posted March 13, 2003 07:15 AM              

I havnt been here in a long long while. Today I carefully read everything posted here. Being a scorpio woman myself i cudnt stop myself from sharing some thoughts.

SCM is very right in saying that scorpion women feel WEAK=WRONG. I could be dying inside me but i wudnt say a word to tell on my insecurities and weaknesses. Scorpion women carry an "I dont care" mask on but actually we are really really sensitive. MAybe you wudve noticed she observes the very smallest of your gestures.Somewhere in our brains we keep an account of all your deeds and decide to trust you or not.Its a long process to win our trust but we make sure we make it worth all the effort ;-) (scorpions are very fair)

One thing is there...scorp gals will try and say..."I am incharge here...I know everything" but they are on the lookout for a guy who says "Darling...u may know a lot....but i know better". We need to be taught to let go emotionally. We need someone who can scold us when we go overboard on our senstivity.

I think she needs you now,she mite not say it,but she truly "NEEDS" you now.Save your ego for the later,you need a lot of that to win a scorps respect...right now she needs your love,acceptance and understanding.

Well...I guess i went a little overboard on the whole thing.I hope i made some sense.

posted March 13, 2003 06:39 PM            

Well, I'm glad to hear you only crawled into the bottle for a week following your breakup and that you managed to crawl out again. As I said, Scorpio women are hard to forget.

Wishing you luck with turning the situation around.

jwhop

posted March 14, 2003 12:13 PM              

No offense meant to any ladies, but I realized there's a lot of women on this site & almost everyone says to just express their feelings, pretty much just put it all out there, almost like a soap, ya know...

And you can't really do that in real life,
it puts too much pressure on the other indivdual, things need to be done gradually & trust needs to be rebuilt slowly.

posted March 14, 2003 12:52 PM              

Soap... That's why I really couldn't identify with the situation. As you're right... Or in my own personal experience anyway... no two people are ever going to know exactly what the other one needs or wants... it's just trial and error basically.

Optimistic??.... Not a thing wrong with that!

posted March 14, 2003 01:58 PM              

Ya, I think I shared a bit too much

Have to protect my anonyminity

posted May 22, 2003 01:04 PM              

This is what I posted:
"90% do not have one the 1st time they sleep with a man, which drops a little after more time being with (teaching) a man (so guys stop fooling yourselves)"

Meaning the first time a woman is with a particular man, not the first time they've ever had sex.

If you're speaking about women being able to reach orgasm when they lose their virginity I think you're absolutely right.

Typically, orgasm is the last thing on a woman's mind the first time she has sex. But what do I know, I'm a dude & only guessing

posted May 22, 2003 02:37 PM              

Honesty is important, but Scorpios will not alway tell you the truth because they do not want to hurt your feelings. Instead they will try and pry the truth out of you. They are very funny without meaning to be but hate to be laughed at. As for the temper they keep it in private like everything else. Being emotional and physical in private is about respect and women look for that.

If a person has a lot of eighth house planets, they feel like a Scorpio to me, especially the moon and saturn. My Grandparents had the best relationship, both had eighth house moons in water signs and one was a Scorpio with Leo rising, and the other Capricorn with a Sag rising. They seemed to understand each other very well.
I relate very well to eighth house people. It's very much about feeling in control over your own emotions, but still able to ask for help.

posted May 22, 2003 03:12 PM              

Scorps are really prudes. They are very shy about their bodies. Mine once told me he wasn't wearing any underwear and wanted to know if I could tell. I said well let me check and he got so mad. He doesn't like to viewed as a sexual object, but what does he expect with a line like that? It hit me like a warm breeze.

I mean, if you are uncomfortable about your body I understand but I don't view the male body as anything to be ashamed of. As long as there are no holes in those jeans it's okay to me.

posted May 23, 2003 12:12 PM              

Well... accept for the "Born-Again" virgins,
you know, the girls who reinvent themselves as virgins again & again, only to tell the "new" story of losing the viginity