek that people flock to for divine wisdom and knowledge in a chosen field. That's my ultimate dream!This pattern overrides my Libra ascending sign and Venus, I think, and people have commented I don't flirt enough. It's only because what I really hope for, more than anything, is to be acknowledged as a complete, competent, expert and scholar in the field of my choosing. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3212
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2013 05:37 PM
Good luck with keeping the right image I'm not like that because I want to be perceived as serious. It's just not something I'm into.------------------
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birdsong
Knowflake Posts: 101
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 06, 2013 05:46 PM
I to like to make people feel at ease, laugh and relax. If you feel good I feel it too.I don't know how to handle straight up flirting though, I guess i'm more indirect lol. Pisces/Cancer AS. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 6047
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 06, 2013 05:49 PM
Sometimes I'm a lazy flirt, sometimes I'm over the top. Depends if it feels awkward or not.Mars in the 12th, but conjunct ASC. (then sextile everything except Moon, in the 11) IP: Logged |
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