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Topic: Leader vs Boss
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DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1736 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted January 07, 2016 09:22 AM
I'm curious what you might expect to find in each, astrologically. IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 390 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 07, 2016 11:51 AM
Boss--lots of Cap Leader- lots of SagIP: Logged |
PixieMG Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Argentina Registered: Dec 2015
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posted January 07, 2016 12:42 PM
Interesting. Everytime I get involved in a group I end up being the leader, the one that organizes things, the one that makes things run properly. It happens naturally, I tend to not trust other people to do the work.I have my NN in Aries(11th), in the 10th house (cusp is at 29° of Pisces), which I think is a good placement to have leadership qualities, I also have my Moon and Mars in Capri, 8th and 7th house respectively, Uranus, Neptune and Fortune, 7th house, Saturn in the 6th house, all in Sagi, all planets are Rx. My 11th house is empty, but I think any placement here could be important for leaders. What do you think? ------------------ Gemini Rising. Cancer Sun. Capricorn Moon. 6 Rx planets. IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 5141 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted January 07, 2016 12:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by bananaz: Boss--lots of Cap Leader- lots of Sag
I was thinking this as well, but deliberating on whether or not to say as much. I don't know if I've ever had a Cap supervisor, but my favorite supervisors (the ones who make the place a fun and rewarding place to work) have always been Sag Suns. I thought that might be because their Sag placements might make a trine to my Venus, but I can't confirm that. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 974 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted January 07, 2016 03:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by bananaz: Boss--lots of Cap Leader- lots of Sag
Off the cuff, I would say Aries more than Sag. Both pictures are expressions of cardinal energy. Sag is more likely standing off to the side with me, the Gemini, having a discussion on the merits of moving the thing and how best to achieve it and the need to use manual labor at all in the post-industrial age... lol!
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Spongebob Knowflake Posts: 290 From: Registered: Nov 2015
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posted January 07, 2016 03:37 PM
Im more interested in the person who goes off and does their own thing and was never interested in leading OR following.aquarius ascendant! *points to self* IP: Logged |
VirgoPILL Knowflake Posts: 146 From: cosmos Registered: Oct 2015
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posted January 07, 2016 03:39 PM
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Violets Knowflake Posts: 5141 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted January 07, 2016 03:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini Blues: Off the cuff, I would say Aries more than Sag. Both pictures are expressions of cardinal energy.Sag is more likely standing off to the side with me, the Gemini, having a discussion on the merits of moving the thing and how best to achieve it and the need to use manual labor at all in the post-industrial age... lol!
Actually, now that you mention it, my last supervisor was a Gemini Sun, and that woman kicked some serious @ss. She had the perfect blend of compassion, empathy, and an absolute, unmistakable "don't f*ck with me" energy. She was completely dedicated to her job, and very fair with employees. But once you crossed her, that was it. I thought she was awesome. However, I suspect that she had some Virgo (maybe Cancer) and definitely some strong Pluto in her chart. As she is a supervisor in health care/human services, as were my favored Sag supervisors, I have to wonder if the best placements depend on the field? IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1736 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted January 07, 2016 04:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini Blues: Both pictures are expressions of cardinal energy.
Excellent point. This may not be a popular opinion. My personal experience with Libra, of which I've had relationships with, worked with past and present, is that they are "bossy". They do both but seem to rely more on the "boss" end of it and "lead" as a last resort. To all the Libra out there. I love you. I really do. But I couldn't work for you. It changes a little here and there with each person and each chart but overall that's been my experience with that cardinal sign. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 878 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 07, 2016 05:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by DopGang: Excellent point. This may not be a popular opinion. My personal experience with Libra, of which I've had relationships with, worked with past and present, is that they are "bossy". They do both but seem to rely more on the "boss" end of it and "lead" as a last resort. To all the Libra out there. I love you. I really do. But I couldn't work for you. It changes a little here and there with each person and each chart but overall that's been my experience with that cardinal sign.
