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Topic: How do Leo women flirt/approach/court men?
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Lost Leo unregistered
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posted July 02, 2003 06:55 PM
"It's a Leo thing and the worse thing a Leo's mate can do is lose the mystery or the challenge"There you go Kip! The key to the mint  IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted July 02, 2003 07:04 PM
Well, Kipp's a Pisces so he's got the mystery thing in the bag.  IP: Logged |
Kippendorf unregistered
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posted July 03, 2003 12:52 AM
Haha..good call Lioneye. I am quite mysterious. She doesnt have a clue to what i am and told me that in other words herself. But at what point do i ask her WHATS GOING ON?! is my question. She has been quite free with me, play punches and stuff liek that. Argh..sorry i feel immature and ignorant...but considering this is going to be my first woman, i think i have a right to!
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lioneye68 unregistered
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posted July 05, 2003 02:54 PM
Hey, Kipp! That's a tough one...I personally feel awkward having those kinds of conversations, you know the "let's put all our cards on the table and reach some conclusions about us" kind of conversations. Thing is, she's still checking it out, and probably isn't ready to verbally commit to anything, until she's made up her mind one way or another.If you really want to know how she feels about you, kiss her. If she turns her head, she's not ready to be physical with you. If she doesn't .....trust me, it'll be a good indicator. Don't worry, she won't slap you or call you an idiot or anything like that. Leos love affection, and they're pretty confident as well, so she'll think it only right that you WANT to kiss her. She won't hold it against you, let's put it that way. And if she DOES kiss you back, it's gonna make your toes curl! Leos are very passionate. Good luck! Oh, and what happened with the Virgo lady you were asking about before? Don't let the Lionesse know that you are/were interested in another, or the only kiss you'll get from her is the "kiss of death"!  Leos do not like to be expected to compete or prove their worth. They're obviously a cut about the crowd, and if anyone doesn't get that, they're a fool. (Leos can be a bit full of themselves sometimes ) IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted July 05, 2003 04:28 PM
Yeah, what happened to the Virgo? I was all ready to give you tips and advice. Lots of humour, Virgos have a great sense of humour.Maybe this lady has venus in virgo? Natasha IP: Logged |
financechick unregistered
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posted July 06, 2003 02:23 AM
okey dokey...even though I identify MORe with my pices placements, i DO have Leo tendancies when it comes to dating...my best girlfriend is a scorp and she says I am just waaaay too tough on men LOLSo anyway...here it goes. Make lots of eye contact with me. I make eye contact when I'm interested in someone and I can tell when it makes the guy uneasy...which is most of the time unless he's a Scorp or Virgo..Scorps will stare right back as if it's some game of who's going to look away first and the Virgo will just flirt like crazy the more you give him eye contact. Engag me in coversation...don't try and come off with some lame arse line...I can smell the BS from a mile away and will gladly point it out to you up front. Sincere compliments...no.."you are so hot...blah..balh..blah...." this one scorp I know complimented me on how I look when i put my glasses on....maybe not the most glamorous compliment but it was something that showed me he notices the little things...totally turned me on. The Virgo made a comment about how I use fork in my left hand even though I'm right handed...I took that as a compliment too...that means he's "studying" me...picking up the little things that make me..ME. Those things impress me. I do not like a cheapskate...but don't flash your money either like you're trying to impress me...money should never BE an issue with a Leo...biggest way to turn me off is to brag about your mone and posessions. Leo's like nice things and you should already be aware of that going into it. I don't EXPECT gifts, I appreciate the thought more than the gift esepcially if it's a gift other than flowers....flowers are easy...give me something that shows me you put some thought into it. this is just how I am...other Leo women could be different...and Lost Leo...although we have a lot of similar chart placements...you wouldn't get very far with this leo playing that scheme that you're playing on the other leo you speak of. She must be an extremely inexperienced Leo. MEEEEOOOOOOOWWWWWWW!!!
And remember, i am paying attention and weighing every single last word you say...and I will NOT forget it..heehee... you can't pull one over on me. It's really odd, i can see a lot of the leo traits inme when it comes to dating...the whole.."peeking at you from behind the wall" and having many admirers....I used to be totally oblivious to this until the Virgo that moved back south made a comment about me having "many members in my fan club..." or something like that...first time I was ever aware. Oh sure..I let the pices out and I flirt and tease bt I can pull it right back faster than you can say Adios. IP: Logged |
Kippendorf unregistered
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posted July 06, 2003 06:56 AM
Hi to Lioneye and finance!What both of said make sense. Can either/both of you add me to your msn?kippendorf@hotmail.com With regards to the virgo girl, well..the girl we are talking of was born 21Aug 1976. Which made me think she was virg0.She has both virgo and leo in her. more virgo in her than leo. So i m not really sure what i m dealing with! She makes eye contact A LOT!! she does little things that make me wonder if she s interested! But as i said, this is my first girl and i dont know how to interpret her moves K
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Lost Leo unregistered
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posted July 07, 2003 02:07 PM
Ha!  IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted July 07, 2003 03:33 PM
"They stick with dudes w/o any offical commitment or anything. They play no games, just kinda "need" a man so they let them have their cake, and eat it too"What do you mean, LL? That they can fool around with other women if they want?  IP: Logged |
financechick unregistered
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posted July 07, 2003 10:33 PM
Lost Leo..I didn't CHASE him...it was pretty evident to everyone the mutual feelings we had for eachother....there was no chase involved.Chasing someone means showing up at places you know they're going to be...I never did that...chasing someone is asking for their number before they would offer to give it....I never did that... I don't chase...never have...it's the reason why most people think I'm aloof. Even the guy I was dating...I seldom called him...he always called me to ask me to do things... Just the way I am I suppose. IP: Logged |
Lost Leo unregistered
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posted July 08, 2003 02:37 PM
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pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 08, 2003 02:48 PM
It is a common misconception that Virgo's are totally faithful. They are, when married, totally faithful, but they are not when dating or living with someone unless you make that very clear. Contrary to what most people believe, Virgo's are very outgoing, charming and they like to mess around, ask Carlo. He talks about it in one of the other threads. LOL Chasing:
to follow regularly or persistently with the intention of attracting or alluring I think that the pursuit or chase of another also involves, the dropping of the hints, flirting, letting the person know you are available (not to be confused with stalking which means, ahhh, why is this dude here at my women's only gym). LOL.......
