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peregrine
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posted March 11, 2013 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i am genuinely curious.

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Kerosene
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posted March 11, 2013 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
CARBS

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peregrine
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posted March 11, 2013 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ur a man and u have mars in aries plus all dat gem in eye ima shure u can find a way to burn dem all!

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peregrine
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posted March 12, 2013 09:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah finally tnx venus. Mwah!

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12muddy
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posted March 12, 2013 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I worry about little, mundane things, like what to cook for dinner, whether my other half likes the meal or not...

And I worry about makeup/hair not being neat and fresh.

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peregrine
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posted March 12, 2013 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So its not carbs lol! Tbh i think the same way as kero. Like it is how i imagined i think if i were one. Or like getting old.

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posted March 12, 2013 09:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
mmm magic abounds, it`s unlocked.

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posted March 12, 2013 10:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
CARBS

I worry about how what I say is taken a lot, and how it comes off. I don't care necessarily what people think of my opinions or clothes or if I look sloppy or not but I always worry about hurting someone's feelings or coming off opposite of what I intend to.

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Randall
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posted March 12, 2013 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I opened it.

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ghanima81
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posted March 12, 2013 11:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
~My daughter's health and well being.
~The ability to keep my job and income where it is so that I can continue to pay my bills and not need assistance of any kind.

That's about it.

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teasel
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posted March 12, 2013 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My parents.
My pets.
That I feel I have no future.
Having no money. We can barely afford to buy food lately, and my dad needs an operation (hernia), that will put him out of work for a month.

I worry about all sorts of things.

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T
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posted March 12, 2013 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my dog getting sick, or me dying before it does.
living to such an old age that i am not able to take care of myself, but also don't have anyone else around to care for or about me either. (since i am estranged from my family and don't want kids, or to get married) losing my mind due to old age and eventual toll that a lifetime of stress has taken.
becoming an old senile bag lady and dying under a bridge somewhere because i was forgotten about and unable to take care of or support myself in old age.
life evenatually becoming more tragic than it already has been and dying alone, or uncared for.

wow, that was rather depressing. lol

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Lazyscarecrow
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posted March 12, 2013 01:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Being successful, and good enough.

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Maelstrom
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posted March 12, 2013 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Maelstrom     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!

The question is; What dont I worry about?!

But I guess the main one would be my family's welfare, money (like everyone) and my career/career future.

Oh yeah, and I've worried about my looks/body since I was old enough to care, unfortunately.

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SaturnineMoth
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posted March 12, 2013 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Controlling my diseases so they do not control me.

The health of my family and myself.

My son's education.

Budgeting and financial security.

How I'll handle another loss (relative and friends been dropping like flies for the last 3 years).

Yup, pretty much, keeping my sanity/head above water. Staying strong & positive.

*RingsofSaturn*

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Odette
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posted March 12, 2013 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not a worrier... lol
I was trying to think of an answer but... yeah...

My mum is an insane worrier and worries about absolutely everything. She has a Gemini Moon. It seems to be an air sign thing, mainly Gemini.

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posted March 12, 2013 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
I'm not a worrier... lol
I was trying to think of an answer but... yeah...

My mum is an insane worrier and worries about absolutely everything. She has a Gemini Moon. It seems to be an air sign thing, mainly Gemini.


actually its more of an earth sign thing

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posted March 12, 2013 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:

How I'll handle another loss (relative and friends been dropping like flies for the last 3 years).


Can I ask what transits you have going on? It'[s been three/four years for me, too.

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posted March 12, 2013 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by T:
my dog getting sick, or me dying before it does.
living to such an old age that i am not able to take care of myself, but also don't have anyone else around to care for or about me either. (since i am estranged from my family and don't want kids, or to get married) losing my mind due to old age and eventual toll that a lifetime of stress has taken.
becoming an old senile bag lady and dying under a bridge somewhere because i was forgotten about and unable to take care of or support myself in old age.
life evenatually becoming more tragic than it already has been and dying alone, or uncared for.

wow, that was rather depressing. lol



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OqN0jsSeqPo

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posted March 12, 2013 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All of the outer planets have just transitioned into new houses recently.

