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Topic: Experiences with Venus Square Ascendant in synastry
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GirlMelanie Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Brooklyn Registered: Mar 2021
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posted January 14, 2023 11:49 PM
Any experiences with venus square ascendant? Does this mean the venus person is irritated with the ascendant person or doesn't think they're attractive? State whether you're the venus or ascendant person🙂🙂🙂IP: Logged |
sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 1268 From: Oz Registered: May 2011
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posted January 15, 2023 03:44 AM
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PlutoWasHere Knowflake Posts: 808 From: The Nether World Registered: Mar 2021
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posted January 15, 2023 03:54 AM
I have a Libra Rising with Taurus Venus. My Venus squared the Leo Rising of my ex, and his Aries Venus was conjunct my descendant (opposite my ascendant). There was mutual attraction. I think any type of Venus connection indicates attraction, hard aspects give more friction than soft aspects, this can be a bit uncomfortable sometimes but doesn’t mean there is no attraction.It’s best when both people have their ascendant aspected by the Venus of the other. Also check the 7th house ruler, as this is the more personal relationship planet. IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Brooklyn Registered: Mar 2021
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posted January 15, 2023 07:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoWasHere: I have a Libra Rising with Taurus Venus. My Venus squared the Leo Rising of my ex, and his Aries Venus was conjunct my descendant (opposite my ascendant). There was mutual attraction. I think any type of Venus connection indicates attraction, hard aspects give more friction than soft aspects, this can be a bit uncomfortable sometimes but doesn’t mean there is no attraction.It’s best when both people have their ascendant aspected by the Venus of the other. Also check the 7th house ruler, as this is the more personal relationship planet.
I'm a libra ascendant as well with venus in pisces! He's a virgo ascendant with a cancer venus. My ascendant also squares his sun, Mars and mercury😭😭😭 I always catch him looking, maybe he hates me lol http://ibb.co/YLmjynx IP: Logged |
anevolena Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Registered: Mar 2022
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posted January 15, 2023 02:59 PM
I can only think of one person who’s ascendant squared my Venus, but his ascendant conjuncted my moon too.Based on that one person, I disagree with your conclusion. I was actually very in love with this person. I was not turned off by his looks at all. Someone’s Venus is square my ascendant by 4 degrees, and I don’t think he’s turned off my by looks either. On the contrary— his Venus conjuncts my IC. Venus squaring the ascendant means that is is conjunct the 4th or 10th house cusp— and that’s significant on its own. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 168146 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 25, 2023 06:13 PM
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shoshannazeze Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Los Angeles, CA, USA Registered: Apr 2022
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posted January 25, 2023 07:32 PM
Venus Sq Asc (w a degree tighter than 5) is imo a really intense aspect to have. I'm the asc person and I know two men who've had their Venus square to me. Their attraction has been extremely intense in a very interesting sense of tension and playful banter that tends to poorly mask a simmering and overwhelming desire lol. I'll also add, both of these men in synastry have their Mars and Venus in my fourth house. It's sweet but overwhelming. The square is genuine in them wanting you but it just has this weird glue to it. It does take slower to readily admit maybe, but you'll see it seep to the surface. And, they're the first to admit it my way, they make me feel so beautiful. But my chart is very square heavy and saturnal so I'm sure not everyone would agree with me with this aspect feeling good lmao. IP: Logged |
problematique Knowflake Posts: 127 From: Registered: Jan 2021
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posted January 26, 2023 10:10 AM
i was the ascendant. the attraction was instant from both sides. we had the square at 0° and i’m still attracted to him one year later.IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Brooklyn Registered: Mar 2021
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posted January 28, 2023 11:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by shoshannazeze: Venus Sq Asc (w a degree tighter than 5) is imo a really intense aspect to have. I'm the asc person and I know two men who've had their Venus square to me. Their attraction has been extremely intense in a very interesting sense of tension and playful banter that tends to poorly mask a simmering and overwhelming desire lol. I'll also add, both of these men in synastry have their Mars and Venus in my fourth house. It's sweet but overwhelming. The square is genuine in them wanting you but it just has this weird glue to it. It does take slower to readily admit maybe, but you'll see it seep to the surface. And, they're the first to admit it my way, they make me feel so beautiful. But my chart is very square heavy and saturnal so I'm sure not everyone would agree with me with this aspect feeling good lmao.
