posted November 23, 2015 04:12 PM            

Im dating a guy with leo moon/scorp venus and before he met me, all the girls he dated cheated on him i wonder why, he's a really great guy and always gets hurt or walked on or treated like doodoo. it's painful karma indeed. I still wonder why this happens to him, because he's such a nice guy and was raised in a good home.

posted November 23, 2015 07:46 PM            

It sucks but pain has turned me into a better lover. I can actually relate to another and I'm not going to say I was a perfect lover in the past b/c I wasn't,so I also feel like its karma. We must chose what it is we truly value and what are we basing it on?

posted November 24, 2015 08:01 AM            

My current bf has Scorp Venus and he has a rocky history with women. I think he might come to the same conclusion as you, StillTippin..he is attracted to drama because he craves the emotional intensity. I also have Scorp Venus and I can relate.

His last ex treated him like absolute sh't. She even broke some of his fingers and stabbed him and now shes trying to keep his kids from him. He has major trust issues with women because of people like her..and he says he has been cheated on a lot, too.

One of my ex's also had Scorpio Venus. He had only been with three women but he said the first one made him feel bad about himself sexually.

posted November 24, 2015 10:19 AM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
StillTippin, good self analysis there..you sound like a very self aware and mature Scorp Venus.

My current bf has Scorp Venus and he has a rocky history with women. I think he might come to the same conclusion as you, StillTippin..he is attracted to drama because he craves the emotional intensity. I also have Scorp Venus and I can relate.

His last ex treated him like absolute sh't. She even broke some of his fingers and stabbed him and now shes trying to keep his kids from him. He has major trust issues with women because of people like her..and he says he has been cheated on a lot, too.

One of my ex's also had Scorpio Venus. He had only been with three women but he said the first one made him feel bad about himself sexually.

Doesnt seem like an easy placement for a man

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O wwwwwooooowww. Thanks for that also its taken me some time to reach this point. And yea I see its a troublesome placement. I have a Libra Mars plus im a Libra so it's like a get sent right back to it

Its crazy how you've met other men that have been thru it. It has taught me how to change my values hopefully the next one goes better but it has made me CAUTIOUS. I take my time n get to know a person even if its casual dating b/c I just don't like the emotional turmoil.

posted November 24, 2015 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I am sorry, but which Venus has not been cheated on?

I seriously don't think being cheated on is a Venus in Scorpio characteristic.

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posted November 24, 2015 01:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I am sorry, but which Venus has not been cheated on?

I seriously don't think being cheated on is a Venus in Scorpio characteristic.

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posted November 24, 2015 02:09 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
it's what they choose to focus on because that's their biggest fear

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Ok, I get it. For sure, what you fear the most and focus on the most will happen.

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
I think the OP may have meant that venus in scorp men have bad luck in love, in general. Venus in scorp is in detriment afterall.

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I know that but honestly, I am learning to take these planetary dignities with a grain of salt. I know a man with Venus in Pisces (which is supposed to be exalted), and he was married to a Aries dominant woman who used him and his Venus kindness and chewed him out when he was no longer useful to her. He died practically heartbroken.

If anything, I find Venus in Scorpio to be resilient, and it will not be used and misused like the exalted Venus in Pisces.

posted November 24, 2015 02:14 PM            

I love venus in scorpio people and usually get along well with them. I have Saturn in Scorpio so I understand them at a deep level.

posted November 24, 2015 02:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I know that but honestly, I am learning to take these planetary dignities with a grain of salt. I know a man with Venus in Pisces (which is supposed to be exalted), and he was married to a Aries dominant woman who used him and his Venus kindness and chewed him out when he was no longer useful to her. He died practically heartbroken.

If anything, I find Venus in Scorpio to be resilient, and it will not be used and misused like the exalted Venus in Pisces.

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Do you have a venus in scorpio?

These people grow through conflicts; it can be unnecessarily probing

Venus is exalted in Pisces, not at home. It has the potential to be great, but that's the potential.

posted November 24, 2015 02:25 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
Do you have a venus in scorpio?

These people grow through conflicts; it can be unnecessarily probing

Venus is exalted in Pisces, not at home. It has the potential to be great, but that's the potential.

Meet a venus in Taurus or Libra person and you can see why Venus in Scorpio is not "natural." I have 7th pluto, very similar energy too.

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i don't have venus in scorpio.

Interestingly enough, Hugh Hefner has Venus in Pisces!!!!!

posted November 25, 2015 10:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Venus in Scorpio people will be fine. Pluto is regeneration and this Venus has to learn to regenerate itself and rise like phoenix from the ashes.

I love venus in scorpio people and usually get along well with them. I have Saturn in Scorpio so I understand them at a deep level.

This Venus's intensity is its downfall as well as its strength. Double edge sword. The native must learn to master it, and learn to be more detached. Understand that you can't control someone, and that if someone truly loves you, they will stick around, you don't have to play games. And if they leave, you will survive.

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You know what they suck and i hate men

posted November 25, 2015 02:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
i don't have venus in scorpio.

Interestingly enough, Hugh Hefner has Venus in Pisces!!!!!

Yes, Venus would prefer to be in Libra or Taurus, its natural homes. But somehow, Venus in Aries, the opposite of Libra, doesn't get the bad rap that Venus in Scorpio gets, when they are both ruled by Mars.

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Interesting Belage!

My bf has Venus in Scorpio and he has been cheated on in the past, been with crazy ladies that tore him apart into pieces. He says he had to see what it's like to be with them...? That sounds like a Scorpio trait to me - they need to feel and experience it whether it be a positive or negative situation.

posted November 25, 2015 04:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Venus in Scorpio is not an automatic albatross. Look at house placement and planetary aspects before one can say that this person needs to be pitied.

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Forget this guy man. He sucks id rather die than be with him. I hate him

posted November 25, 2015 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Interesting Belage!

My bf has Venus in Scorpio and he has been cheated on in the past, been with crazy ladies that tore him apart into pieces. He says he had to see what it's like to be with them...? That sounds like a Scorpio trait to me - they need to feel and experience it whether it be a positive or negative situation.

I have Saturn in Scorpio and it conjuncts his Venus by mere minutes. He really loves me like no one else ever has. His love is so intense I just let myself melt in his intensity and passion. My Aries Venus (and Mars also) loves this very much!! His Mars is in Libra so from what you described, we have an interesting dynamic going on.

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His Venus and your Venus and Mars being under the same rulership makes for great compatibility. And Saturn as a glue. Oh yeahhh.

posted November 25, 2015 08:42 PM            

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Originally posted by HCtheQueenOfWands:
You know what they suck and i hate men

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