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Topic: @Todd which composite more promising?
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livvywatermonkey
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posted September 07, 2020 06:17 PM
  
Hi Todd,I was wondering if you could take a look at these two composites & let me know which you think has more “legs”? ... my experience of talking to man in composite 1: that there is a lot of opportunity for growth in unconscious wounds (most of our planets fall in each other’s 10-12th houses) but it’s uncomfortable for me as the feeling of being “okay right now” quickly flies out the window (I have Pisces Sun & Moon conjunct IC) ... I have the feeling of being “seen through”, & of constantly challenged by the dynamic so far. Feelings of comfort in the dynamic are seemingly unreliable as deep issues inside me are constantly being activated, & easily overriding other feelings of familiarity with each other. I’ve been thinking if I work through my issues fast now, they needn’t influence things later but maybe there is a basic incompatibility too I’m not seeing/facing up to my experience of talking to man in composite 2: I feel that we have easy conversational chemistry & that we’d have amazing sexual chemistry too. I have less of a sense of status imbalance between us than with composite 1 man; composite 2 man & I are closer together in age. I feel that I don’t need to work through as much to feel okay/reach a sense of comfort & safety in our dynamic, as with composite 1 man. His Vertex conjuncts my Pisces Sun & Moon Composite 1
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Randall
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posted September 08, 2020 09:30 AM
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todd
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posted September 08, 2020 02:56 PM
Neither chart shows"legs".
The first chart as you mentioned end is the more enlightening with mercury square the node and Jupiter. This gives a very strong mental and psychic connection .with Jupiter/node the is a otherworldly mental connection that can promise great knowledge.
But with Neptune/mars also square there is likely passive resistance arguments.Jupiter square to Neptune invariably leads to deception..
Uranus/sun conjunct adds to the psychic energies and gives vibrance and overall interesting lessons but with moon square to the Saturn,the relationship is somewhat bipolar,that is either up or down but no much balanced emotional energy to build a relationship on.IP: Logged |
todd
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posted September 08, 2020 03:08 PM
Venus sextiles to Jupiter and the node does show a sincere affection and overall comparability, but the mars/Neptune square the node is very unfaithful.
The vertex opposed to Saturn can give a sense of purpose to his presence in your life but the Venus/Uranus and Venus/sum midpoints conjunct Saturn are indictations of the underlying emotional tension.
I would think the unrequited emotion commitment will be the issue that ends this potential relationship before the month is out
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livvywatermonkey
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posted September 08, 2020 04:32 PM
Thanks Randall, I was wondering about that!Thank you Todd, I’ve been involved in a similar dynamic before & was hung up on the person for a long time because of confusion ... Just checking, we have Moon sextile Saturn in composite but he has Moon square Saturn natally - I understand if this doesn’t really change your assessment though. In any case I appreciate having clarity about it  IP: Logged |
todd
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posted September 08, 2020 08:43 PM
Hi ya
The second chart with vertex/sun/Venus square the I NEP one and Uranus is quite q bit lore passionate and focuses d on the moment.
Mars square the node almost gives a magnetic personal connect.actually both charts have strong nodes and vertex's which give a sense of higher purpose or destiny y to the relationships.but these otherworldly feelings GS are very difficult to include a a normal human relationship .
Though the Uranus/Neptune gives you intense emotional and physical attraction,this chart with Saturn square Pluto has a darker feel.the midpoint of there are square to Jupiter so he may be more set in his single ways.
As I mentioned both charts are drawn to "higher" energies which make me WO set if you ate not really ready to go one on one.this chart promises greater life intensity while the first chart showed the pote trial of greater awareness.
In the short term the second seems more "stable" but neither really look like your destination.
