posted April 10, 2022 08:52 AM            

I personally have Moon trine Saturn and Mercury sextile Saturn. I don't think I want to fix anything with it. But my Asc conjunct Saturn makes me realize that I look too serious to some people and it bothers them, so I fix it a little bit by putting a little smile whenever people talk to me because my serious face scares some people especially the sensitive one who judges from facial expressions.

May I know, what do you expect from him? Because you said you want to fix your husband's Saturn.

posted April 10, 2022 10:24 AM            

But if you only want to see from the Saturn side, Saturn/Mars hard aspect is the lesson. He needs to loose control a little bit, but I don't think it's an easy one because his Mars is in Scorpio. He needs to trust others to handle things a little bit, but again, it's not an easy too for him.

Saturn teach you to be more tough, more serious, more cold, more hard to your own self. That Saturn/Mars hard aspect won't take a break unless life slaps him that taking a break is okay sometimes, for what ever his life ambitions are or insecurity.

posted April 10, 2022 11:02 AM            

Don't put too much pressure on them because Saturn hard aspect has already put too much pressure on themselve.

Try to find out what makes them feel relaxed, like a back rub or warm bathtub.

Arrange a vacation once for awhile.

Try to find out what is their insecurity and talk heart to heart, if it has something to do to what they do right now then be understandable and tell your feelings too in a most rational way.

posted April 10, 2022 12:33 PM            

When agree, you totally agree and support each other very well. When disagree, you act on the same reaction as your Mars.

posted April 10, 2022 03:27 PM            

I also thought you probably have Gemini venus because I often hear they want fixed venus to loosen up a little bit if paired with them. That's why I ask your venus to make sure my guess is right and finding a suitable answer.

You have a lot of Pisces going on in your family, how does it feel to you?

I see you also have Mars conjunct Saturn, do you have double whammy Mars/Saturn with your husband?

posted April 10, 2022 08:33 PM            

Also, your husband is Cancer rising, which is by definition a feminine, motherly, home and hearth loving influence.

posted April 10, 2022 09:01 PM            

What are you complaining about, girl!

You know how many women wish they had your problem husband?

posted April 11, 2022 12:01 AM            

You said your husband has Jupiter and Neptune in Capricorn... That is his 7th house, so with Neptune there, he tends to idealize his partner, he wants to merge with them, he wants a total union.

He also has a lot of water in his chart: Pisces, Scorpio, and he is Cancer rising, so that can make for a very warm, affectionate person toward family and loved ones.

posted April 11, 2022 12:07 AM            

For instance, there are Neptunian relationships where one person stays in love and co-dependent of the other even though the partner abuses alcohol, drugs, cheats, wastes money, gambles, or is physically abusive. The Neptunian influenced partner keeps seeing the good in the person in spite of their bad actions.

posted April 11, 2022 04:28 PM            

Mars/Saturn hard aspect may have a temper if the person has some insecurity. The one who doesn't show it usually a little bit more of a sadistic if really really triggered and pushed, so don't try.

I'm actually quite confused about what it is exactly the problem? Please, don't get me wrong or feels offended, but I think it is your anxiety problem from that Gemini influences.

What makes you feel anxious? His mysterious behavior? His predictable nature? How good to be true he is? Or there's a clash of needs between you? Like maybe how much communication you need in marriage? Or the need of certain excitement?

How to calm Moon square Uranus (I personally have moon trine uranus too):

Take a free time for yourself, in whatever things do you like, hang out with friends, take a course in class, etc, take the positive one. To feel a fresh air of freedom.

Have your own alone time: reading, painting, any creative outlet you can get.

Try to take a lot of activities, talk to your husband that you want to share household matters. Activities also good to your Gemini influences.

posted April 11, 2022 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I confess, I have not read past the OP, and I don't know if this has been addressed in later posts, but part of me is like,

What are you complaining about, girl!

You know how many women wish they had your problem husband?

Just love him and be good to him and count your blessings.

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posted April 11, 2022 05:12 PM            

You seem very lucky and very sweet in the way you describe your husband, I suspected you had Neptunian energy.

Not only you have a sensitive Piscean Moon, but even your Sun, Venus and Mercury are heavily Neptunian.

I don't have experience with this but I've read that people with big unafflicted trines tend to have an easy-lazy life, it could be related to you never having to work. Combined with your South Node in 4th H it might be the reason for the stay at home part.

The tantrums you mentioned seem more like Uranus in 4th H. Mars in 3rd house could have a similar effect but in your case Mars is disciplined thanks to Saturn conjuncting it.

Your husband seems very pantient and earthy, I admire him for that. I'm not hiding you I am a little suspicious though, sounds too good to be true. I'm wondering if he has another reason for treating you like this, maybe you see him that way because of all that Neptunian energy in your chart? I don't know. I'm curious about his chart. ​