posted February 13, 2016 12:26 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Geminiyoungster:
I would like to know what aspects this would be!
I've always had people that just invade my personal space or or try to control me! It's so freaking weird

---

Are you strongly Uranian or strongly plutonian?

posted February 13, 2016 01:24 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Spongebob:
Are you strongly Uranian or strongly plutonian?

Angular Lilith will do this too.

---

posted February 13, 2016 10:17 PM            

My sister says it's annoying but I can't help but LOVVEEE YOUUU

With mostly everyone else I usually keep my distance

posted February 13, 2016 10:22 PM            

I have to be all like:

posted February 14, 2016 02:05 AM            

At least for me I just recall the men who invaded my personal space that I had to smack back (they probably thought they were being sexy by being so assertive, and ironically some women who would consider those I get along with to be bullying and invasive might have found their attention flattering rather than exasperating and worse) and as a result I don't know their signs, and often didn't even get their names.

posted February 14, 2016 10:11 PM            

Well I was the youngest of six kids growing up and had my "room" in the attic with three of my brothers for a while, having not much privacy...it was fine, my brothers are normal people...but for so long I didn't have my own room and had to adapt my mentality to acceptance of that fact. And just being the youngest meant I had low expectations about things NOT being messed with...

And again, I adapted by taking an attitude that was more healthy to me (as a little kid, I didn't think of it in those terms of course)...but I just gave everything away. Shared anything I had. No more worries about defending my turf. I had nothing...BUT I had peace of mind, cause I wasn't going to get robbed! If they took it that meant I shared it with them.

Funny but I think this affects my general demeanor, and from my perspective, by being open, I deter the people who want to "invade" from even coming near me. Like if they are in a banging-down-walls mood, they will probably not look at me and think, "Now THERE is someone to hit with the battering ram!!" I feel like most of the time, I'm so go-with-the-flow, I blend into the energetic scenery and can hide there.

And I was always sorta like that. I think it kept me safe.

posted February 15, 2016 02:04 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by ScorpioMoon:
This happened to me all the time as a child/teen. Basically almost any and everyone would disrespect me by touching me inappropriately (in a sexual manner) hitting for no reason, taking my belongings and hiding them from me, taking my things and tossing them to the ground and going to me bedroom and snooping around without a care in the world. When i would confront someone about this kind of behavior, it's always "Go sit down" or i would get completely ignored only to have the perpetrator continue to snoop or refuse to pick up my belongings/ give them back to me. I would respond with physical violence in the case of being touched inappropriately . D: As for getting dissed, basically I feel like there is always a petty insult or passive-aggressive verbal attack waiting for me around every corner. These attacks can range from what I'm wearing/ my looks or an insult toward my intelligence or my ideals. With a Virgo DSC and and 11th house Capricorn/Saturn in the 11th house I seem to attract some really fault finding people be it a child, a grown man, or a grown woman.

Some aspects the stand out to me in my chart:
Scorpio moon in the 8th house
Pluto in the 8th house
Mars square Jupiter
Mars square Saturn
Sun Conjunct Chiron?
Sun Conjunct Jupiter
Jupiter Conjunct Chiron
Neptune in the 10thouse
Neptune Conjunct MC
Sun/Merucry opposite Neptune?
Sun/Mercury trine Pluto

---

posted February 15, 2016 02:17 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by ScorpioMoon:
This happened to me all the time as a child/teen. Basically almost any and everyone would disrespect me by touching me inappropriately (in a sexual manner) hitting for no reason, taking my belongings and hiding them from me, taking my things and tossing them to the ground and going to me bedroom and snooping around without a care in the world. When i would confront someone about this kind of behavior, it's always "Go sit down" or i would get completely ignored only to have the perpetrator continue to snoop or refuse to pick up my belongings/ give them back to me. I would respond with physical violence in the case of being touched inappropriately . D: As for getting dissed, basically I feel like there is always a petty insult or passive-aggressive verbal attack waiting for me around every corner. These attacks can range from what I'm wearing/ my looks or an insult toward my intelligence or my ideals. With a Virgo DSC and and 11th house Capricorn/Saturn in the 11th house I seem to attract some really fault finding people be it a child, a grown man, or a grown woman.

Some aspects the stand out to me in my chart:
Scorpio moon in the 8th house
Pluto in the 8th house
Mars square Jupiter
Mars square Saturn
Sun Conjunct Chiron?
Sun Conjunct Jupiter
Jupiter Conjunct Chiron
Neptune in the 10thouse
Neptune Conjunct MC
Sun/Merucry opposite Neptune?
Sun/Mercury trine Pluto

---

posted February 15, 2016 10:53 AM            

Though interesting enough, plenty of bullies also come from abusive homes who repeat the abuse they endure on other kids.

Perhaps that's tied into the natal chart. A Pisces moon raised with terrible abuse will be deeply affected feeling that they deserve it (as they absorb the emotions of their abuser that causes the Pisces moon child to hate the self) as well as fearing to be close to anyone who can radiate similar hostile energy so instead flees to a fantasy world of books and thus become the kid reading by himself bullied at school, whereas a Leo moon would need to rebuild their pride and imitate the abuser's behavior and thus become a bully instead of the bullied. A Cancer moon could be a bit of both, believing they deserve the abuse at home and yet looking for those who deserve the abuse even more (for example, one beaten by a father to "toughen him up" might lash out at a guy he believes is effeminate or sensitive as this both helps him feel better and doubles as a way to punish that which is inside him, put into someone else like a ritual scapegoat). This is just off the top of my head.

Just to be clear, I'm not saying "Leo moon are bullies," just speculating how the moon might react to abuse at home since the worst bullies, and those who endure the worst bullying, tend to come from abusive homes. I believe my mom is a narcissist because of both her natal chart AND that she was abused (had she not endured the abuse and such growing up then she would not be a narcissist), but had I been raised with the same exact childhood she had (but my own chart rather than hers) then I expect I'd be on death row and feeling fully justified in inflicting torture and death on people (ie, society would be right to lock me away as a mad dog) rather than a narcissist, because the abuse would've twisted my natal chart energy just as my mother's natal chart energy was twisted (and we were born with different energy). And it's not that someone can't overcome the abuse and heal, but it's exceedingly difficult, and typically not something one can't do without help...genuine help, not the official kinds of help, or platitudes.

posted February 16, 2016 01:59 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Odette:
Yes... This happens to me.. People trying to invade my space... both literally and figuratively.
And it hasn't been just men...

I have to be all like:

---