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HieronymusTush
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posted September 12, 2020 01:58 PM
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Dear todd I hope you are very very well - very glad to see you back as well. There was a "relationship" that I desperately wondered your take on. It's long over now, and they have not been in contact, but it's still boggling my mind, wondering what happened there as it was so abrupt. Stoika read the charts so well throughout but it ended so weird and unexpectedly that we both wondered what went wrong and what we both missed. Can you help out? I hope it will also be interesting to sort of read the charts after the events Here was the charts and all that happened: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/010146.html
My very best to the original poster and sorry for the interruption! <3
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livvywatermonkey
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posted September 17, 2020 04:50 PM
Thanks for response Todd ^_^ what you say makes a lot of sense. You have a knack for this stuff for sure When you say I may not be ready to go one on one with these relationships which are drawn to higher energies, does this come from observing my chart, in the sense that my Pisces Sun/Moon/IC conjunction & Leo Chiron in 8th are sensitive points & can make me vulnerable to criticism/emotional inattentiveness/
withdrawal/abandonment, especially from a male figure? When you say neither look like my destination, with the first person, is this mainly because there does not seem like there is enough “relationship glue”/mutual romantic attraction, like we wouldn’t have enough of an emotional bridge to negotiate all these higher energies which are activated, & also that it doesn’t seem like enough of an equal partnership, with a kind of status imbalance between me & him? IP: Logged |
todd
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posted September 19, 2020 08:50 PM
My comments were based in the observations that both composite charts had strong otherworldly/karmic aspects.one has a strong node and the other a strong vertex,so it was clear you are drawn to relationships with a potential to experience "higher" planes .I didn't focus on your natal,though if you post your Natal with vertex,node and true Lilith, the influence/aspect in your chart drawing you to such men may be apparentIP: Logged |
livvywatermonkey
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posted September 19, 2020 09:39 PM
Thanks Todd, Ah okay, sure thing -  I didn’t notice before the Venus-Vertex square in my chart - my Vertex is also conjunct my Child & name asteroid  IP: Logged |
todd
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posted September 19, 2020 10:34 PM
I really wish Randall would explain why many of my post are delayed,sometimes for a day other times forever.I posted a reply to this thread and the reply is lost.yet I also posted a reply to implosion and that post was immediately posted.
For that matter a few weeks ago I posted something and the post wasn't shown.but a few minutes later saggy7 referenced reading that post when she asked a question about another chart .so how could see see my post and respond to it but the post didn't show up when I looked for it.???????when I make thesevpist the thread appears at the top of the column but my response is not there.the last post to that thread is shown.so how is it that my posted ate blocked to me yet others can see the"missing," post?????!??.
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livvywatermonkey
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posted September 19, 2020 10:39 PM
I think I have a similar problem Todd, I use Safari browser on my phone to reply and edit posts because it remembers my password, but I have to use another browser to check most recent posts including my own, as they do not always show on SafariIP: Logged |
todd
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posted September 20, 2020 06:53 PM
Well it seems we were both correct.your moon/sun conjunction sextile to your Uranus/Neptune conjunction certainty by could be your interest with higher planes.and the sun/moon and Uranus/Neptune conjunctions are trine and sextiles to the vertex.You Venus square to the vertex shows distinctly your connection to vertex/intense relationships.
Your named asteroid conjunct to child and the vertex implies a great desire for child. And the Venus/mars/Saturn stellium implies you look for stable and long-term relationships.
One obstacle is that the vertex makes your emotional/sexual presence so strong that most men will attracted to these characteristics rather than your maternal/nature and desires.
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todd
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posted September 20, 2020 07:12 PM
My problems are a bit more complicate d.for instance I posted a reply to this thread 10 minutes ago and it hasn't shown up .but I just reied to another thread and it appeared immediately.IP: Logged |
viviette
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posted September 20, 2020 08:12 PM
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Originally posted by todd:
I ..many of my post are delayed,sometimes for a day other times forever.I posted a reply to this thread and the reply is lost.yet I also posted a reply to implosion and that post was immediately posted...
I posted something and the post wasn't shown.but a few minutes later saggy7 referenced that post when she asked a question about another chart .so how could she see my post and respond to it ..
the thread appears at the top of the column but my response is not there
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Hi Todd I get this too. My tips are : wait until the new page loads, after posting. If the post is not there, delete cookies / history and look for the post again . IP: Logged |
todd
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posted September 20, 2020 10:34 PM
Sometimes the post appear after a couple days.IP: Logged |
livvywatermonkey
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posted September 21, 2020 07:22 PM
Latest post not appearing just happened to me again, but on the browser I thought always worked - I cleared cookies and data, as per Vivienne’s advice, & post appeared.Thanks for reading Todd  I found that funny you said men’s experience of me would be so strong & they wouldn’t be attracted to my nurturing side haha  I was wondering if you can tell from our synastry if this person is attracted to me, & if so whether it is just to my emotional/sexual presence or also potentially to my nurturing side? What does his true Lilith conjunct my North Node and our nodal axis reversed conjunction mean? What does my natal Priapus-Pluto square mean!? IP: Logged |
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