Could it also be too intense to the point where he may be uncomfortable? Idk if it's his cancer stellium but he seems like he might be uncomfortable around me. Besides the constant glances, he always makes sure to greet me first but otherwise.. he's more outgoing with others. I'm a bit uncomfortable around him, he makes me feel shy & nervous lol
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PlutoWasHere Knowflake Posts: 808 From: The Nether World Registered: Mar 2021
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posted January 29, 2023 05:02 AM
To me, it wasn’t about intensity but there was some friction, it wasn’t easy flowing. He’s a Leo Rising and I (Taurus Venus) found him endearing but also a bit loud. I could always hear him coming up stairs, stomping his feet and having a roaring laugh. Sometimes, I felt a bit embarrassed by him. And he liked that. There’s a strong affection but the square makes it both urgent and a bit annoying. I like the description that cafe astrology has of this aspect. https://cafeastrology.com/synastry/venus_ascendant_aspects.html I think it could work out similarly for Libra Rising and Cancer Venus. A Libra Rising is social and can be very charming, but it’s also more intellectual. Cancer Venus might get jealous or feels that they’re not getting the emotional affection that they crave. Maybe that’s where the staring comes from, the introverted Cancer Venus is trying to get your attention. IP: Logged |
shoshannazeze Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Los Angeles, CA, USA Registered: Apr 2022
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posted January 29, 2023 05:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by GirlMelanie: Could it also be too intense to the point where he may be uncomfortable? Idk if it's his cancer stellium but he seems like he might be uncomfortable around me. Besides the constant glances, he always makes sure to greet me first but otherwise.. he's more outgoing with others. I'm a bit uncomfortable around him, he makes me feel shy & nervous lol
Oh it's exactly like that to a T! I know where you're coming from lol, it's this really annoying shy sort of energy where they tend to pussyfoot around. And the staring!! It's like a soup pot left on simmer, it's very intense to the point of it being honestly awkward. Both of these men make me feel fidgety and on edge for that reason. Maybe that's us as the ascendant person, since they're the venus. One is a Libra rising (!) And another is a sag rising (!). Both are cancer suns loll IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Brooklyn Registered: Mar 2021
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posted January 29, 2023 08:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoWasHere: To me, it wasn’t about intensity but there was some friction, it wasn’t easy flowing. He’s a Leo Rising and I (Taurus Venus) found him endearing but also a bit loud. I could always hear him coming up stairs, stomping his feet and having a roaring laugh. Sometimes, I felt a bit embarrassed by him. And he liked that. There’s a strong affection but the square makes it both urgent and a bit annoying. I like the description that cafe astrology has of this aspect. https://cafeastrology.com/synastry/venus_ascendant_aspects.html I think it could work out similarly for Libra Rising and Cancer Venus. A Libra Rising is social and can be very charming, but it’s also more intellectual. Cancer Venus might get jealous or feels that there not getting the emotional affection that they crave. Maybe that’s where the staring comes from, the introverted Cancer Venus is trying to get your attention.
🤣🤣🤣🤣that's actually hilarious. This dynamic sounds pretty accurate I'm not gonna lie. There's times where he's sweet to me and helpful, other days he looks annoyed. I too have a loud obnoxious laugh lol you guys are goood. IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Brooklyn Registered: Mar 2021
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posted January 29, 2023 08:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by shoshannazeze: Oh it's exactly like that to a T! I know where you're coming from lol, it's this really annoying shy sort of energy where they tend to pussyfoot around. And the staring!! It's like a soup pot left on simmer, it's very intense to the point of it being honestly awkward. Both of these men make me feel fidgety and on edge for that reason. Maybe that's us as the ascendant person, since they're the venus. One is a Libra rising (!) And another is a sag rising (!). Both are cancer suns loll
This! It's tooo slow for my aries moon's liking. How long in your experience did it take for them to actually initiate.. anything? IP: Logged |
shoshannazeze Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Los Angeles, CA, USA Registered: Apr 2022
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posted January 29, 2023 03:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by GirlMelanie: This! It's tooo slow for my aries moon's liking. How long in your experience did it take for them to actually initiate.. anything?
The one with Libra rising has an Aries moon so he was actually very forthright LOL. He awkwardly told me he thought I was cute and then stuck to me like glue. What other aspects do you have with this guy? IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Brooklyn Registered: Mar 2021
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posted January 29, 2023 07:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by shoshannazeze: The one with Libra rising has an Aries moon so he was actually very forthright LOL. He awkwardly told me he thought I was cute and then stuck to me like glue. What other aspects do you have with this guy?
