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Topic: women what do you generally worry about?
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peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2206 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 11, 2013 10:18 PM
i am genuinely curious. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 1426 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 11, 2013 10:34 PM
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peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2206 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 11, 2013 10:45 PM
^ur a man and u have mars in aries plus all dat gem in eye ima shure u can find a way to burn dem all!IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2206 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 12, 2013 09:19 AM
Ah finally tnx venus. Mwah!IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 143 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 12, 2013 09:28 AM
I worry about little, mundane things, like what to cook for dinner, whether my other half likes the meal or not...And I worry about makeup/hair not being neat and fresh. =)) IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2206 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 12, 2013 09:42 AM
So its not carbs lol! Tbh i think the same way as kero. Like it is how i imagined i think if i were one. Or like getting old.IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 6247 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2013 09:43 AM
mmm magic abounds, it`s unlocked.------------------ We need to listen to our own song, and share it with others, but not force it on them. Our songs are different. They should be in harmony with each other. ~ Mattie Stepanek IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4151 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 12, 2013 10:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: CARBS
I worry about how what I say is taken a lot, and how it comes off. I don't care necessarily what people think of my opinions or clothes or if I look sloppy or not but I always worry about hurting someone's feelings or coming off opposite of what I intend to.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 26127 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2013 10:19 AM
I opened it. IP: Logged |
ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 1100 From: Maine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2013 11:23 AM
~My daughter's health and well being. ~The ability to keep my job and income where it is so that I can continue to pay my bills and not need assistance of any kind. That's about it.
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 5210 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2013 12:00 PM
My parents. My pets. That I feel I have no future. Having no money. We can barely afford to buy food lately, and my dad needs an operation (hernia), that will put him out of work for a month. I worry about all sorts of things. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 8635 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2013 01:07 PM
my dog getting sick, or me dying before it does. living to such an old age that i am not able to take care of myself, but also don't have anyone else around to care for or about me either. (since i am estranged from my family and don't want kids, or to get married) losing my mind due to old age and eventual toll that a lifetime of stress has taken. becoming an old senile bag lady and dying under a bridge somewhere because i was forgotten about and unable to take care of or support myself in old age. life evenatually becoming more tragic than it already has been and dying alone, or uncared for.wow, that was rather depressing. lol
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Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 1215 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 12, 2013 01:51 PM
Being successful, and good enough.IP: Logged |
Maelstrom Knowflake Posts: 321 From: Small, much fought over European island Registered: Oct 2012
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posted March 12, 2013 03:58 PM
EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!The question is; What dont I worry about?! But I guess the main one would be my family's welfare, money (like everyone) and my career/career future. Oh yeah, and I've worried about my looks/body since I was old enough to care, unfortunately. IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 2046 From: Gaea's Omphalos Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 12, 2013 04:44 PM
Controlling my diseases so they do not control me. The health of my family and myself. My son's education. Budgeting and financial security. How I'll handle another loss (relative and friends been dropping like flies for the last 3 years). Yup, pretty much, keeping my sanity/head above water. Staying strong & positive. *RingsofSaturn*
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Odette Knowflake Posts: 1699 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 12, 2013 05:21 PM
I'm not a worrier... lol I was trying to think of an answer but... yeah... My mum is an insane worrier and worries about absolutely everything. She has a Gemini Moon. It seems to be an air sign thing, mainly Gemini.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6215 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 12, 2013 05:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: I'm not a worrier... lol I was trying to think of an answer but... yeah... My mum is an insane worrier and worries about absolutely everything. She has a Gemini Moon. It seems to be an air sign thing, mainly Gemini.
actually its more of an earth sign thing IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 5210 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2013 06:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
How I'll handle another loss (relative and friends been dropping like flies for the last 3 years).
