posted January 26, 2022 11:28 AM            

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Originally posted by InTheStars:
I think that would be too general of a statement to make. It could show up as attraction to literal older women, or women who project maturity, self-possession, and that type of Saturnian put-togetherness.

Do you have these traits?

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I have no Capricorn in my chart at all. I don't really think I'm mature either. I have Mars in Gemini I'm childlike.

posted January 26, 2022 11:51 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I have no Capricorn in my chart at all. I don't really think I'm mature either. I have Mars in Gemini I'm childlike.

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posted January 26, 2022 11:57 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Does he have venus in hard aspect to uranus?

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Sun conjunct Uranus

posted January 26, 2022 01:54 PM            

I think Venus in Cap men tend to be the kind of men who make decisions about who they date and marry based not on emotions, but on rational and for some, material considerations. That is the nature of Saturn ruled signs.

posted January 26, 2022 02:01 PM            

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I have Venus in Capricorn ruler of 7th, I always liked older men, going to extremes like once it was over 35 years older... but in that case I was also in a bit of Aqua eccentric mode, like I don't care what anyone thinks, with Scorpio flavor like nothing matters for the love of my life.

posted January 26, 2022 02:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I know an older man with Venus in Capp who only dates much younger women. Because he thinks they make him look good. I am pretty sure he married his first wife who was the same age as him, because she was a trophy of sort. As the decades went by and the wife became gray and fat, he discarded her because she was not longer a trophy. If he read this, he would argue with me that this is not the reason he divorced her, but I know better.

I think Venus in Cap men tend to be the kind of men who make decisions about who they date and marry based not on emotions, but on rational and for some, material considerations. That is the nature of Saturn ruled signs.

In this kind of mindset, older women are NOT eliminated as potential mates, if there are material or rational considerations that work in their favor.

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posted January 26, 2022 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Oh, so he'd get rid of me when I get older and fatter? That's good to know lol.

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That's not what I said.

I was giving ONE particular example which disproves the idea that Venus in Cap men tend to like older women and I explained why.

It's not even about age, really. Not every woman becomes fat in old age.

posted January 26, 2022 03:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
And let us keep in mind that current Pluto transiting in Capricorn, though not necessarily changing its basic nature, has TRANSFORMED Capricorn, so people with Venus in Cap may not have normally behaved the way they usually do while Pluto is transiting their sign.

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posted January 26, 2022 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So he wouldn't be into me if transit Pluto wasn't transiting his Venus?

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I cannot say that either.

If you are experiencing insecurity and doubt about your relationship with your SO, I suggest you look at why. I think that is the deeper problem here.

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posted January 26, 2022 06:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I think Cappy on the DSC would do this more.

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posted January 27, 2022 05:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I know an older man with Venus in Capp who only dates much younger women. Because he thinks they make him look good. I am pretty sure he married his first wife who was the same age as him, because she was a trophy of sort. As the decades went by and the wife became gray and fat, he discarded her because she was not longer a trophy. If he read this, he would argue with me that this is not the reason he divorced her, but I know better.

I think Venus in Cap men tend to be the kind of men who make decisions about who they date and marry based not on emotions, but on rational and for some, material considerations. That is the nature of Saturn ruled signs.

In this kind of mindset, older women are NOT eliminated as potential mates, if there are material or rational considerations that work in their favor.

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posted January 27, 2022 08:34 AM            

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Originally posted by spacecadet42420:
I second this. Two oddly similar stories of cap venus men loving much, much younger women and basing the relationship less off of love and more for status or whatever the case may be rather than emotions

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posted January 29, 2022 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
He probably enjoys an age gap with venus in cappy square saturn but you are focusing on the wrong thing, his DC ruler mercury in saggy conjuncts uranus, he is also very into dating girls from a different culture from his or a different race. You two are different races correct?

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posted January 29, 2022 12:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I figured that he was probably into women of a different race. Yes you are correct we are a different race.

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posted February 12, 2022 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
In fact with venus in capricorn conjunct south node, it’s possible that he will outgrow the desire for status or an age gap in a relationship as he gets older.

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posted February 19, 2022 01:57 AM            

I think one of the common traits/tendencies for narcissistic men is to serially go for women much younger than themselves. I don't mean guys who occasionally end up with younger women, but the ones that deliberately seem to go specifically for that. I'm talking the Goldblum types out there.