posted October 30, 2016 10:56 PM            

I have gemini moon and I will only say "I love you" when I mean it and I dont put pressure for them to say the same.The idea of them saying it just because I want them to makes me paranoid.I want it to be real! but I dont fall in love fast.. so people get mad with me sometimes.Like they want me to say something that I dont feel within a short amount of time.

posted October 30, 2016 11:01 PM            

Sag moon in 5H Sag stellium, which is also probably why I'm careful to distinguish which kind of love I feel for someone, when I feel it (the philosophical aspects).

posted October 30, 2016 11:03 PM            

If I was in a relationship with someone I truly loved, I feel like I would say it in a heartbeat. So often I idealize the perfect relationship where I can say that freely while I'm surrounded in the love I desire so much. In that situation I would say it quickly. When it comes to people in general however, I am very cautious with whom I say it too.

Not many people get my gratitude and are people that I truly care for, despite me caring too much for people in general. If anyone becomes a good friend of mine, I treat them like that good friend that they are. Earning that kind of respect can be difficult for some people.

posted October 30, 2016 11:17 PM            

Romantic love and having kids was most of my life everything to me and I did not have realistic expectations in those areas or saw clearly; those things were my whole world and what I wanted the most.

Yeah definitely check out your strongest planet and what it rules bc it will tell you were you go to far, areas that mean too much to you and really paint a picture of the theme in your life.

posted October 31, 2016 12:33 AM            

I have Aries Venus opposite Libra Pluto, so that's that.

posted October 31, 2016 12:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Violets:
Yes, I do. And what I usually mean is "I'm IN love with you". But I doubt it has much at all to do with my Virgo Moon.

I have Aries Venus opposite Libra Pluto, so that's that.

I don't often mind if they don't say it back.
Although now I'm married, and have children, and we all tell each other we love each other often, in addition to saying as much to other family members.

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posted October 31, 2016 10:58 AM            

Sometimes I am really carefree with "I love yous" in the friendly sense, and actually I have to bite my tongue so I don't say this more. Sag Venus conjunct Neptune.

I tell all my family members that I love them, just about every day.

With people outside my family it's often been the case where the deeper my feelings go, the harder that is to say, as it takes on a different meaning. There is a point where "I love you" just sounds trite and beneath the situation, and not saying it then, keeping it in silence, is meant as the deeper expression of feeling. (8H moon)

posted October 31, 2016 11:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Mergoatsun:
Leo moon, 10th house.
I find that I get too excited and idealize a relationship and say I love someone before I really "love" that person. To me love is seeing all the flaws and still choosing to be with that person anyways because you deeply care about them. With my aqua Venus it takes time for my heart to fully commit myself, but once I'm committed I'm loyal and loving.

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posted October 31, 2016 11:28 AM            

My 10th house moon just wants precious affection 😄😢😭

posted October 31, 2016 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:

I have gemini moon and I will only say "I love you" when I mean it and I dont put pressure for them to say the same.The idea of them saying it just because I want them to makes me paranoid.I want it to be real! but I dont fall in love fast.. so people get mad with me sometimes.Like they want me to say something that I dont feel within a short amount of time.

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posted October 31, 2016 12:02 PM            

Cap Moon 5H

posted October 31, 2016 12:09 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Ummmm no. And once I say it I will genuinely mean and I don't tend to repeat it like a fluffy emptiness all the time.

Cap Moon 5H

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posted October 31, 2016 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Ummmm no. And once I say it I will genuinely mean and I don't tend to repeat it like a fluffy emptiness all the time.

Cap Moon 5H

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That's me as well. I will say it only to the people who truly deserve it.

posted October 31, 2016 12:43 PM            

Venus in Leo people need to hear and see it regularly, we need you to tell us and show us you love us. Its a very passionate and expressive Venus specially when you add we both have water moons that aspect our mercury and we both have venus trine neptune and sextile pluto.

posted October 31, 2016 12:59 PM            

I love my kids so much, that's why it's always on the tip of my tongue. I say it more deliberately to my husband, often as a way of communicating gratitude. (His Virgo Venus acts of service often elicit a thanks/love-you response.)

posted October 31, 2016 01:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Yeah...I don't get the correlation between frequency and density: the more you say it, the less it means. (?)

I love my kids so much, that's [b]why it's always on the tip of my tongue. I say it more deliberately to my husband, often as a way of communicating gratitude. (His Virgo Venus acts of service often elicit a thanks/love-you response.)

And here's something to think about...I'm not saying it proves anything, since words can also be fake....but good words tend to have good effects on the molecular structure of water. [/B]

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^^ Interesting Faith and yes that is part of why I say it to him regularly bc I feel its good for him and he needs to hear it and I just want him to know it, you never know when you will see someone for the last time and I like letting the person know my feelings are still strong. Its a way of reconnecting too since relationships are hard and sometimes you get on each other's nerves or have conflicts, its reassuring to tell each other this even though you may know it already. Like you are pointing out it has a healing effect and that is also a reason why I do it, our bodies are largely made of water.

posted October 31, 2016 03:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Yeah...I don't get the correlation between frequency and density: the more you say it, the less it means. (?)

And here's something to think about...I'm not saying it proves anything, since words can also be fake....but good words tend to have good effects on the molecular structure of water.

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First part: Different strokes for different folks. The more I hear it the more I take it for granted or it becomes less "shiny" and special to me. Like walking over a pair of diamonds on your doorstep because you always see them there. It doesn't mean i don't want to know I'm loved or show that frequently, just prefer to verbally express it at a minimum. Actions speak louder than words to me.

posted October 31, 2016 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Ummmm no. And once I say it I will genuinely mean and I don't tend to repeat it like a fluffy emptiness all the time.

Cap Moon 5H

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posted October 31, 2016 05:25 PM            

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the correlation between frequency and density

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Yeah I don't feel this way either. And I don't prize feelings that builds over time over feelings that happen fast.

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aries moon 3rd house.

When I say "I love you", it's the "lover" talking.

The "lover" in me fall hard and fast. Truly "fall", not "poking toes gingerly into love". I fall when a person make my emotions soar high and become overwhelming. I want to fall that way, allow and open to let it work its magic. Needless to say, I think very highly of it, and feel that it is one of the things that colour my world beautiful.

I do have fleeting moments when I feel a little something for a lot of people. I treasure those moments, but they're very different.

With my s.o, I said it immediately when I felt it. Early. I say it all the time. In awe and with all of my feelings.

Then there's the "partner"/"friend", who cares about the practical n intellectual side of a union.

posted October 31, 2016 11:31 PM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
When I say "I love you", it's the "lover" talking.

The "lover" in me fall hard and fast. Truly "fall", not "poking toes gingerly into love". I fall when a person make my emotions soar high and become overwhelming. I want to fall that way, allow and open to let it work its magic. Needless to say, I think very highly of it, and feel that it is one of the things that colour my world beautiful.

I do have fleeting moments when I feel a little something for a lot of people. I treasure those moments, but they're very different.

With my s.o, I said it immediately when I felt it. Early. I say it all the time. In awe and with all of my feelings.

Then there's the "partner"/"friend", who cares about the practical n intellectual side of a union.

Both sides have to be satisfied for me to stay in a relationship, but without the "magic", I won't have the urge to try and maintain the relationship. The "magic" is what makes my relationship different from my friendship.

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I can relate to some of this. 12th house Venus by any chance?

posted November 01, 2016 07:36 AM            

cap venus conj saturn/neppy/uranus/asc.

I have moon square saturn. I usually say it first (I'm counting friendship as well).