posted July 03, 2018 04:55 PM            

Here's his natal chart.

And synastry. His birth hour is unknown. Just picked Jupiter on MC because of his profession. Probably wrong.

posted July 03, 2018 06:13 PM            

[QUOTE]Originally posted by crystal_clear:
[B]I know this is crazy but let's say I want to tailor my flirting to his taste ... What to wear, what to say etc... There is some mutual attraction already but we're both too shy so
knowing each other 7 years and nothing ever happened.

posted July 03, 2018 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Metaphysical and mysterious. Wear something artistic and pagan. He's high in openness and flexibility. Best of luck.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by crystal_clear:
[B]I know this is crazy but let's say I want to tailor my flirting to his taste ... What to wear, what to say etc... There is some mutual attraction already but we're both too shy so
knowing each other 7 years and nothing ever happened.

Here's his natal chart.

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What does that mean 'to wear something pagan and artistic'?

I am kind of afraid of the Moon in Virgo - searching for someone perfect. On the other hand he has 3 planets in my first house, Jupiter close to my ASC and Sun-Moon on my ASC-DSC ... I just don't understand why he never made any move.

Then, I have Chiron on his Sun/Moon midpoint. Maybe that is the reason?

posted July 04, 2018 05:06 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Literally go up to him and just kiss him, it worked on my ex with mars in Sagittarius, moon in Pisces, sun conjunct uranus in scorpio and Neptune ruling his DC.

Add that your guy has pluto in the 5th and with mars in sag conjunct uranus they will welcome that upfront out of the blue approach.

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And all that piscean energy? Moon in Virgo may find that plain inappropriate, his progressed Mars has just moved to Capricorn so also more on the conservative side. Jupiter and Neptune excess in his natal may actually support that approach but progressions need to be considered too, I think.

Of course his Moon and Venus are not in harmony with each other, also because of the square from Mars and Saturn on one side and square to Chiron on the other side.

posted July 04, 2018 12:35 PM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Wear a mermaid dress (flowing, turquoise, soft fabric) with high heels, and get your hair flowing and soft, almost invisible sparkly make-up.

Ultimately after this long I'm not sure what you wear matters, but Neptune in Capricorn conjunct DSC brings this to mind ;-)

Edit - I see that you don't have his birthtime but no matter. Three planets in Pisces disposited by Neptune in Cap generates the same answer. :-)

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Hmmm I remember we have net when Neptune just ingressed into Pisces and hit my Asc. I was indeed wearing a lot of turquoise stuff, even if I much more prefer light blue and red.

posted July 04, 2018 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by crystal_clear:
And all that piscean energy? Moon in Virgo may find that plain inappropriate, his progressed Mars has just moved to Capricorn so also more on the conservative side. Jupiter and Neptune excess in his natal may actually support that approach but progressions need to be considered too, I think.

Of course his Moon and Venus are not in harmony with each other, also because of the square from Mars and Saturn on one side and square to Chiron on the other side.

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Idk about that. Capricorns can be super kinky, I am seeing one now and he is the kinkiest person I have ever been with and I have been with many Scorpios. I met with a Moon in virgo the other day and he said "is it bad I want to kiss you right away?" That guy has Moon conjunct Venus in virgo. I told him "ofcourse not, but I want to torture you." We both laughed.

I have Capricorn rising in progressed with Venus conjunct Mars in virgo and have for many many years now, most of my life, and I am far from shy, I guess my tropic sag rising and Venus conjunct Mars in leo dominates big time.

posted July 04, 2018 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Idk about that. Capricorns can be super kinky, I am seeing one now and he is the kinkiest person I have ever been with and I have been with many Scorpios. I met with a Moon in virgo the other day and he said "is it bad I want to kiss you right away?" That guy has Moon conjunct Venus in virgo. I told him "ofcourse not, but I want to torture you." We both laughed.

I have Capricorn rising in progressed with Venus conjunct Mars in virgo and have for many many years now, most of my life, and I am far from shy, I guess my tropic sag rising and Venus conjunct Mars in leo dominates big time.

I have never kissed a guy and they get upset about it, guys respond to physicality but if you don't get that vibe he likes you then let him go.

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That's the whole thing. I do get the vibe. Maybe perhaps I asked wrong question. It's not that there's no attraction. There is. But somehow it couldn't get off the ground

There's something I omitted in the first post. For 14 years I am with someone else.

posted July 04, 2018 06:47 PM            

So he might not be making a move bc he knows you are with someone, lots of guys won't care and will still want to have something with you but he might not realize you are looking for that or open to having a romance with him.

posted July 05, 2018 08:07 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I understand. I am the last person to judge on that kind of stuff. My love life is complicated.

So he might not be making a move bc he knows you are with someone, lots of guys won't care and will still want to have something with you but he might not realize you are looking for that or open to having a romance with him.

Can you text him?

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posted July 05, 2018 11:32 AM            

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Originally posted by crystal_clear:
Yes, I can text. Once in a while we chat, but mostly about music because that's our common interest.

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So is he friends with YOU? or is he friends with your guy too? If he is friends with your guy, let it go. If he is friends with you then you can text him and flirt with him and see how he reacts, its worth the risk bc this way you can cut him loose and stop investing on him when you can be investing that energy on someone else. Odds are that he will enjoy flirting with you if you feel a vibe between you two.

IDK you can text him "hey handsome", that would be a start in the right direction LOL

posted July 05, 2018 05:45 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
So is he friends with YOU? or is he friends with your guy too? If he is friends with your guy, let it go. If he is friends with you then you can text him and flirt with him and see how he reacts, its worth the risk bc this way you can cut him loose and stop investing on him when you can be investing that energy on someone else. Odds are that he will enjoy flirting with you if you feel a vibe between you two.

