posted September 08, 2016 01:54 AM            

One of them is a Scorpio. Guys around town call her a maneater. Not necessarily because she sleeps around, but she'll drop a guy in a blink without looking back.

Another is a Libra. She's the most tolerant of the Venus Virgos I know. Displayed the textbook descriptions of being helpful and selfless. She's also the type to wait till marriage to have sex - I kinda admire that.

posted September 08, 2016 05:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Mohini108:
Anyone here have a Venus in Virgo, specifically women? Is it true you people are picky, have high standards, and don't date a lot because of these qualities? I've heard these people guard their hearts pretty well and are usually the ones looking for "perfection" in people/relationships.

How are Venus in Virgos sexually?

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Yes, all true.

posted September 08, 2016 10:41 AM            

I am very picky, and my downfall is looking for perfection. That being said, I love imperfections in others. It's endearing (when its not annoying, that is! )

I do date, but I will not date someone I am not 100% interested in. If I don't have that immediate gut response that says YES then I will not continue dating someone just to wait and see if something develops. It's instant or it's never. If that feeling ever dissipates, I am out. And very much yes to liking to please our significant others.

posted September 08, 2016 11:04 AM            

This girl is so beautiful. On top of her very pretty looks is the loveliest personality, killer humor, and high intelligence.

Yet, she's never had a boyfriend. This girl epitomized high school popularity (she's a sophomore in college right now), homecoming queen, star athlete, tons of friends, boys and girls. In her sorority, she's well renown amongst a lot of frat guys as being wife material. I'm not a frat guy, but I know quite a few of them. She's popular for just how amazing she is.

posted September 08, 2016 11:15 AM            

I don't find them picky, they don't have a long scroll of requirements, but the few requirements they have are usually non-negotibles. Eager and open to love/relationship, it just that the "spark" doesn't happen that often. The virgo sun (he has never had a relationship that got to the sexual stage) and one of my friends are kinda slow-burn. My s.o and the other friend truly "fall", hard and fast.

They're accommodating, caring n willing to talk it out/compromise.

They don't look for perfection, they look for people who always strive to "better" themselves" - as per their words.

posted September 08, 2016 02:42 PM            

Is not necessarily looking for perfection, but SEES THE FLAWS so finds it hard to fall in love, unless she has falling in love aspects in her charts like strong Neptune or Pluto.

Tends to want to "serve" her loved ones, which I don't recommend because she will pick someone who needs fixing, then attempts to fix him/her. Usually with disastrous results. Hence the nagging and frustrations.

Suffers from underlying insecurities because as well as she sees your flaws, she also sees her own flaws, especially her physical flaws, even if she looks flawless to others on the outside.

Mercury in earth makes for a certain restlessness. So Venus is not relaxed in Virgo. She needs to have a purpose when she is in a relationship, something to work on.

If properly understood, this position can get better with age and time.

If nicely aspected by her SO's personal planet, she will do well and can find her voice and mission. If not nicely aspected by her SO's planet, she can really express the "Venus is in its fall in Virgo" aspect of this placement.

posted September 08, 2016 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
My neptune trines a girl's virgo venus exactly. She's not quite as critical of me (relatively).

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For Venus in Virgo, Neptune trining is a very nice aspect to have with a SO. The Neptune will make Venus way more accepting, less critical, and might even turn Virgo Venus into its polar opposite, Pisces Venus which happens to be Venus' exaltation.

posted September 09, 2016 12:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
For Venus in Virgo, Neptune trining is a very nice aspect to have with a SO. The Neptune will make Venus way more accepting, less critical, and might even turn Virgo Venus into its polar opposite, Pisces Venus which happens to be Venus' exaltation.

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Good to know, thanks! Unfortunately, her Virgo Venus is the least of my worries... haha

posted September 09, 2016 07:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Liliya:
Ahh man, I spent like an hour replying this thread with personal experiences and pix of famous females with VIV, but it kept giving me a warning.

Silly silly Mercury Rx

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posted September 09, 2016 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Liliya:
Ahh man, I spent like an hour replying this thread with personal experiences and pix of famous females with VIV, but it kept giving me a warning.

Silly silly Mercury Rx

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posted September 13, 2016 02:08 AM            

Hm. Ok.
So I'm not looking for the 'perfect' partner by any means.. Perfect by whose standards? When that Virgo critique is turned inward, in the planet of love (including self love/self worth!), we can be mighty hard on ourselves, its true. The immature ones will project that sense of imperfection outward, onto others. 'Perfection' is completely subjective and therefore unattainable. You'll be hard pressed to find many Virgo people that really get that though.