Neptune has moved from my 6h Aquarius to Dsc (depending on retro/direct)

Uranus is in my 8h Aries

Pluto is in my 5h Capricorn (from IC Sagittarius)

Saturn (out of Libra 2h) - 3h Scorpio

I've only noticed the strain on communicating with my kin from the 3h Saturn (return) transit. Pluto has been more prominent in effect on myself (being 5h sun), though I do believe he's had a role in this trend for all of us (closing of a cycle, restructuring - in conjunction to the role Saturn is playing out within his transit), he was after all just in the house of "family" - Neptune has been harder to decipher. Uranus was extremely beneficial in my 7h but in the 8h it hasn't made any astounding differences yet, I'm waiting until it reaches trine position with its natal degree and my natal Venus/SN axis back in 4h Sadge/10h Gem NN).

Jupiter is the major player in the charts of those who have passed on. (but for me Jupiter is beneficial right now within Gemini - my 10h/NN)

~I also checked their charts against the asteroids of the morai/fates and found a pattern between natal and the transit, that may be relevant too.

Jupiter is the planet of death... despite what is often passed off to "Saturn" in modern astrology. Saturn is wilting/aging/time - not death. Jupiter gave our kind a limited lifespan. In many cultures,throughout time, Jupiter has been the key to timing a persons final days. (along with stars)

I had to stop looking at these charts though... depression and all... I was diagnosed with manic dep, years ago~ but, have done well to notice the signs of slipping into that sort of temperament and learned to work against it before it sets in. Otherwise I'd dwell on things that I cannot change, which to me is a waste of time... which is short (the lesson here lol). So, although I'm keeping a vigilant eye on the obituaries & transits, waiting for number 3 again (death always comes in 3's, as is commonly held by those in nursing and medical fields, superstitious or not - and this is another cycle here, 3 will occur by summer, I think.) I'm not actively looking into death transits anymore for the time being. 6h transit did bring health awareness and discoveries for me (6h Aquarius w/ Neptune did lead to a plentiful of lasting illnesses - not just my own but those around me really - but that should also be reflected in their own charts, right), I'm not clear on that being the norm or not... :/

TL;DR - I think it has to do with Pluto, Saturn, Jupiter, and Neptune - 4h, 6h -- in relation with personal planets, (possibly) asteroids and stars overall.

I need to look over progressed charts for those I've recently loss, but I haven't the mind or heart yet. Eventually...

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posted March 12, 2013 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think I worry that much.

Of course that depends on how you define "worry." I PREPARE (and have contingency plans in place) for all kinds of things "just in case," and I try to remain vigilant, but just because I keep fire extinguishers up to date and keep a close eye on anything that can start a fire doesn't mean I worry about fires, at least not how I define "worry."

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T
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posted March 13, 2013 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Peregrine, I love her! How did you know?

And are you surprised at what women tend to worry about? Seems a lot about the health and well being of loved ones in general...

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peregrine
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posted March 13, 2013 07:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't. she has a beautiful voice.

Yeah i thought it wud be more marriage... Bridget jones finding her colin firth lulz but then not really the default enneagram number for many women is 2 which is the giver.

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Faith
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posted March 13, 2013 08:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I worry about how what I say is taken a lot, and how it comes off. I don't care necessarily what people think of my opinions or clothes or if I look sloppy or not but I always worry about hurting someone's feelings or coming off opposite of what I intend to.

Yes, I worry about being misunderstood as well. It sucks very bad if I have good intentions but get some kind of backlash for what I said, just because of how it was worded.

I'm Jupiter dominant and mostly optimistic.

But I do worry about everything under the sun at one time or another, especially my family's health, and political instability or economic changes that might undermine our security.

Usually I am fine by day, but if I wake up at 2 a.m., sometimes my usual concerns seem very heavy, and it's difficult to get my mind off worst-case scenarios.

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posted March 13, 2013 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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