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93nov
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posted February 02, 2023 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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mee_chryssa
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posted February 02, 2023 11:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could you please post the chart?

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posted February 02, 2023 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree about posting the chart.

That said, Moon square Uranus and Neptune describes someone who needs independence and also may not see their emotional selves/needs clearly. Stability was likely not a thing for you growing up, and you have learned a coping mechanism now of distancing yourself from certain things or people.

This does not imply permanent loneliness, or permanent aloneness. As Saturn has just finished it's return recently, I would have guess that you had some lessons regarding relationships and relating?

It sounds like you had some very tough transits. Can you look back and see anything you have gained from them? What wisdom or perspective do you now have?

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posted February 03, 2023 02:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sparklylonely     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus/saturn conjunct and have always heard that can show loneliness. Gotta say been pretty true for me.

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posted February 03, 2023 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Franco     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hears! cheer up! Forget your natal chart and instead enjoy the benefits of being single while it lasts, seriously, maybe it's average advice that people would give you, but the truth is that you should take advantage of this moment for yourself and I'll tell you why:

- The age of 30 is not a cause for concern, you are still someone very young and with many things to experience

- I would add that 30 years is a very good age to experience life, especially if you have plenty of time, believe me...

- Love does not warn, it can arrive at any time and there is always someone for us, I see it constantly in life.

- I am 33 years old and I am single and I enjoy freedom so much because I am convinced that when that person arrives (if he has to arrive), I will not have much time for all my passions.

- I repeat, forget the birth chart, there are thousands of birth charts with their aspects and not all of them are single.

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posted February 05, 2023 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousCat333     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
30!

When I turned 30 I felt old! Bow looking back that was my prime! Enjoy it , it’s very young!!! You are still young adult until 40!

Life is very beautiful! There’s so much to do, so many places to see, goals to achieve and souls to meet!!!!!

Just enjoy! Chill and everything will fall into place

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posted February 05, 2023 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousCat333     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As for aspects, I have all of the lonely aspects.. Venus sq Saturn and moon sq Saturn too I believe Saturn 🪐

Also my skeptical Virgo ascendant does not recognize love when it’s handed to me in a beautiful golden platter lol 😂

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posted February 05, 2023 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousCat333     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think my aspects means I’m very independent.. with mars conj asc and my above 👆🏻 aspects indicated a bit commitment phobic.. also tendency to do things alone

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posted February 05, 2023 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousCat333     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 05, 2023 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 05, 2023 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Could you please post the chart?

[imghttp://imgur.io/a/bXHHfrZ[/img]


I tried to post with spaces in between the brackets, but it's still giving me a link.

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posted February 05, 2023 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 05, 2023 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 05, 2023 09:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 05, 2023 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MissBo24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus conjunct saturn in natal and its pretty lonely because I choose to be. I don't like talking to multiple men or going out with them if I don't see a future with them. I don't like anything superficial. I'd rather enjoy my own company until I meet one person I'd really like to get to know.

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posted February 05, 2023 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 08, 2023 08:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 21, 2023 07:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 04, 2023 10:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One thing i noticed about natal is most of my planets are in Scorpio and in my 6H. I tend to be attracted to people with a scattered chart because they offer expansion to the other houses. My Sun and Moon are also poorly aspected only receiving aspects from generational planets.

Are there other people with charts similar to mine who live full lives? I want more but I'm not sure how to access it.

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posted July 04, 2023 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted July 06, 2023 02:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 17, 2023 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 17, 2023 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by StoneMoon:
I agree about posting the chart.

That said, Moon square Uranus and Neptune describes someone who needs independence and also may not see their emotional selves/needs clearly. Stability was likely not a thing for you growing up, and you have learned a coping mechanism now of distancing yourself from certain things or people.

This does not imply permanent loneliness, or permanent aloneness. As Saturn has just finished it's return recently, I would have guess that you had some lessons regarding relationships and relating?

It sounds like you had some very tough transits. Can you look back and see anything you have gained from them? What wisdom or perspective do you now have?


Thank you for your reply, StoneMoon,

My perspective on love and relationships in general is pretty bleak and has been for a few years now. I ended a heavy 3 year relationship back in 2019 and I still haven't recovered completely.

Issues with parents.. still no progress or closure there either. I have just decided to move on with my life.. which HAS brought me some type of peace so im thankful for that..

Things just feel so empty..

referencing my natal, I can see why. Packed 6H with Sun and Moon basically unaspected.. aside from a very weak semi-sextile and some aspects from the generational, outter planets. I envy those with strong Sun/Moons. Jupiter is on my moon, but barely..

That Uranus/Neptune square definitely makes things confusing considering i already live in my head.. now let's add some bizarre, confusing thoughts on top (: yay lol.

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posted July 21, 2023 10:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey,

I use whole sign system, so I will give u my input using this.

Considering that Sun/Mercury/Venus and Jupiter go into the 7th house, it shows that many aspects of your life depend on the relationship you have with your partner, sometimes shows that there will be more than one marriage for the person or long term relationship. The thing is that Mercury is an air sign planet, which makes relationship flighty - or better said very free in nature - and being the ruler of the 5th house, it gives some form of casuallity for long term relationships, for Venus to be there in Scorpio, also the ruler of the 1st house, and having this sign axis on the ASC/DC - Taurus - Scorpio - implies some form of control or lack of control in relationships.

You need to take it step by step and take the relationships that you will have a step further with every lesson that is shown to you. But don't stop relationships to come into your life as your chart is mostly about relationships. Just take some more time to know a person and move further only if you feel that someone is protecting you and has only good intentions with you. If not, learn from it and move on. I know is easier said than to do it.

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posted July 22, 2023 04:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Hey,

I use whole sign system, so I will give u my input using this.

Considering that Sun/Mercury/Venus and Jupiter go into the 7th house, it shows that many aspects of your life depend on the relationship you have with your partner, sometimes shows that there will be more than one marriage for the person or long term relationship. The thing is that Mercury is an air sign planet, which makes relationship flighty - or better said very free in nature - and being the ruler of the 5th house, it gives some form of casuallity for long term relationships, for Venus to be there in Scorpio, also the ruler of the 1st house, and having this sign axis on the ASC/DC - Taurus - Scorpio - implies some form of control or lack of control in relationships.

You need to take it step by step and take the relationships that you will have a step further with every lesson that is shown to you. But don't stop relationships to come into your life as your chart is mostly about relationships. Just take some more time to know a person and move further only if you feel that someone is protecting you and has only good intentions with you. If not, learn from it and move on. I know is easier said than to do it.


Sheesh. Thank you for your reply.

This was spot on. The past 7-8 years forced me to end a lot of important relationships.. some by choice, others by painful decision-making lol… I guess that wasn’t the way to go and I’m paying for it now. Full circle.


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