Ha! Those are my placements as well but I'm not that brave unless I know for a fact that it's reciprocated! I posted our chart up there but I just list the major aspects. I'm the first planet, he's the second. Uranus Trine Jupiter orb: 0 ° Sun Conjunction Neptune orb: 0 ° Moon Sextile Uranus orb: 0 ° Neptune Opposition North Node orb: 0 ° Venus Trine Sun orb: 1 ° Venus Trine Mars orb: 1 ° Uranus Trine Ascendant orb: 1 ° Mercury Opposition Venus orb: 1 ° Moon Square Venus orb: 1 ° Ascendant Square Mercury orb: 1 ° North Node Trine Uranus orb: 1 ° MC Conjunction Mercury orb: 1 ° Venus Square Chiron orb: 1 ° Chiron Square Mercury orb: 1 ° Mars Sextile Chiron orb: 1 ° Venus Trine Mercury orb: 2 ° Saturn Trine Venus orb: 2 ° Pluto Opposition Jupiter orb: 2 ° Ascendant Square Sun orb: 2 ° Ascendant Square Mars orb: 2 ° North Node Square Venus orb: 2 ° Chiron Square Sun orb: 2 ° Chiron Square Mars orb: 2 ° North Node Sextile Moon orb: 2 ° Chiron Sextile Chiron orb: 2 ° Ascendant Sextile Chiron orb: 2 ° Moon Trine Moon orb: 3 ° Venus Square Pluto orb: 3 ° Neptune Trine Ascendant orb: 4 IP: Logged |
shoshannazeze Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Los Angeles, CA, USA Registered: Apr 2022
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posted January 30, 2023 03:34 PM
Well I can tell you attraction is clearly there! But even with the aspects it's obvious in his behavior 🤭 These are sweet aspects! I've had Mars square Asc with the same guys too, and I think a few other ones. It's a fun thing to have but they drive me crazy. It's a sexual aspect for sure but I think a conjunction would be too overbearing (I'm the asc person again) lol. I like a nice mix of "harsher" aspects, keeps things more spicy How do you feel abt the sun square Asc? IP: Logged |
AlmaRegulus Knowflake Posts: 687 From: Registered: Apr 2021
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posted January 31, 2023 05:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoWasHere: I have a Libra Rising with Taurus Venus. My Venus squared the Leo Rising of my ex, and his Aries Venus was conjunct my descendant (opposite my ascendant). There was mutual attraction. I think any type of Venus connection indicates attraction, hard aspects give more friction than soft aspects, this can be a bit uncomfortable sometimes but doesn’t mean there is no attraction.It’s best when both people have their ascendant aspected by the Venus of the other. Also check the 7th house ruler, as this is the more personal relationship planet.
It's interesting, I have exactly same aspects but with Juno: his Juno exactly square my Asc, my Juno & Lilith on his Dsc. Was wondering actually if this was good or bad. We also have Venus on MC mutually. Why did you part away? nothing about Venus square? IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere Knowflake Posts: 808 From: The Nether World Registered: Mar 2021
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posted January 31, 2023 05:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by AlmaRegulus: It's interesting, I have exactly same aspects but with Juno: his Juno exactly square my Asc, my Juno & Lilith on his Dsc. Was wondering actually if this was good or bad. We also have Venus on MC mutually.Why did you part away? nothing about Venus square?
We were married and have kids together. The relationship lasted 15 years. Busy lives and eventually we grew apart. Composite Uranus opposite Sun, Venus and Mercury. And I think my Cancer Mars/Saturn conjunct his Moon in his 12th house maybe was a bit too harsh for him in the end. It likely didn’t help that my Libra Pluto was opposite his Aries Venus too. I’m a strong willed and even though that is attractive to him, Aries Venus 😁, it can be difficult if communication is lacking. We both didn’t feel appreciated anymore in the end. The divorce has been amicable though, we’re behaving like two adults should especially with kids involved. So it definitely wasn’t my Taurus Venus square his Leo Ascendant, I still think he’s an attractive man. We’re just not good together in a relationship anymore. IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Brooklyn Registered: Mar 2021
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posted January 31, 2023 08:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by shoshannazeze: Well I can tell you attraction is clearly there! But even with the aspects it's obvious in his behavior 🤭 These are sweet aspects! I've had Mars square Asc with the same guys too, and I think a few other ones. It's a fun thing to have but they drive me crazy. It's a sexual aspect for sure but I think a conjunction would be too overbearing (I'm the asc person again) lol. I like a nice mix of "harsher" aspects, keeps things more spicy How do you feel abt the sun square Asc?
Idk if I care or even feel that aspect being that we have quite a few squares anyway🤣 I have to get to know him more generally IP: Logged |
AlmaRegulus Knowflake Posts: 687 From: Registered: Apr 2021
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posted January 31, 2023 04:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoWasHere: We were married and have kids together. The relationship lasted 15 years. Busy lives and eventually we grew apart. Composite Uranus opposite Sun, Venus and Mercury. And I think my Cancer Mars/Saturn conjunct his Moon in his 12th house maybe was a bit too harsh for him in the end. It likely didn’t help that my Libra Pluto was opposite his Aries Venus too. I’m a strong willed and even though that is attractive to him, Aries Venus 😁, it can be difficult if communication is lacking. We both didn’t feel appreciated anymore in the end. The divorce has been amicable though, we’re behaving like two adults should especially with kids involved. So it definitely wasn’t my Taurus Venus square his Leo Ascendant, I still think he’s an attractive man. We’re just not good together in a relationship anymore.
Thank you for sharing! If I deduced it right, your Pluto was also on his Asc, that's so strong, Pluto-Venus opposition on Asc-Dsc axe! I would take it any time over Venus aspects.)) IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere Knowflake Posts: 808 From: The Nether World Registered: Mar 2021
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posted January 31, 2023 04:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by AlmaRegulus: Thank you for sharing!If I deduced it right, your Pluto was also on his Asc, that's so strong, Pluto-Venus opposition on Asc-Dsc axe! I would take it any time over Venus aspects.))
Actually, it’s my Ascendant. I’m a Libra Pluto Rising and his Libra Uranus opposite Aries Venus are on my axis. Also, he’s a Leo Rising, so Uranus is his modern 7th house ruler. It’s a powerful synastry aspect.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 168146 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 15, 2023 01:45 PM
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