I don't give chase too much. Well, I mean I like to flirt and play. Mostly, when I am interested I find myself having long talks along the intellectual nature. Someone can be hot, but I NEED that brain interaction.  IP: Logged |
Lost Leo unregistered
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posted July 08, 2003 04:53 PM
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lioneye68 unregistered
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posted July 09, 2003 11:33 PM
A Virgo in love will never stray...they're far too idealistic about the important things in life...although they're not too emotionally thin-skinned to enjoy a meaningless romp when it happens to come their way...just like many other signs. Sign of 'the Virgin' or not, we're all trash when we hit the sheets (some comedian said that) Virgos are very concerned with their partner's pleasure when they care about them...even to the point of it being the primary priority. Up and above their own pleasure. Sometimes my ex would not even let himself finish...like on purpose (?!) And I'd be uh, well maintained, but he wouldn't even finish once. Kind of odd.. Oops...but this is a thread about flirting with a Leo...sorry.IP: Logged |
Lost Leo unregistered
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posted August 05, 2003 01:09 PM
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sthenri unregistered
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posted August 05, 2003 01:44 PM
Are you important to her? Is she important to you? It would be good if you can tell her someway, that you want to be important to her, that she can rely on you. If she is keeping secrets from you, it's because she doesn't view as important in her life, or else she has serious issues. You will have to find out.You can tell by the way she is flirting if she feels comfortable about it, or if it makes her nervous. If she is really nervous about it, or pulls back then I would say she's not serious. Natasha IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted August 05, 2003 02:26 PM
Leo ladies usually have at least a handfull of suiters pursueing them. But really, they only audition for the role of queen...they have to be your one and only, and they'll offer the same loyalty in return... if they choose you. But they have to get your individed attention first, and see what you act like when you're really into someone. If you knew that she has others vieing for that spot beside her, you would hold back...wouldn't let yourself fall, and she wouldn't see what you're really like in full-on romance mode. It's kind of manipulative, but how else does a girl know?I can't speak for all Leo ladies, but I play for keeps. I don't care much for casual relationships. Casual = non-passionate, and I gotta have passion. So, may the best man win, but they can't know they have competition, because that would color the way they act in one way or another. Know what I'm saying? IP: Logged |
Aphrodite unregistered
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posted August 05, 2003 02:48 PM
Hi Lost Leo,I was under the impression (wrong of me, tsk tsk) that you've dated multiple people at once too. And, dated people who are dating others. At least, I have. Speaking on terms of dating, excluding astrological schmaltz, if you have a feeling that she's seeing one other guy---and she's beautiful. Well, chances are it could be 5 or more  I never told the guys I was dating that I was seeing other people, if we were on casual terms only. When I only wanted casual dates, I kept it like that and they knew. Some were writing me e-mails everyday, which made me back off and think . . . Ick, desperate and weird . . . and I don't write back until a few days pass. Some women like that whole everyday communication routine. Dunno why Especially, when there's other people in the pool to hang out with. Anyway, when it was me then like this . . . if a guy was remotely hinting any interest in whom else I was dating, I got very annoyed. IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted August 05, 2003 03:06 PM
Lioneye I think men do not consider that there are platonic relationships going on. He is thinking I have been told, she is seeing someone else, therefore she is sexual with someone else, otherwise why would she hide it? It's difficult to say that. But I agree I find it aggravating to have my personal space invaded.It's kind of rough, but you could say to someone, I separate my friends and lovers, a friend is a friend and that's all. I do not have any lovers only friends because to me that is everything. Natasha IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted August 05, 2003 03:10 PM
When I mean someone, I mean Lost Leo, you could say this to her, and if she doesn't say it back then you know more.Wow that moon in Pisces makes you a romantic doesn't it? My best friend has the moon in Pisces and she can carry on secret relationships with men for years. Natasha IP: Logged |
Lost Leo unregistered
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posted August 05, 2003 07:35 PM
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posted August 06, 2003 03:39 PM
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posted August 06, 2003 03:57 PM
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lioneye68 unregistered
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posted August 06, 2003 09:09 PM
Hey... So it went well, did it? That's good. Virgo rising, eh? Hmmm. Not sure what to make of that. I know lots of Virgo's but I'm not sure if I know any Virgo risers. Except Pid, of course, who I don't actually know-know. Leo, do you have Venus in the 12th house? I'm just curious. So, shall I be sending you that picture in the near future then? The one that I saw a while ago, remember? The painting of a lion and a lioness lieing down together in a grassy African landscape? A Leo-Leo couple simply MUST have this picture, Dahling. It's so perfect. It's simply divine.  IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted August 07, 2003 01:36 PM
Leo, why are you going around deleting all your posts? Too incriminating? Planning on running for office or something? I think it's sad that you don't feel free to say what you want to say anymore. Why?  IP: Logged | |