Can I ask what transits you have going on? It'[s been three/four years for me, too. IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2206 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 12, 2013 07:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by T: my dog getting sick, or me dying before it does. living to such an old age that i am not able to take care of myself, but also don't have anyone else around to care for or about me either. (since i am estranged from my family and don't want kids, or to get married) losing my mind due to old age and eventual toll that a lifetime of stress has taken. becoming an old senile bag lady and dying under a bridge somewhere because i was forgotten about and unable to take care of or support myself in old age. life evenatually becoming more tragic than it already has been and dying alone, or uncared for.wow, that was rather depressing. lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OqN0jsSeqPo IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 2046 From: Gaea's Omphalos Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 12, 2013 07:58 PM
All of the outer planets have just transitioned into new houses recently.Neptune has moved from my 6h Aquarius to Dsc (depending on retro/direct) Uranus is in my 8h Aries Pluto is in my 5h Capricorn (from IC Sagittarius) Saturn (out of Libra 2h) - 3h Scorpio I've only noticed the strain on communicating with my kin from the 3h Saturn (return) transit. Pluto has been more prominent in effect on myself (being 5h sun), though I do believe he's had a role in this trend for all of us (closing of a cycle, restructuring - in conjunction to the role Saturn is playing out within his transit), he was after all just in the house of "family" - Neptune has been harder to decipher. Uranus was extremely beneficial in my 7h but in the 8h it hasn't made any astounding differences yet, I'm waiting until it reaches trine position with its natal degree and my natal Venus/SN axis back in 4h Sadge/10h Gem NN). Jupiter is the major player in the charts of those who have passed on. (but for me Jupiter is beneficial right now within Gemini - my 10h/NN) ~I also checked their charts against the asteroids of the morai/fates and found a pattern between natal and the transit, that may be relevant too. Jupiter is the planet of death... despite what is often passed off to "Saturn" in modern astrology. Saturn is wilting/aging/time - not death. Jupiter gave our kind a limited lifespan. In many cultures,throughout time, Jupiter has been the key to timing a persons final days. (along with stars) I had to stop looking at these charts though... depression and all... I was diagnosed with manic dep, years ago~ but, have done well to notice the signs of slipping into that sort of temperament and learned to work against it before it sets in. Otherwise I'd dwell on things that I cannot change, which to me is a waste of time... which is short (the lesson here lol). So, although I'm keeping a vigilant eye on the obituaries & transits, waiting for number 3 again (death always comes in 3's, as is commonly held by those in nursing and medical fields, superstitious or not - and this is another cycle here, 3 will occur by summer, I think.) I'm not actively looking into death transits anymore for the time being. 6h transit did bring health awareness and discoveries for me (6h Aquarius w/ Neptune did lead to a plentiful of lasting illnesses - not just my own but those around me really - but that should also be reflected in their own charts, right), I'm not clear on that being the norm or not... :/ TL;DR - I think it has to do with Pluto, Saturn, Jupiter, and Neptune - 4h, 6h -- in relation with personal planets, (possibly) asteroids and stars overall. I need to look over progressed charts for those I've recently loss, but I haven't the mind or heart yet. Eventually... IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 1828 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 12, 2013 11:18 PM
I don't think I worry that much.Of course that depends on how you define "worry." I PREPARE (and have contingency plans in place) for all kinds of things "just in case," and I try to remain vigilant, but just because I keep fire extinguishers up to date and keep a close eye on anything that can start a fire doesn't mean I worry about fires, at least not how I define "worry." IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 8635 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 13, 2013 02:26 PM
Peregrine, I love her! How did you know? And are you surprised at what women tend to worry about? Seems a lot about the health and well being of loved ones in general... IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 2206 From: sand castle Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 13, 2013 07:45 PM
I didn't. she has a beautiful voice.Yeah i thought it wud be more marriage... Bridget jones finding her colin firth lulz but then not really the default enneagram number for many women is 2 which is the giver. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 4051 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 13, 2013 08:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I worry about how what I say is taken a lot, and how it comes off. I don't care necessarily what people think of my opinions or clothes or if I look sloppy or not but I always worry about hurting someone's feelings or coming off opposite of what I intend to.
Yes, I worry about being misunderstood as well. It sucks very bad if I have good intentions but get some kind of backlash for what I said, just because of how it was worded. I'm Jupiter dominant and mostly optimistic. But I do worry about everything under the sun at one time or another, especially my family's health, and political instability or economic changes that might undermine our security. Usually I am fine by day, but if I wake up at 2 a.m., sometimes my usual concerns seem very heavy, and it's difficult to get my mind off worst-case scenarios. IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3271 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 13, 2013 08:52 PM
success. IP: Logged |