IDK you can text him "hey handsome", that would be a start in the right direction LOL

I mean start by changing to tone of the dynamics between you two to some extent, be a little bold

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No, he's just friends with me. Although he knows my partner.

I just realized something. I like him on some sort of metaphysical level. It's not about physical attraction, although he's my type. But I can't imagine having sex with him. I don't know how to explain this, but I would like to possess his soul, learn everything about him, like get to know to deepest core.

posted July 05, 2018 06:22 PM            

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Originally posted by crystal_clear:
No, he's just friends with me. Although he knows my partner.

I just realized something. I like him on some sort of metaphysical level. It's not about physical attraction, although he's my type. But I can't imagine having sex with him. I don't know how to explain this, but I would like to possess his soul, learn everything about him, like get to know to deepest core.

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posted July 06, 2018 02:52 PM            

you do not need to try hard, venus in libra and piscis ascendant... you are just naturally Venusian in a refined and charming way.. something that is key for this guy. when the guy venus conjunct woman ascendant, this person is just his type.. many marriage have this aspect (man venus, woman ascendant)

venus in tenth want the woman to have presence and status sometimes. he wants a person who looks tidy, elegant and important. think of sort of Jackie Kennedy or son... not lady gaga nor Jennifer lopez...

except for mars, his moon is a little bit isolated, so he may find you very his type, but his emotional needs may not be fully fulfilled. however, your Jupiter-sun-mercury (ruler of his moon) in 6h house are qualities that a virgo moon value. for him, a person that helps with practical advice in daily situations (mercury in 6h) and bring joy to that (Jupiter) and make and illuminate that house as important (sun) are qualities appreciated by a virgo moon.

he has a conflict moon-sun... so this guy is not easy to please in terms of his ideal partner. his sun-venus in 10 is an area that your chart brings indirectly as 10 house is natural capri house and your saturn in his 5h. your moon in leo do not resonate too much...but overall, your chart suggest you activate many buttons that make you interesting and attractive to him

posted July 06, 2018 03:01 PM            

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Originally posted by crystal_clear:
Yes, I can text. Once in a while we chat, but mostly about music because that's our common interest.

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posted July 06, 2018 03:45 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
his sun conjunct your ascendant, his moon your descendant... and you wonder the impact he has on you... luminaries on the axis...

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But do I have the same impact on him?

Thank you for your thorough analysis, I will respond in more detail tomorrow.

posted July 06, 2018 07:10 PM            

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Originally posted by crystal_clear:
But do I have the same impact on him?

Thank you for your thorough analysis, I will respond in more detail tomorrow.

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the sun ascendant conjunction is complementary. you can express in your mannerism the way he is to become. this is very powerful. he may feel as if you can project how he feels deep inside. i once has this aspect with someone and i had such admiration. as he could express himself what i was without even trying....

his romantic ideal represented by venus in piscis, neptune in seventh and rulers of 7 and 5th house are very much aligned with the planets you bring to his 5th house and 6house. it is amazing that all the planets aspecting his venus in his natal (which explain all the nuances of his venus) are activated by the planets you have in his romantic 5th house. you are definitely his romantic type. probably, the only thing I am not sure about is the position of venus in 10 house. how your synastry respond to that is not clear to me. i suspect that in addition to the neptunian quality, he also find important a woman that make him look nice in public. he wants to show off his venus and he must be very charming with that venus in 10 for all to see. i can think of leo moon resonating with sun in 10, but i am not sure

where i see the major gap is in the moon. his moon has not many aspect to your planets except for semisextile to sun and aspect to mars, but mars is not a relationship planet and while it can add passion, it is rough energy. not sure if the semisextile is impactful... i have not noticed impact of minor aspect in my snyastries. so, i do not know....

posted July 07, 2018 11:45 AM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
the sun ascendant conjunction is complementary. you can express in your mannerism the way he is to become. this is very powerful. he may feel as if you can project how he feels deep inside. i once has this aspect with someone and i had such admiration. as he could express himself what i was without even trying....

his romantic ideal represented by venus in piscis, neptune in seventh and rulers of 7 and 5th house are very much aligned with the planets you bring to his 5th house and 6house. it is amazing that all the planets aspecting his venus in his natal (which explain all the nuances of his venus) are activated by the planets you have in his romantic 5th house. you are definitely his romantic type. probably, the only thing I am not sure about is the position of venus in 10 house. how your synastry respond to that is not clear to me. i suspect that in addition to the neptunian quality, he also find important a woman that make him look nice in public. he wants to show off his venus and he must be very charming with that venus in 10 for all to see. i can think of leo moon resonating with sun in 10, but i am not sure

where i see the major gap is in the moon. his moon has not many aspect to your planets except for semisextile to sun and aspect to mars, but mars is not a relationship planet and while it can add passion, it is rough energy. not sure if the semisextile is impactful... i have not noticed impact of minor aspect in my snyastries. so, i do not know....

i wish other people comment on the synastry

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Wow, thanks. It's not really the question of initial attraction because it was there. I think there still is.

What I am worried about is my Chiron squaring his Sun-Moon.

But tomorrow I will be back to my computer and I will be able to post the aspect grid.

Thanks again.

posted July 07, 2018 12:59 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
oh nooooooooo... if his houses are completely wrong anything i have said it is mooo point...

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Well, I mentioned in the first post that probably the houses are wrong because I guessed the hour based on profession. He's support engineer and fits very well with Jupiter-Sun in Pisces.

Plus, I have a Moon in Leo - fire. But have you seen Leo? Lazy ass, sleeping most of the time. Classic Sag is also not very fast.