When Virgo Venus DOES get this we're simply just looking for a 'healthy' or 'pure' relationship. No frills or silly decorations. Just real. Just wholesome. I don't need you to serenade me or buy me fancy gifts, just be there and spend the quality time. It's still an earth sign.
We can guard our hearts well but when we're in love we'll do everything and anything for you. It can be a very nurturing sign.. (The Moon is the esoteric ruler of Virgo)

Or at least that's been my experience anyway. Other things will of course modify it. Personally I've found if you get my Gem Moon then it's likely I'll be attracted to you, since the moon is the ruler of my descendant. And of course mercury is the ruler of both my Venus and Moon.

posted September 13, 2016 07:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Mohini108:
Venus in Virgos are generally considered pretty loyal and faithful in relationships too, right?

And if someone could chime in, when Venus in Virgo people actually truly fall in love (which is apparently very difficult for a lot of them to do), especially female Venus in Virgos, I read they REALLY give their heart to that person. If the love is strong, they do everything in their power to make their partner happy and fulfilled, and they become immensely devoted.

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posted September 13, 2016 07:35 AM            

I don't think that I am looking for perfection. In fact, all of the men that I have had a thing with were far from it, as am I.

I agree with the others that we look for no frills in a relationship. It is more about showing you love someone. I have only had a few relationships in my life, but have been very serious about them. I do have Venus sq. Neptune, but it is wide. I am very Neptunian also. When I have fallen, it was very hard.

I agree that I am insecure and shy.

posted September 13, 2016 07:42 AM            

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Originally posted by SalemsEnd:
~~~ I'm female. Virgo Venus in 9th house. Conjunct Merc, square Moon/pluto, inconjunct Uranus, etc.

Hm. Ok.
So I'm not looking for the 'perfect' partner by any means.. Perfect by whose standards? When that Virgo critique is turned inward, in the planet of love (including self love/self worth!), we can be mighty hard on ourselves, its true. The immature ones will project that sense of imperfection outward, onto others. 'Perfection' is completely subjective and therefore unattainable. You'll be hard pressed to find many Virgo people that really get that though.

When Virgo Venus DOES get this we're simply just looking for a 'healthy' or 'pure' relationship. No frills or silly decorations. Just real. Just wholesome. I don't need you to serenade me or buy me fancy gifts, just be there and spend the quality time. It's still an earth sign.
We can guard our hearts well but when we're in love we'll do everything and anything for you. It can be a very nurturing sign.. (The Moon is the esoteric ruler of Virgo)

Or at least that's been my experience anyway. Other things will of course modify it. Personally I've found if you get my Gem Moon then it's likely I'll be attracted to you, since the moon is the ruler of my descendant. And of course mercury is the ruler of both my Venus and Moon.

Sexually I'd say quite 'raw' maybe. But I'm not REALLY sure sorry

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Wow thanks! I'm just fascinated because I know a girl with Venus in Virgo. I already described a bit of her in a previous comment somewhere above. Given her attractiveness, immense popularity, exceptionally nice personality, impeccable humor and high intelligence, I always wondered how a girl who seems so "perfect" hasn't dated, and NEVER had a boyfriend. She has a Libra Sun, Mars Leo, Moon in Sag, and Venus in Virgo.

posted September 13, 2016 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Mohini108:
Wow thanks! I'm just fascinated because I know a girl with Venus in Virgo. I already described a bit of her in a previous comment somewhere above. Given her attractiveness, immense popularity, exceptionally nice personality, impeccable humor and high intelligence, I always wondered how a girl who seems so "perfect" hasn't dated, and NEVER had a boyfriend. She has a Libra Sun, Mars Leo, Moon in Sag, and Venus in Virgo.

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posted September 13, 2016 01:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Koniucha:
Do you know if she happens to have a Venus-Saturn aspect? I have that and people like to ask me why I am single. It's a tough aspect to have, IMO

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No, but she does have a Moon Square Saturn!!

That may actually play a big role in her singleness.

posted September 18, 2016 08:26 PM            

This year is the only year I have truly opened myself up to the idea of having a relationship. Before, I used to avoid it because I was scared that maybe I may end up not liking the person or they may end up not liking me back. Mind you, Virgo does not like to waste time on nonsense.

This is definitely a placement for the "strong independent woman" types (unless Venus is in the 7th house or something like that). I can live without a partner for years and will gladly settle down alone with a cat on my lap.

I always used to reject guys even though they were very close to my ideal guy. If they missed a quality on my checklist that I am looking for, they're immediately rejected. Also, I always thought men were disgusting slobs (Virgo likes clean). I was friends with men, however.

The one amazing thing about having Venus in Virgo though, is when we find someone who can get through our filters without being perfect, we become more open to the idea of unconditional love and a loving relationship with someone. That's what my boyfriend did, and he is my first.

If you're after someone with Venus in Virgo, do not let the standards and pickiness deter you from going after her. Find a way to make her comfortable enough so she is able to show you her imperfections, and therefore, she won't demand perfection from you anymore. That's just my two cents.