posted May 25, 2013 02:40 AM            

Before I get on with what I want to ask, which is quite straight forward, I would like for only Capricorns to answer it, because I find that information coming from others, never really make sense to me or it's just too mixed up.

Okay, now, my main question is, what are the signs, or anything a Cappy gives off when he likes you?

I met one about five months ago. He was around earlier, but I didn't really notice him, since I was interested in someone else at the time. When I approached him, I had shown him something on my BlackBerry, & when I wanted to walk away, he asked me why I'm not inviting him on bbm, if I have one. So I told him no, he can invite me. So he did. After a while he was quiet, he didn't initiate first, I did, but after that, he had contacted me very often & we talked for about three days endlessly.

Then he was quite reserved, but now that we know each other longer, he has opened up to me about his personal life. I've gathered that he didn't have it easy growing up, hence contributing to his maturity. (which I love by the way).

I had asked him what his first impression was when he first laid his eyes on me, so he told me what he thought ("Wow, this girl is beautiful"). He told me that I was unapproachable and domineering, which is why sometimes he will seem drawn back or shy around me, but he will playfully bump his shoulder against me. He always makes jokes with me and acts all silly. He always makes me laugh. He's even given me a cute pet name now too, which I think is a good thing? Since he is a Cappy, I've approached him about maybe going for a coffee or something, since movies don't really allow you to converse or bond.. He said he's down with it, but he never really talks about dates, but it might be because he's unsure? Don't really know why.

I'm always telling him that he acts distant and cold, but really he's not, because I'm able to see right through him. He told me that usually he's cold with other people he never sees or whatever, but we don't even see each other that often? Lol. Anyway, I thanked him for opening up to me & being warmer towards me. I've even told him I love who he his, I love how he is different, he must never change, and also I respect him for how strong a person he is.

Where we used to talk for three days, has now expanded to four or five. He keeps texting me, it's like we don't get bored of each other. The only problem is, I have a lot of guy friends. I have him on Facebook and I have noticed that if I give my friends any form of attention, he would draw back a bit. Is it best to leave Facebook matters private with my guy friends? Could he be a bit jealous? Are Cappy men normally jealous when it comes to someone they like?

The other day I have asked him if he is scared to fall in love, so he told me he just doesn't draw out his feelings to that extent. In other words, yes, obviously he is scared of getting hurt, but what I cannot seem to fathom is, he's scared of falling in love, but he shows me differently in very subtle ways.

I would love to know what you guys think.

My Birth Chart:

Sun - Scorpio
Moon - Sagittarius
Merc - Sagittarius
Venus - Virgo
Mars - Scorpio
Jupiter - Virgo
Saturn - Aquarius
Uranus - Capricorn
Nept - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio
Lilith - Capricorn
Asc node - Capricorn

His Birth Chart:

Sun - Capricorn 
Moon - Aquarius
Mercury - Sagittarius  
Venus - Sagittarius
Mars - Sagittarius
Jupiter - Virgo
Saturn - Aquarius
Uranus - Capricorn
Neptune - Capricorn 
Pluto - Scorpio
Lilith - Capricorn
Asc node - Capricorn

posted May 25, 2013 03:43 PM            

His Venus sign for how he acts to try to get attention from someone he likes. This also shows the physical type of woman he prefers.

His moon sign for the personality of the type of girl he likes.

Here's a description I found for Mars in Sag

Mars in SAGITTARIUS acts...

* to-the-point...doesn't want to waste time on games or rituals
* blunt...shares opinions, whether you want to hear them or not
* adventurous...seeks to explore many new experiences with you
* freedom-loving...wants to avoid restrictions; gives you space
* philosophical or humourous...plays philosopher or clown; laughs
* companionable...wants to pal around with you; be friends first.

Since he has Venus and Mars in Sag, he would display Sag traits towards you if he likes you in that way.

posted May 25, 2013 04:28 PM            

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posted May 25, 2013 04:45 PM            

Ahhh, thank you Ami, you actually just made me realise something.

When him & his friends go out, he calls girls with short dresses or skirts "prosties", as in prostitutes.

This has made me realise how high his standards are. He is also extremely old fashioned. I've literally been on every thread, and each Cappy description is him to a tee.

I have asked one of our mutual friends whether he is the ideal guy to go for and he agreed that he is. So vocal or not, he's not a player.

I'm vocal, & I'm definitely not a player. I just think it's a common misconception people have.

It's nice to know that there are men out there whose standards are up to yours.

posted May 28, 2013 09:40 AM            

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