posted May 20, 2020 05:36 PM              

Can any Venus in Cancer people relate to this or tell me if they'd find this as a good thing?

I'm a Venus in Taurus. Just trying to get stuff moving here. I don't have time for games. She's also a Mercury in Cancer and I'm a Moon in Aries, Mercury in Gemini.

posted May 22, 2020 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by ParallelToucan:
I told my girlfriend, "Look, I need a wife, you need someone. Who gives a **** , let's get married, and please stop with all of this crock of $hit ."

Can any Venus in Cancer people relate to this or tell me if they'd find this as a good thing?

I'm a Venus in Taurus. Just trying to get stuff moving here. I don't have time for games. She's also a Mercury in Cancer and I'm a Moon in Aries, Mercury in Gemini.

Any advice?? She hasn't responded to me in like a month. She's also a Moon in Aries.

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Hi!
I have Venus in Cancer, and I would take your message as slightly too direct, but I would need further info to help you out. In order to analyze her natal chart, are you willing to provide me with your gfs exact DOB, birthtime & location please? If you prefer, you could always tell me the following:
1. Her Venus’ House Placement.
2. Her Venus’ Aspect
3. Her Moon Signs’ House Placement.
4. Her 5th House Planet(s), if any.
5. Her 7th House Planet(s), if any.
6. Her 5th House Cusp Sign
7. Her 7th House Cusp Sign

Thank you!

posted May 22, 2020 08:32 PM              

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Hi!
I have Venus in Cancer, and I would take your message as slightly too direct, but I would need further info to help you out. In order to analyze her natal chart, are you willing to provide me with your gfs exact DOB, birthtime & location please? If you prefer, you could always tell me the following:
1. Her Venus’ House Placement.
2. Her Venus’ Aspect
3. Her Moon Signs’ House Placement.
4. Her 5th House Planet(s), if any.
5. Her 7th House Planet(s), if any.
6. Her 5th House Cusp Sign
7. Her 7th House Cusp Sign

Thank you!

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posted May 22, 2020 09:01 PM              

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Originally posted by Ayelet:
Venus in Cancer here. But I'm not sure whether she hasn't replied yet because of her Venus or her Gemini sun. Venus in Cancer needs emotional security. But Geminis always think about all the options and tend to change their minds frequently. It doesn't mean they can't be loyal.I had a Gemini friend who was one of the most loyal, serious and commited persons I've ever met.
Your taurus Venus is very let's get down to business kind of energy, which may be the best thing for Cancer Venus who is certain about her feelings. But Geminis need more time to allow themselves grow into the relationship without pressure. She may need more time to be sure of her own feelings and needs. It's not a matter of games, it's about her not knowing the best path to take, and maybe pushing her to make a decision will make her stress grow.
She may or may not be the one. If you love her, don't insist that she commits before being prepared. Maybe you're relationship is already quite long, and you didn't rush things by proposing. If that is the case, it is, to my opinion, not too much to ask, regardless of her sun sign. But if it hasn't been that long and you want to quickly settle down, maybe you'd need a second valuation of either your desire for stability and security, or of this relationship.

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posted May 22, 2020 10:51 PM            

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Originally posted by ParallelToucan:

June 2, 1994, Tallinn, Estonia. 22:07

I also plan on editing the birth information out once you've assisted with an adequate reply.

Thanks.

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posted May 23, 2020 01:31 AM            

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Originally posted by ParallelToucan:
We've never met. I have never heard her voice. In 4 years time. I am disgusted.

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posted May 23, 2020 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by ParallelToucan:
We've never met. I have never heard her voice. In 4 years time. I am disgusted.

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posted May 23, 2020 03:46 PM              

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Got it, you can edit it out!
I will analyze her chart tomorrow, and again with a “second-view” on Sunday. I’m no professional astrologer, but I will try to help as best as I can

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posted May 23, 2020 03:48 PM              

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
You've never met?? Then how is she your girlfriend??

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You'd have to ask her that. She's the one that's psychotic, but I love her.

posted May 23, 2020 03:49 PM              

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Originally posted by Ayelet:
In my opinion, a 4 years of online relationship is quite long, but it's not enough for a commitment. I personally don't believe there is any amount of years after which it would be reasonable to marry someone you've only met through the internet.
Perhaps I'm old-fashioned... and maybe it can work for others.

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posted May 23, 2020 09:03 PM              

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Originally posted by Ayelet:
I just wanted to add that my opinion is based on my own preferences. I did make some connections on the internet - friendships, nothing romantic. And maybe, especially after such a long time, you've learned how to feel her through the text. I can tell there is one connection I made which did feel deep for me. But now we're out of touch, though I think of this person from time to time. I actually can understand falling in love with someone without hearing their voice or meeting them in person.
Internet relationships can sometimes have a degree of sincerity that could be lacking in a more face to face connection, maybe because the people involved feel more free to be themselves and say what they truly feel, feeling that sitting behind the keyboard makes them less vulnerable somehow.
I guess people who have trouble commiting in face to face relationships won't change much when on online relationships. But I don't know her, so I won't judge.

Edit: just a thought: maybe she has trouble transfering the connection from the virtual surroundings to tangible reality.

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posted May 23, 2020 09:09 PM              

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Be mindful of Neptune squares in your natal or synastry.
And you’ve never even talked by phone?! I can understand when meeting could be impossible, but the phone call.. I don’t want to offend you, but it sounds like a plot from that TV show about mail order bride. Make sure her photos are real.

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posted May 24, 2020 12:07 AM            

I wouldn't judge someone based on how they are only online though, though they definitely are more real(and also completely unreal), but living with them can be whole another ball game.

posted May 24, 2020 04:00 PM              

Let's keep it astrology related and not subjective please and thank you.

Or if you do have an opinion then state why using astrology related material. Thank you.

posted May 24, 2020 08:52 PM              

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Actually, it was astrology Aries moon - values actions and Cancer Venus - feminine and values feelings. ( but you need look at her Mars). Astrology should be attached to a story and experience.

Maybe, I cannot completely avoid my personal experience and opinion so I’m out.

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posted May 25, 2020 02:20 AM            

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Originally posted by ParallelToucan:
You'd have to ask her that. She's the one that's psychotic, but I love her.

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Ok, I'm hearing that you just wanna know why your Cancer Venus gf refused to meet you or marry you... but you do know that you're not gonna understand this simply by studying her Venus and Moon? If we look at it purely from an astrological point of view, I can't understand why Cancers won't be into marriage as they're traditionally known as the "family type". So what seems to be causing a block? She doesn't even wanna meet you, why? The answers are not in her Cancer Venus / Aries Moon. I've not seen any conclusive evidence that people with these signs cannot commit.