True. I used to boss around my friends and would get all the blame for everything we did because people knew i was the ringleader. That was annoying esp since i wasn't the only one that came up with d u m b things to do, lol. IP: Logged |
PixieMG Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Argentina Registered: Dec 2015
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posted January 07, 2016 05:27 PM
I tend to be bossy sometimes, but since I was an employee and my experiences weren't good, I try to control that attitude.On the other hand, I could never be someone's employee again, I'm not good at taking orders, that could be my Uranus. ------------------ Gemini Rising. Cancer Sun. Capricorn Moon. 6 Rx planets. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 7474 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 07, 2016 05:45 PM
Linda Goodman's Sun Signs give a general description of each sun sign as boss & employee. (ETA: looks like you can see it here .)Though going by that pic, I have a hard time seeing a leader as being like a boss. Bosses are much more...oh, what's the word? Political, but not ideological, that is it's about brown nosing the right people and things like that (and expecting the same treatment by inferiors as they advance, all part of paying one's dues). One generally wouldn't be an employee of a leader, either...one would actually be more of a cohort, follower, or henchman instead, which could mean pay (especially in profit enterprises--in which case I see a leader as more criminally inclined, though it's possible to buck the system legally as well), but probably more like a cut or share or something more informal (assuming it's a factor at all). If a leader were to become a boss, they'd likely rise in the ranks very slowly with someone else taking credit for their good while blaming them for the bad, and leaders wouldn't have as much time to mix with the "right people" to advance their career or be yes-men to their superiors like the bosses (which would further hinder their advancement in a standard bureaucratic organization like a corporation or military where bosses rule rather than leaders). It occurs to me I've known many leaders well, but no bosses as I quickly distanced myself from them (which makes sense, my Sag Mars-Uranus bristles under bosses, and what do I have to offer them?). IP: Logged |
HadesFish Knowflake Posts: 196 From: Sunny with a splash of dark. Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 07, 2016 08:03 PM
This a great question!I've come to understand it's hard to be both. Providing there is a following, anyone can be either one. I also believe they are inter related and if you have a bad impression of either one, a leader will turn into a boss and vice Versa. Personally I can say I lead and boss of myself all the time. It wasn't always like this, and I can only define I chose my own path and the affects were I thought I was a leader sometimes and a boss at other times, probably while being a slave also. I didn't realize the impact I may have had. Once I did, I take the cards that are dealt, so to say... All I can say is be careful when you take on any role with people, regardless how minuscule they might seem, even if role is placed in you its for a reason, and you are responsible. Sooo.... To be either one to me is to simply be aware of your actions and responsibilities. If you go about searching for this... I wish you well. If its placed on you, I wish you even better. I also don't know a soul that at one time or another hasn't been in such a position in one way or another. I don't mind following somone who I can learn from, but if I only un learn from them they will never lead or boss me, regardless of what it is - I've risked that... Can you?(hypothetically). The pics posted to me represent no color in sense that they both are willingly working together. This is neither my idea of a leader or a boss, in sense of pics. I would never pull that nor would I ever want someone to pull that weight either.... After that still what if they encountered enemies representing this..whether animal or people. That is the true test. No way can the pusher or throne sitter ever get back to life after real life has happened. Oh, and astrologically I find Mercury and rising have a great deal to do with even getting to this point. ------------------ All that glitters is not Gold. IP: Logged |
Seimei Knowflake Posts: 1466 From: n2thedust Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 07, 2016 08:24 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by DopGang: [B]I'm curious what you might expect to find in each, astrologically. I like the pic. Well I am Virgo 2x, with Cancer on 10th, Virgo intercepted and 3 planets in Leo, Saturn sq asc In my youth many times with no intention at all to do so, I went from new guy to running the crew. I never really got why it happened. Attention to detail and honesty and maybe guts because I did not care if I kept that job, I would challenge what I thought was stupid way to do something. I often took initiative. I guess it is the Leo part of me, or at least that is the general consensus, and inhibition energy of Saturn sq asc kept me balanced. any ahole can be trained to be a boss , but being selected because others found you follow-able is not the same thing "In the 80s building houses in Austin a person could say FU to his boss and get hired across the street before he had loaded all his tools back into his truck" Thus I developed a tude.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7194 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted January 08, 2016 08:45 AM
Shouldn't jump to conclusions on the Cap and Sag as leadership indicators. What exactly makes Cap. the boss? What leadership qualities do Sags have?
