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theunknown
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posted March 10, 2014 01:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you relate to these descriptions?
http://www.gretchenlawlor.com/articles/Your_Child_and_the_Moon.html

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted March 10, 2014 01:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have moon in Taurus exactly opposite Neptune and when I was a kid, I liked to bathe with my stuffed animals and then they would have to be thrown out because my mom said they would mildew and be toxic. My dad brought me this one stuffed dog covered in rabbit fur home from the war when he returned and then I put it in the bathtub and it had to be thrown out. I told my mom it would be okay. She insisted it was ruined.
So that's what I liked to do with my fave stuff animals as a Taurus moon opposite Neptune.
The thing about the garden, yes, I agree! Everything around me grows like crazy and wildlife is attracted to my yard and they always seem larger than normal and healthier. Same with plants.

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12muddy
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posted March 10, 2014 01:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cool link

I do relate. Aries moon - In my eyes mom is a proud, assertive, fierce n crazy. I respect and admire those qualities. She also can be irritable, quick to explode.

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Moon in Aries experiences the mother as adventurous and courageous, lively and assertive. On the flip side, mother may give the impression of being irritable

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They tend to be quite spontaneous and uncomplicated in their emotional responses- quick to fire, quick to recover and forget.

Want to be busy and active all the time.

They naturally expect to be the center of attention in the family.


Keke that describes me so well. When I was little.. heh you don't wanna know what kinda violent thoughts crossed my mind whenever I saw my parents smiled at or hugged another child.

Active, yes way too active. People tried to teach me to be gentle n placid, to sit quietly n to smile prettily. But yeah, I like running around, climbing...etc... Broke some bones falling off the trees lol. People were always like "How will you ever be able to wear dresses n skirts when you grow up? Look at all those bruises n scars on your legs."

My parents have aries moon too n now they keep telling me of how much I remind them of their younger selves

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theunknown
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posted March 10, 2014 02:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SSS, interesting. I should start asking my taurus moon friends

12muddy,
Are you an aqua sun?
I have noticed from watching Oscar that Aries moons mention their mother a lot

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posted March 10, 2014 02:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer moon says the mother is influential...yes she is, but not in a positive way. I'd never wanna be like my mom. It also says I will either try to replicate what she did in my own home life or do the exact opposite. In my case, I'm doing the opposite. It also says I'm very sentimental and it's hard for me to move homes. I can't agree with this fully because my Ascendant affects my moon since it's in the first house. I'm not as sentimental as the descriptions, although, I like looking at old photos and old things from my old houses. I do let things go more easily than what it says.

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Odette
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posted March 10, 2014 02:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I only "so so" relate... I generally find Cap Moon interpretations a bit illogical.

They often sound like an interpretation of Moon square Saturn - as opposed to an interpretation of Moon trine Saturn.

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(The mother)is perceived by the child as a capable manager, serious and responsible, although not around as much as young Capricorn Moon might wish.

I perceived and still do perceive my mum as very competent, ambitious, very intelligent, independent - definitely a career woman and a very strong person - she is a Leo with Scorpio Mars

Capricorn stands for someone who earns people's respect easily.... so the interpretation of "manager, serious etc" - isn't really enough. That almost sounds like Virgo. Capricorn is more impressive than Virgo in terms of their CV.

'Not around as much as I would like'... hmmm well she was very busy when I was young so she was only around on weekends.. but I didn't feel like I missed her much because I had my grandparents there.
I don't feel like I would've wanted her to be around more to be honest. I love my mum.. I just didn't feel like I missed her. I was constantly talking to her during the week anyway.. so it felt like she was there.
I have an exact Moon sextile Mercury aspect. We are constantly talking lol And she has a Gemini Moon.

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a life that tends to get better with age.

I think my life is constantly improving so maybe that makes sense.

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Moon in Capricorn loves projects, and is soothed by organizing their toys or their rooms, or planning an outing or holiday.

Actually I hate planning things.. but I do like organising my work/papers/essays/books.. things around the house, my room etc.
I like projects that are more interesting than planning a holiday though.

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They have excellent rapport with older people. An older relative, such as a grandparent can provide extra parenting and care that will make a profound difference to those early years.

This is 100% accurate. I was very close to my grandparents while growing up. They were more like parents. They were also fairly young at the time (middle aged not 'elderly'), fit, healthy, very active/sporty and very liberal minded people.. not what you normally imagine when you think 'grandparents'.

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This mother tends to discourage dependency, and many young Moon in Capricorn children are quite serious and capable for their age.

Nope. Never.
I haven't actually had anyone in my entire family - including my mother.. discourage dependency lol I wish they did!!

My family is central European and they tend to smother me in affection - as opposed to discourage dependency.
They encourage dependency TOO MUCH if anything.
I have to beat them off with a stick.

:edit: What they did discourage though is -marriage-.
I have noticed a huge trend with the parents of Cancer Moon people encouraging marriage.. and the parents of Capricorn Moon people - making it very clear that the 'kid' should focus on their career as opposed to romantic things.
I feel like this was very engrained in me from an early age... There was a general vibe in my family that love/romance/marriage etc is kind of trivial, whereas one's career is beyond important.

