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Topic: Love is really in the AIR????
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shruty
Knowflake Posts: 9
From: Goa,INDIA
Registered: May 2006
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posted May 17, 2006 12:32 AM
 
Hey Buddy!!!I just wanna know that can a man be a single woman human or not??? 'Coz i've never come across such man in my life??? Wat Do Ya Feel Abt It??? Being a MAN urself???
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lots of love & good wishes - Shruty IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 3690
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted May 18, 2006 09:24 AM
You said what now?I honestly didn't understand what you were saying....
But HI! IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 3690
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted May 18, 2006 09:26 AM
OH! Do you mean, can a man be with only one woman?Some men can, I suppose. Some can't.
I don't know that it is natural behaviour, to be with only one person forever..... but then there is the existance of jealousy... a primal emotion designed not for ease of being with a few at the same time, as it hurts. IP: Logged |
paras
Knowflake Posts: 1597
From: the Heart of It All
Registered: May 2004
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posted May 18, 2006 11:57 AM
You struggle with understanding this, Pix? The answer is simple! It's a conflict between the desires of the body and the desires of the Spirit. The body is designed to want to perpetuate the species; of course it's natural to be promiscuous! The animal body is a part of Nature. But, as Linda taught us, the human Spirit is not. And this causes us distress, because (as pointed out in the Bible), "no (wo)man can serve two masters".IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 5138
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted May 18, 2006 12:30 PM
"No (wo)man can serve two masters"Hmmmm.......interesting.... All women and men are different....so wouldnt really agree with that ol holy book..... I am sure there are men out there that can stick with one woman and vica versa, but it dont mean they are happy doing so..... I know of couples who've been together for years, and cant stand the sight of each other..... Wheres the sense in that.....life is to enjoy isnt it.... To thine own self be true...and all that xxx IP: Logged |
shruty
Knowflake Posts: 9
From: Goa,INDIA
Registered: May 2006
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posted May 19, 2006 12:55 AM
Hey I truely agree one thing!!!That man is not meant to be monogamous!! And thats the time where females tend to question themself,why my man is interested in any other female than me!!Its actually not the fault of a man its in their nature i feel!!! For them there love will always remin the same for their sweet heart but still they don't deny flirting beautiful gals around them!! WHO AGREES WITH ME??? ------------------
lots of love & good wishes - Shruty IP: Logged |
paras
Knowflake Posts: 1597
From: the Heart of It All
Registered: May 2004
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posted May 19, 2006 03:00 AM
Okay, I was speaking to Pixelpixie... but if others want to take up on my little side note, that's fine.  That's kinda the point of a public discussion forum, eh?Sue G, thanks for playing, but you missed my point entirely. Try reading it again... maybe slower this time.  (Got some heavy Gemini in the chart, Sue? Aries, maybe?) Pixelpixie, I can't wait to hear back from you.  IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 3690
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted May 19, 2006 09:06 AM
Hi!
Well.. i don't struggle to understand the concept, I struggled to interpret how it was worded.. it didn't make sense to me. but then I went 'Ahhhhhh! I see!' and there you have it.Most of us don't live spiritually sall of the time.. we aren't supposed to, enlightened ( even 'normal' people have their moments of enlightenment)beings can try to live with their spiritual ideal in plain sight at all times.. but often, one will respond to something on an elemental/physical level.
You know, you look at someone and go.. "mmmmmmmm, I want me some of that"
Then there are those times when you meet someone who seems to embody everything you (didn't know you) need. It is not a physical thing, it is a spiritual attraction... or on more levels.
A lot will sacrifice their current relationship for that ideal. Nothing is as good as your projection capabilities. Fantasy and reality sometimes meet.
Flirting is not the same as cheating. I am a flirtaholic... it's a part of my nature, no matter who I am in love with. It's like dancing into hearts and smiling. The answer might seem simple.. but simple answers and living with the complex stage of life, and your decisions is far beyond concepts. IP: Logged |
paras
Knowflake Posts: 1597
From: the Heart of It All
Registered: May 2004
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posted May 19, 2006 03:22 PM
"Our life is frittered away by detail. Simplify! Simplify!"
--Ralph Waldo EmersonIP: Logged |
teaselbaby
Knowflake Posts: 765
From: Northeast Ohio
Registered: Sep 2002
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posted May 19, 2006 06:23 PM
shruty, there was a discussion about this in Soul Unions last year.. here you go: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001917.html IP: Logged |
shruty
Knowflake Posts: 9
From: Goa,INDIA
Registered: May 2006
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posted May 20, 2006 01:21 AM
Hey Teaselbaby!! Thanks alot for ur recommendation abt the debate last yr!! It is really gr8 infact i see all the pros & cons of this so called _MONOGAMY!!Thanks ------------------
lots of love & good wishes - Shruty IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 5138
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted May 20, 2006 10:19 AM
No sorry Paras mate still dont get ya....and yes I have Aries risng....hehe....clever old you...And why always the BLUE hearts....are you sad or looking on the negative side of life by any chance... Ok I am waiitng to be enlightened...so please put me out of my misery... Oh yeah and how long have you been married and how many times, if you dont mind me asking...just curious...thats all !! IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 3690
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted May 21, 2006 01:10 AM
Paras, you're a Libra and you want ME to simplify?Okay..... you first.  You can take a concept such as love and simplify it in terms, great! BUT
Once you start delving into the action/thought processes behind the concept- the interaction of two or more involved, the past, the future, projections, expectation, reaction, innermost feelings, desire, the way we wish things to be, the changeable nature of day to day, mopment to moment, the differences, the similarities, the living action involved....
I dare you to simplify....
I feel, when it comes to love, yes, it might be simple to love.. but love as a verb is beyond simplification.
It is just too multi layered. IP: Logged |
Kim Rogers
Knowflake Posts: 29
From: Watertown MN USA
Registered: Apr 2006
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posted May 21, 2006 11:30 PM
I have to agree w/ Pixelpixie. Some can, & some can't. I am a very monogamous. I can't have the true physical pleasure w/o the commitment. I am a woman. My son, who is a hopeless romantic like me, is the same way. He likes to look, but can't imagine himself with another woman. I do think that it's very personal, and it also may have a social componant too. How many cultures, past & present, believe in multiple wives? Men, physiologically are hard wired differently than women. I do see a change in the times though, where women are just as open to multiple partners as men are. Of course that may be an astrological change too. I'm sorry; my memory is not very good, but I was just reading about the astroid belt. The 4 first discovered were named after goddesses. I think it was Daydreamer- but not sure. To sum it up ----- To each his/her own. The main thing is not to break hearts with our choices.IP: Logged |
shruty
Knowflake Posts: 9
From: Goa,INDIA
Registered: May 2006
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posted May 22, 2006 12:47 AM
Hey Kim!!!Thats the case maximum time, females r monogamous (Not Always) but the ratio is quite low in men!! I'm also a working well -settled female, having many handsome guys around me!! Infact can say being a Saggi!! I tend to attract attention too! But i beleive i'll commit only one man in my life, whom i will love!! But incase of MEN,things are little different i beleive!!
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lots of love & good wishes - Shruty
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