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 15060 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 08, 2016 09:50 AM
I often consider Pisces the leader, but I don't actually follow Pisces. My Pisces best friend has advanced ways of thinking about things, but there is nothing to follow, because I can't actually do what she does. However, if she wants to make a plan, I trust her and happily take the back seat. However, she refuses to acknowledge there is a back seat and frames the discussion & project like we are equals, asking my advice on little details to keep my ego protected. LOL I guess different people are good at different things, and insofar as I can recognize the "frontrunner," I will follow that. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 15060 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 08, 2016 09:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: What exactly makes Cap. the boss?
Well, for instance I say, "You need to pick up your toys." *no response* "I repeat, pick up your toys." *crickets* "YOU ARE GOING TO PICK UP YOUR TOYS NOW. " And then they do it. Easy peasy! IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 08, 2016 10:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Well, for instance I say, "You need to pick up your toys."*no response* "I repeat, pick up your toys." *crickets* "[b]YOU ARE GOING TO PICK UP YOUR TOYS NOW. " And then they do it. Easy peasy![/B]
We do need that. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 15060 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 08, 2016 10:35 AM
LOL, but I know the smarter thing is to just make it seem fun...teach them it's fun. Occasionally I take that approach, make a game of it, and it goes much faster & happier. But I don't know what it is in my chart that makes me a good teacher, whenever I am one. IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 08, 2016 10:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: LOL, but I know the smarter thing is to just make it seem fun...teach them it's fun. Occasionally I take that approach, make a game of it, and it goes much faster & happier. But I don't know what it is in my chart that makes me a good teacher, whenever I am one.
Yeah, absolutely...! Kids are a whole other story. Here's a parent that makes 'em love getting ready for school. (See Jonathan Brill's answer). Such tactics are awesome. https://goo.gl/mVbd9r Edit: Maybe it's the Pisces moon - Aqua merc working together in your chart to make you a good teacher, and the Sag venus makes a fun teacher. Just remembered, Randy Pausch had that too. IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 08, 2016 10:57 AM
As for the original question...It's hard to hold on to a vision when involved with the day-to-day issues of being a Boss. But that doesn't mean it's impossible. For instance, I happen to know someone who (acc. to me), is both. He's a Virgo with Leo moon and Scorp Mars. He smells BS a mile away and no-one can put one over him. He combines the fire moon's vision and idealism with the Virgo sun's attention to detail. Translation: Although he's top brass, he can see all the way down to the tiniest detail that other people at his level wouldn't be bothered with. With the right planetary mix, one can have the winning combination of charisma, vision and a firm hand. IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 390 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 08, 2016 12:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini Blues: Off the cuff, I would say Aries more than Sag. Both pictures are expressions of cardinal energy.Sag is more likely standing off to the side with me, the Gemini, having a discussion on the merits of moving the thing and how best to achieve it and the need to use manual labor at all in the post-industrial age... lol!
Ehh...I disagree respectfully. Although Aries can get through a task better than others, their one directional energy and quickness to anger doesn't make a good leader. People dont usually work for the job--they work for other people. A Sagittarius has everything it takes. They bring livlineness to the work place, keep an upbeat attitude, and at their most evolved can judge fairly. Their competitive, overachiever tendencies usually keep them at the top of the ranks, and they expect everyone else to keep pace. Since they're the teachers of the zodiac, they're skilled when it comes to training as well. Capricorns are great at planning and extremely methodical and they exude a powerful essence that demands respect. Thats why I consider them more the "boss" type. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 974 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted January 08, 2016 12:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by bananaz: Ehh...I disagree respectfully. ...
And so it shall be. Best boss I ever had was a Taurus. Worst was a Sag. Way too rules and regulations bossy. But I never did the Sag's chart so it could just be something else in her chart. Or in mine... Just goes to show there's more than 12 kinds of people in the zodiac.
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bananaz Knowflake Posts: 390 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 08, 2016 01:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini Blues: Just goes to show there's more than 12 kinds of people in the zodiac.
Of course, thats why I said "lots of Sag" energy initially. Other things in the chart can affect the outcome. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7194 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted January 08, 2016 02:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Well, for instance I say, "You need to pick up your toys."*no response* "I repeat, pick up your toys." *crickets* "[b]YOU ARE GOING TO PICK UP YOUR TOYS NOW. " And then they do it. Easy peasy![/B]
I guess I'm of the other Cap persuasion... the more devious one... You forget to study, I forget to feed you... And as for you... pick up your toys... now. IP: Logged |