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Being an Earth sign, this child needs tangible demonstrations of affection. They may not find it easy to initiate cuddles, but they respond well to receiving them. Gifts tell them they are appreciated and that all is well with their world.

I don't feel like I *need* tangible demonstrations. It's always nice to be hugged and I am happy to initiate hugs as well or other demonstrations of affection, kisses etc
But it's not such a big deal for me.

If someone was not 'touchy feely' I wouldn't mind.
If they were - I wouldn't mind.
Either way - I just don't mind.

Gifts are great - the more the merrier!

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arcturiann
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posted March 10, 2014 03:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for arcturiann     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo moon

"Frequently animals are the first loves in their lives. The opportunity to learn to tend to an animal provides this child with a sense of skillful accomplishment and personal value. Moon in Virgo can speak to and understand animal behavior instinctively and from an early age."

YES! I was obsessed and in love with animals as a child :0

"Moon in Virgo, being an earth sign, receives a sense of emotional well-being from physical affection, from objects and tangible care. A stuffed animal (important that it be an animal that exists in nature rather than in fantasy, and preferably one that exists in their own region) will be consoling to this sensitive little one."

I had tons of stuffed animals and ones in particular that were my favorites that I would carry around with me everywhere lmao. My mom was also definitely a perfectionist and very nit picky and clean about everything. She was a nurse too so that kind of fits the virgo theme as well lol.

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I have moon in Taurus exactly opposite Neptune and when I was a kid, I liked to bathe with my stuffed animals and then they would have to be thrown out because my mom said they would mildew and be toxic. My dad brought me this one stuffed dog covered in rabbit fur home from the war when he returned and then I put it in the bathtub and it had to be thrown out. I told my mom it would be okay. She insisted it was ruined.

interesting, I have neptune in a tight trine to my moon and I used to play with my stuffed animals in the bath too, however thankfully my mom wouldnt throw them out but instead run them in the washer and dryer

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posted March 10, 2014 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon in Gemini.

There is a lot of accuracy!
Thanks a lot for they link. Very cool!!

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12muddy
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posted March 10, 2014 03:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a cap sun. Lol yeah I mention my mother a lot irl too.

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Supreme cT
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posted March 10, 2014 03:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Supreme cT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
very accurate cool link!

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Heartsong11
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posted March 10, 2014 06:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I loved this. So true for me.

I always tell people that as a child I picked up on things with my parents for no apparent reason.
I would talk to my mum on a very deep level from as young as 6 or 7.

Libra Moon.

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charlie
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posted March 10, 2014 08:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Cap Moon square Pluto and the description for Scorpio Moon fits perfectly and the one for Cap Moon not so much.

My Mom has a Scorpio Moon and my Dad Moon conj Pluto.

The ONE thing that fits me from the Cap is that I LOVE and LOVED tearing my room apart only to reorganize it a few hours later.

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LucieLemonade
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posted March 10, 2014 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can relate. Sag moon.

My mother wasn't religious though. And my way of getting out of an intense emotionally heavy family atmosphere was to get the hell out of dodge. I left my family home when I was 17 and as much as I love my mom, I sort of dread going back. She's way to emotionally heavy for me.

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posted March 10, 2014 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Catalina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Definitely on target...my.Pisces moon acts exactly like that and I have been fortunate to have been able to indulge my alone time throughout life...my Taurus moon mom encouraged us outside and in self-sufficiency/soothing, and reading...and her Venus conjuncted my moon so piscean tendencies were valued by her...my daughter has moon in Leo...and two Taurus moon sons who receive great benefit from her Taurus Venus. My. Taurus moon sister has had multiple eating issues, probably at least partly in response to the fact that my Taurus father used to "go off" frequently at dinner...

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theunknown
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posted March 10, 2014 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charlie:
I have a Cap Moon square Pluto and the description for Scorpio Moon fits perfectly and the one for Cap Moon not so much.

My Mom has a Scorpio Moon and my Dad Moon conj Pluto.

The ONE thing that fits me from the Cap is that I LOVE and LOVED tearing my room apart only to reorganize it a few hours later.



my sister is an aqua moon square pluto. I think she moves from one to another from time to time. Her libra sun doesn't help...

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posted March 11, 2014 12:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunMoonStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 12, 2014 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for the89freespirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, I've always loved that site and it's descriptions. I do relate a lot to the Scorpio Moon child profile. I had a way of appearing to be sort of quiet, at times, but I rarely ever felt calm. Everything was emotionally charged and a huge deal. And I didn't think of my mother as the nicest, easiest person to get along with.

In fact, I do remember feeling and even expressing a certain aversion and hatred toward her, even though I was still a kid (although never actually directly to her). I'd even make up stories about her not being my real mom. But, at the same time, I was attached at the hip with her. I see how the love-hate connection started.

And all those qualities are still there and in me, now, even though I deal with and express them differently, as an adult.

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