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LEXX Moderator Posts: 1690 From: Still out looking for Schrіdinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 18, 2010 07:33 PM LOL! Because of my male appearing names I use, I get women trying to friend me who are looking for boyfriends, and some stalkers from time to time. LOL! Some naked ladies too! One of the creepiest ones though was a guy who loved fat bodied women and men. When he found me, he got very obnoxiously interested and wanted to see pictures of my body naked because he loves the look of folks who have lost 100 pounds or more before the sags snug back up. He has practically begged to meet me in person. Yeah, it is nice being accepted but a person with a serious sexual fantasy fat fetish is too much for me. ------------------ Everyone is a teacher... Everyone is a student... Learning is eternal. }><}}(*> .☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ IP: Logged
WinkAway Knowflake Posts: 504 From: The great beyond Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 18, 2010 08:04 PM yeah that's creepy IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 1690 From: Still out looking for Schrіdinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 18, 2010 08:08 PM Yeah, and Viagra spam too! ------------------ Everyone is a teacher... Everyone is a student... Learning is eternal. }><}}(*> .☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ IP: Logged
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 2482 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009	posted May 18, 2010 08:08 PM LOL @ Obnoxiously interested. I sometimes feel bad for people like this, but it's often like they are so socially inept, it's like it doesn't register that the person they're coming onto is an actual human being and not just some fantasy toy IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 1690 From: Still out looking for Schrіdinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 18, 2010 08:13 PM MVM... Exactly! I do feel sad for them too. He seemed like an OK fellow otherwise, but I could not get it through his head that I was not interested. And a few others, saw my nearly 4 feet of hair... OMG! The freaky fantasies some guys get about very long hair! WTF is it with wanting to pull it hard? BIG OWWWWW! Like that is supposed to be a big turn on for me? Jerks! ------------------ Everyone is a teacher... Everyone is a student... Learning is eternal. }><}}(*> .☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 1690 From: Still out looking for Schrіdinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 18, 2010 08:17 PM Wonder if any other folks here have ran into things like that? ------------------ Everyone is a teacher... Everyone is a student... Learning is eternal. }><}}(*> .☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ IP: Logged
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3841 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 18, 2010 08:41 PM LOL! I used to get some really weird requests on FB before i discovered the privacy settings. In real life i get male "platonic" friends who masturbate whilst on the phone to me! My voice is apparently very sexual and can bring driftwood to life. Personally, i think i sound like a chipmunk or wish i did cos i find it really quite revolting when friends can't control their joysticks in my presence. IP: Logged
Dervish Knowflake Posts: 574 From: Registered: May 2009	posted May 18, 2010 08:52 PM I get more of it offline. The weirdest one was when I was 19, or possibly 20. I was much more of a tomboy then with short hair dyed black and sometimes with another color (like purple or blue) thrown in. I had a collection of belts I wore, one of them being a studded black belt when wearing jeans or cargo pants (and a wide brown one I wore with a blouse or dress sometimes, too, along with mismatched leggings & arm wraps), and if I wore jeans or cargo pants then I probably wore boots with them. What I didn't know is that there was a subculture present who believed that if you wore a studded belt the way I did then it meant you were either into whipping or being whipped with it. Given the rest of my ensemble it strongly suggested I wanted to do the whipping. Before I found this out (by asking about what happened here) I got creeped out by this guy who was in his 30s, even had a beard, and wanted me to whip him with my belt. I didn't know him at all, he just came up to me and asked me to, and when he'd see me in the future he'd do it again. I was completely confused. Being 20 at most I tended to still think of myself as more or less a kid and this guy could have kids not much younger than me. He was significantly bigger than me, too (in an out of shape way). My taking a belt to him just seemed too weird. I briefly considered doing it hoping he'd leave me alone then but I worried that it would only encourage him instead. That he was so desperate and obsessive over this is what creeped me out. I'm pretty open minded about people's kinks, but he just came on way too strong & intense. While talking about this guy with others I found out that it was the way I dressed that drew him and made him think I'd say yes, and that even saying no was just a form of foreplay (another way to abuse & humiliate). I changed the way I dressed and stopped getting harassed. All I can say is thank the gods the crap said about jelly bracelets was false or I'd have to had given up one of my favorite fashion accessories! IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 1690 From: Still out looking for Schrіdinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 18, 2010 09:11 PM Lara LOL! Me too!LOL! One guy is very p!ssed because I refuse to cyber with him! (and more, yikers!) I am like, dude, we are just friends and your wife would bobbit you if she caught you! LOL! She would! Well, since that, I have had nothing to do with him. He has been sneaking over and knocking on my windows and doors trying to freak me out. There are others. While it is a kind of twisted compliment to get such attention at my age and weight.... it still is rather unnerving. LOL! I think my voice sounds weird! But some guys like weird deepish odd voices. So you have a high girlish but sexy sultry voice? Chipmunk? ------------------ Everyone is a teacher... Everyone is a student... Learning is eternal. }><}}(*> .☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 1690 From: Still out looking for Schrіdinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 18, 2010 09:18 PM Dervish.... Wow! I experienced the same kind of thing before I got disabled. Some guys at the gym I trained with were into some freaky stuff. (I trained with the men because I maxed out the weights and all in the women's section) I guess my clothes looked more Domanatrix than I realized....studded leather belts, pants, and all. And add in my power lifter muscles (I curled 120 lbs. with each forearm, and squatted 600 pounds)...well some got the wrong idea! LOL! ------------------ Everyone is a teacher... Everyone is a student... Learning is eternal. }><}}(*> .☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ IP: Logged
starkiss1 Knowflake Posts: 645 From: Registered: Jul 2009	posted May 18, 2010 09:24 PM LEXX, cool thread IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 1690 From: Still out looking for Schrіdinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 18, 2010 09:28 PM starkiss1 Thank you! ------------------ Everyone is a teacher... Everyone is a student... Learning is eternal. }><}}(*> .☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ IP: Logged
charmainec Moderator Posts: 338 From: on the other side of the rainbow Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 19, 2010 04:06 AM Sites like Myspace and Facebook has all sorts.... thus I only accept people I know.Some are ok at first then later they become crazy. The stat messages on many will have things like "Add me lonely" "looking for a good time hit me up ladies" "Sexy ladies and wanting a real man add me" Others are more graphic with their stats like O_O Those are big give aways lol. ------------------ quote: "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies with in us." -- Ralph Waldo Emerson IP: Logged
koiflower Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 19, 2010 07:24 AM Definitely wierd, definitely desparate! IP: Logged
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3841 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 19, 2010 04:25 PM LOL!! I made these noises when i talk and i giggle a lot and do these mid sentence moans LOL It's all subconscious and part of my vocals but it drives men crazy... do you do that sort of thing too? IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 1690 From: Still out looking for Schrіdinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 19, 2010 05:27 PM LOL! Yeah! Like you said of yourself, it just happens naturally! I have been taken as trying to seduce when that was not my intention. I have also been told my giggles and laughs are cute like a little kid. Do women sometimes hit on you too? ------------------ Everyone is a teacher... Everyone is a student... Learning is eternal. }><}}(*> .☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ IP: Logged
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3841 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 19, 2010 07:29 PM Oh yeah! Women hit on me... they jump me. I once stayed with a husband and wife (he was an old friend) at their house for a weekend... i woke up in the middle of the night to find the wife in my bed!! I couldn't get her out. lol IP: Logged
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3841 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 19, 2010 07:30 PM Do you think we have something in our charts that is similar that causes these reactions to ourselves, LEXX? IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 1690 From: Still out looking for Schrіdinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 19, 2010 08:17 PM OMG! You too! Ohhhh.....not posting my racy experiences here!LOL! Definitely NOT vanilla! We should see who might be willing to compare our charts! There are just too many similarities popping up even though you and I are worlds apart in many ways. Thank you for sharing so many reasons to smile and feel happiness about! I love reading your posts here and elsewhere! ------------------ Everyone is a teacher... Everyone is a student... Learning is eternal. }><}}(*> .☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ IP: Logged
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3841 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 21, 2010 03:45 PM Yes i wonder. We could post a thread on Astrology2 if you like? So many similarities, it's true... thank you, i love reading your posts too Smiling is the best IP: Logged
LEXX Moderator Posts: 1690 From: Still out looking for Schrіdinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 21, 2010 07:05 PM Lara Shall I post at A2 or do you want to? Keep smiling my friend! ------------------ Everyone is a teacher... Everyone is a student... Learning is eternal. }><}}(*> .☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ И.☆ЈЏ`♥ IP: Logged

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