posted April 05, 2020 11:35 AM            

I am Cancer Sun here.

posted April 05, 2020 04:13 PM            

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Originally posted by implosions:
Is it possible to post a chart made from astro dot com, perhaps? I have a hard time reading the type you've posted, sorry!

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https://ibb.co/HNmQJpp

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TOB is unknown for the outer chart

posted April 05, 2020 04:48 PM            

I also see Mars inconjunct Neptune. This can be tricky because it can make it hard to see each other clearly, lots of potential for projection or disappointment. REALLY have to see reality for what it is, nothing more. No back and forth BS blaming.

Your NN on their Pluto too; it could be that the relationship (whether close or not) will be of Plutonic themes. So power plays, dynamics and deep change, probably on either end.

Their Neptune on your DC could make it hard for you to see them clearly, and vice versa- but you'll likely have a harder time and Neptune will likely want to be evasive about it.

The Saturn contacts could be a saving grace however, but not if both of you aren't willing to put in the work.

I do see they have Uranus/Moon/Venus conjunct in Aquarius, which is next to your Saturn. That's probably what you feel, because they're emotions are likely all over the place compared to what you typically need in terms of stability.

posted April 05, 2020 04:57 PM            

Btw pink glasses is a thing to me because of my Moon-Neptune aspect and I am too kind.

posted April 05, 2020 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Claudine:
implosions,
Thank you for your detailed reply.
Neptune is tricky here, it was love from first sight for me ^^
I still don’t know what to do. I’m ready to work, but I’m not sure if the other person wants to be dedicated... or at least bothered.
Also I am afraid to be pushed away if I try to do something to talk to each other again.
They seem so independent and somewhat cold to me.

Btw pink glasses is a thing to me because of my Moon-Neptune aspect and I am too kind.

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Hm, I have been in similar situations before, and although it is very scary, just doing the hard thing and talking about it (or opening to talk about it) is the only thing that progressed it along.

I can see how they would seem distant or distracted with Moon/Uranus, that is very all-over-the-place emotions, and with Venus there they value their emotions and emotional freedom a LOT. They may not enjoy having your Saturn in that space, but since your NN is on their Pluto, it could be that they'll have to face it eventually, anyway.

But either way, no matter who a person is to you or in general, if they don't want to communicate about anything, then you have to own yourself and carry on with your own life. We can NEVER control another, only ourselves.

I know you have Moon/Neptune aspect, but you also have Pluto/Moon. I think you have that power to deal with the hard emotions. Kindness is never a bad thing. You don't have to be cruel to communicate or talk to someone.

posted April 05, 2020 05:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Claudine:
Your words mean a lot to me.
Thank you for your support.
I think I need more time to think about everything...
You gave me a bigger picture.

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I wish you luck!